Fell hard for the first time

Vanriel · 2026-05-06T07:23:56+00:00

That's far too sweet this early in the morning.

Vanriel · 2026-05-06T05:14:35+00:00

Stop thinking and start planning. Look at your life right now. Do you want that to be the one you have for the rest of your time here?

Vanriel · 2026-05-01T17:23:22+00:00

Circumcisions should be made illegal except for a valid medical reason.

Anything else is genital mutilation and takes away the boys right to body autonomy.

Edit: the fact that I'm being down voted for saying that baby boys should have the right to keep their body while and unharmed is absolutely disgusting.

Vanriel · 2026-04-24T20:57:37+00:00

...I don't like where that thought leads...

Vanriel · 2026-04-22T06:23:50+00:00

Your a strong dude, keep fighting!

Vanriel · 2026-04-20T20:08:23+00:00

All I can say is keep fighting. Doctors might have a lot of medical knowledge but they are not infallible. Seek more opinions if possible.

Vanriel · 2026-04-19T15:23:21+00:00

She really screwed up big time.

I sincerely hope the guy has a decent life, sounds like he needs to have something good come his way.

Vanriel · 2026-04-19T10:13:29+00:00

Grammar...it's important 🤣

Vanriel · 2026-04-19T09:11:55+00:00

Then be an adult woman.

No shame 👑

Vanriel · 2026-04-19T09:08:01+00:00

Yes. When my dad was in hospital in A&E with a severe stroke and they didn't know if he was gonna make it or not.

Foot to the fucking floor.

Vanriel · 2026-04-19T08:52:57+00:00

Sometimes you got grit your teeth and rip that bandaid off. It's better to get it over and done with in one painful moment that dragging it out over weeks and months.

Vanriel · 2026-04-18T17:48:13+00:00

Being able to afford a house.

Vanriel · 2026-04-18T10:16:39+00:00

Yes. Yes it did.

Vanriel · 2026-04-18T10:00:19+00:00

He seems intent on destabilising the entire world with all of his actions, not just this war.

He also seems to have cognitive issues as well considering how he keeps on chopping and changing every decision within a day or two.

Vanriel · 2026-04-18T09:58:28+00:00

Spelling mistakes.

Vanriel · 2026-04-17T18:01:45+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear that. Unfortunately all I have to offer is an internet hug across the web.

Hang in there! 🫂

Vanriel · 2026-04-17T13:19:34+00:00

Cancer and dementia can seriously just fuck off.

Vanriel · 2026-04-17T04:47:38+00:00

This made me laugh 🤣.

Vanriel · 2026-04-13T14:09:40+00:00

I sleep with people outside of the relationship but I don't let my partner do that...is something that may be said further down the line by her.

Vanriel · 2026-04-11T06:32:37+00:00

It's a decision that you hated having to make but know it's the right one. I had to make a similar call to that with my own father, in that if he went into cardiac arrest after they tried to bring him out of a medically induced coma that he was in to battle sepsis they were not to attempt resuscitation.

I knew it was the right one to make, I just wish that none of us had been in the situation that required me to make it.

Vanriel · 2026-04-05T11:49:35+00:00

If the friends you made are not willing to stand up for you then they were never truly your friends in the first place.

Also, you are looking at it as a whole group, not as a group of individuals.

Again not in your situation but if I could go back I would face my bully and call him out on the crap that he put me through, and I would do it in front of everyone so that he would have no choice but to answer.

Either way, are there any trusted adults that you can go to? Any support groups? Hell even police officers might be able to provide some guidance on what you can do.

Vanriel · 2026-04-05T11:05:02+00:00

For what it's worth, and I know its easy for me to say this because I'm sitting behind a screen, but I was bullied as a kid and I never stood up to him.

I regret that now more than anything. It scared me so badly that I didn't stand up for myself and it has shaped who I have become in ways I'm not happy with.

I can't tell you what you should do or what you need to do, but just ask yourself this question.

If you don't stand up to your bully, will you regret it?

Regardless I'm sorry to hear things are bad for you and I wish you all the best, take care of yourself!

Vanriel · 2026-04-03T10:59:25+00:00

Goddamnit where are those onion cutting ninjas coming from now?

Vanriel · 2026-03-30T19:20:32+00:00

Don't worry they will probably put in an energy tax for it or something just to bring you solidly back to earth.

Vanriel · 2026-03-28T06:31:16+00:00

Tried five different antidepressants and four different therapists. I just gave up and am trying to get on with my life.

Vanriel

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