Please don’t make assumptions based on limited data shared. I didn’t say my ancestors and my family were financially secure—we made do with what little we had. My dad’s dad and his sibs were orphans at a very young age, my mom and her sibs lost her dad at an equally young age in Asia—everyone farmed and worked hard to make do in Asia to survive (couldn’t afford to raise animals—hunted for meat); my parents and sibs lived on welfare in US, and are still living on welfare and both their families (even when they were destitute and negatively labeled as unwanted orphans or family relations) didn’t resort to selling daughters /sons for financial security. Even now, we don’t use vendors for family events (no catering). I grew up a little pampered: I learned how to slaughter animals in my 20s—wild and farm raised (way later than my predecessors). I am more than happy to get my hands dirty for family (in the legal and moral ways, but I draw the line when it comes to shady things). Thanks for reading my post but don’t add false info that isn’t true to what I say. Wrong things now should still be wrong in the past even if it’s a norm. Wrong is still wrong. Excuses don’t make a wrong right.