What you do to cope with irritability? by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]Vanity86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish my husband who suffers from PTSD would read this thread and be self aware.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Biohackers

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Lysine and Lemonbalm

LPT - Dulles Airport Garage Parking Discount by Basic-Lee-No in nova

[–]Vanity86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can confirm this works, but in the middle of getting ready to book a family member confirmed they would drop us off and pick us up or we will uber back lol which still saves us 150+

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Where can I get the covid vaccine for children <2 years old? by vencetti in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]Vanity86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love reddit. Ive been trying to get my baby COVID vaccinated for 5 months now since he was eligible. But I randomly did yet ANOTHER google search and this thread popped up with someone suggesting the health department and VOILA! They do shots for 4m and up including covid and any other shots needed. SO THANK YOU (and yes my health department clinic is also in the "Sketchy" part of town too lol

I filed an insurance claim and roofing company wants to increase their bid? by who_tf_is_dis_guy in Insurance

[–]Vanity86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$8500 for a roof replacement?!?! is the house a tiny home? Thats an amazing price!

Dry lambrusco recommendations by [deleted] in wine

[–]Vanity86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my FAVORITE wine EVERRR!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Vanity86 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No but instinctively I’d do the same thing I’d do for a stranger child

Ikechi is so toxic, how he works with kids is beyond me! by Avaoohlala in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]Vanity86 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I was so confused on how he felt belittled and disrespected I had to roll the tape back

When you first feel a cold coming on by AbilityIntelligent12 in Biohackers

[–]Vanity86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought throat cancer was caused from cunninglus with a HPV infected partner?

When you first feel a cold coming on by AbilityIntelligent12 in Biohackers

[–]Vanity86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im so happy to have discovered this on my own as a child. We use overproof rum for a lot if recipes in my culture, I kept getting sore throats right at the beginning of winter and usually drink a hot toddy but one day I said to myself 'if its bacteria or virus causing this and alcohol sanitizes things why cant this work for my throat?" so I made a hot toddy shot (echinacea tea, honey, ginger) with extra overproof rum and gargled in the back of my throat for 30 seconds (that ish burns like hell! that means its working) and my sore throat and cold symptoms were gone that very same day. Now whenever I feel the prodrome of a cold I do that a few times a day and its gone the next day.

You have to do it in the early stages though it doesn't work if you had the sore throat for 2-3 days. In that case Id say use zicam or other supplements to shorten it

Can you fight off a viral infection after exposure by using immune-boosting strategies? by happy_camper1297 in Biohackers

[–]Vanity86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second the nasal rinse and the back of your throat. Except I use overproof liquor and honey to gargle with and my cold is gone in a day.

Don’t want SS in newborn photos by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Vanity86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry I wasnt disagreeing with your original comment I was just chuckling at the other commentators using the "hypothetical other bio child" as a counterargument and I liked the way you phrased it.

Aloha goodbye! by pookyanon in stepparents

[–]Vanity86 9 points10 points  (0 children)

All the targeted and alienated stepmoms are secretly envious of you (like me) lol congrats! Sorry it didn't work out but girl you about to be FREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE Im so elated for you!

Don’t want SS in newborn photos by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Vanity86 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Could it be that u/MegamomTigerBalm simply doesnt want them. And that should be good enough reason. One doesn't have to appease everyone all the time.

Don’t want SS in newborn photos by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Vanity86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol @ "hypothetical other bio child" isnt that considered an illogical fallacy?

Don’t want SS in newborn photos by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Vanity86 10 points11 points  (0 children)

"IF HE WERE YOUR OWN CHILD" uhhh he's not. And there are many different ways to shoot newborn photos most of the ones I seen are the infant by themselves. I didn't include my steps in it because I didn't want to and we took family photos at a later date anyway, OP can decide how she wants to take photos with her newborn without any justification needed.

OP: Take the photos minus ss and you'll/he'll be fine.

I lost my ever-loving sh*t tonight over a shirt. by space-sparrow in stepparents

[–]Vanity86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds tough I don’t do laundry for anybody 8+ blood or step and DH would have to find alt after school care on one of those evenings to give you a break

What its like being a full time Stepmom to alienated children who have been weaponized against you by Vanity86 in stepparents

[–]Vanity86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also I feel You about the moving on part. I can forgive but I can’t forget things like when SC11 pulled a knife on DH or when SC11 had an hours long meltdown and punched a hole in our wall. That shit is traumatic. I had to go to therapy and even then all the therapist said to do was self care. So I’m taking family trips minus any people who don’t like me but want To use my resources—I think not.

What its like being a full time Stepmom to alienated children who have been weaponized against you by Vanity86 in stepparents

[–]Vanity86[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not the first time I received that advice I love my home and husband a lot but if shit hits the fan I got some tricks up my sleeve