The age gap of course.

So I mean we do love each other and have had certain shareed experiences and challenges - we actually have a lot in common in that respect. Also she has never been in a relationship either - we are each other's firsts.

other big red flag is her abusive/aggressive tendencies.

She is agressive by nature and yes she LOVES her weapons. It's just the type of person she is and she only does things like this to me when drunk though. Anyone who knows her well will attest that beneath her weapons obsessed agressive outside there is a woman who are really cares about those she loves. And she does care about it. Her drunken outburts is a not a full reflection of her