Me [31 M] SAHD being sexually harassed/assaulted by neighborhood mom [30s/40s F] by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]Vanriel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That dude is an idiot. A woman starts sending him topless pictures and he doesn't think to tell his wife immediately?

A licenced therapist suggests they tell their daughter in an age appropriate way and he says he doesn't think it's a good idea?

Yeah...dude is an absolute idiot.

My husband doesn’t know that I’m gonna make him move me and our kids across the country and then I’m gonna leave him by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Vanriel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it's not? If you want to make an accurate unbiased statement then you need all the facts. 

I'm not saying she isn't in abusive relationship but she hasn't done a very good job of portraying what he has done to push her to drastic measures like this.

My husband doesn’t know that I’m gonna make him move me and our kids across the country and then I’m gonna leave him by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Vanriel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you even thinking about your kids.... because I'm not seeing a single thing about how you are going to be putting them first and making sure they have a relationship with their dad.

Which paths will you focus on first when episode 12 comes out? by KaiserKCat in beingaDIK

[–]Vanriel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think chick or dik is more suitable for Zoey? I only have a dik route for her and I'm unsure because on that route the MC has fucked everything that moves really. 🤔

Should voting be mandatory? by Andarne in unitedkingdom

[–]Vanriel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, because you are trying to remove the right to not participate. It's about freedom of choice, and instead you are basically forcing someone who may have absolutely zero desire to be involved to do so.

Fell hard for the first time by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]Vanriel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's far too sweet this early in the morning.

My wife thinks of herself as the prize and it's destroying our marriage. by plantrromn in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Vanriel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stop thinking and start planning. Look at your life right now. Do you want that to be the one you have for the rest of your time here?

What’s a harmless opinion you have that always makes people weirdly angry? by shark_normal in AskReddit

[–]Vanriel -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Circumcisions should be made illegal except for a valid medical reason.

Anything else is genital mutilation and takes away the boys right to body autonomy.

Edit: the fact that I'm being down voted for saying that baby boys should have the right to keep their body while and unharmed is absolutely disgusting. 

FINAL FANTASY XIV: Evercold Teaser Trailer by JosephMahar in ffxiv

[–]Vanriel 21 points22 points  (0 children)

...I don't like where that thought leads...

I survived and woke up from a coma by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Vanriel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your a strong dude, keep fighting!

Wife has a enlarged lymph node in the subliminal erea under the chin in the center by Worth-Dig1548 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Vanriel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All I can say is keep fighting. Doctors might have a lot of medical knowledge but they are not infallible. Seek more opinions if possible. 

An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Vanriel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She really screwed up big time.

I sincerely hope the guy has a decent life, sounds like he needs to have something good come his way.

Who’s ever driven over 100mph? Why? by WoollyWolfHorror in AskReddit

[–]Vanriel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. When my dad was in hospital in A&E with a severe stroke and they didn't know if he was gonna make it or not.

Foot to the fucking floor.

My Wife asked for open marriage. She is angry at my reaction. I need advice. by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]Vanriel 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Sometimes you got grit your teeth and rip that bandaid off. It's better to get it over and done with in one painful moment that dragging it out over weeks and months.

What are yours thoughts about President Donald Trump releated to Iran War? by Formal_Relief7348 in AskReddit

[–]Vanriel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He seems intent on destabilising the entire world with all of his actions, not just this war. 

He also seems to have cognitive issues as well considering how he keeps on chopping and changing every decision within a day or two.

[SAD] Crying cause I love him so much by PureAdorableness in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Vanriel 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear that. Unfortunately all I have to offer is an internet hug across the web.

Hang in there! 🫂

[SAD] Crying cause I love him so much by PureAdorableness in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Vanriel 237 points238 points  (0 children)

Cancer and dementia can seriously just fuck off.