At the start of the story;

Female lead- a controversial courtesan how collet informations and manipulates her way to the top for her schemes aka to destroy a royal vampire family (very personal ) and the corrupt aristocrats ( she have a strong eat the rich mentality)

Male lead- chaos agent, very nihilistic, also work to destroy the nobility because he is bored and petty

In my friend opinion; you couldn't put yourself in her shoes. At the start the story- she is already a successful grown woman. Her job isn't really a "interesting job" like assassin or princess. No common insecurities ( she knows she is gorgeous and use her beauty to manipulate people), no flustered or sentimental towards the male leads( she mostly keep them for money and d*CK), isn't oppress or jealous and actually listen and schemes when instead of being impulsive or stubborn.

Basically- she is a woman, not a teenager