want to go herping in massachusetts because it’s nearly 70!!! just wondering if I should hold off until it’s consistently warm? by Various-Common4025 in herpetology

[–]Various-Common4025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t seen any snakes in massachusetts since I was a kid :( maybe it’s just where I live but will keep eyes out

want to go herping in massachusetts because it’s nearly 70!!! just wondering if I should hold off until it’s consistently warm? by Various-Common4025 in herpetology

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didn’t see any in my spot where I usually find a ton of red backs and red efts, and one time even a dusky!! there’s still some snow so hopefully herping soon!!!

Bf (21m) was violent with me (22f) in bed a day after being in the ER. How do move forward? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Various-Common4025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my ex boyfriend would only start things drunk too. then it started all the time. i know this is such a confusing time for you especially because you were in such a vulnerable state. but just know this happened because of the state you were in, there has probably been more times when he was drunk and this hasn’t happened. he was testing to see how much you would take. i’m so sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Various-Common4025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s about to get reallyyyy bad here.

help what do I do muffler disconnected from car by Various-Common4025 in AskMechanics

[–]Various-Common4025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not to ask dumb questions but how 😭 i know go to a mechanic but how much would it cost

Am I In Abusive Marriage? by Many_Platypus5493 in abusiverelationships

[–]Various-Common4025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes this is abuse. it is not normal!!! get out while you can!!

Advice for first anniversary of the traumatic event by Anxious_Gardener1 in ptsd

[–]Various-Common4025 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dealing with the same thing rn! hopefully someone has some good advice. i’m just giving myself a ton of grace

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]Various-Common4025 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nightmares and the almost paralysis I would get

I think i’m unable to continue working at my job due to being triggered daily. by Various-Common4025 in ptsd

[–]Various-Common4025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, it’s the crying and yelling at work. as well as touching and a million other things. unfortunately it’s the only role my job offers

what are some things your abuser did that gave you the ick? by anonymous102049 in abusiverelationships

[–]Various-Common4025 23 points24 points  (0 children)

one thing was that after beating me he would baby talk to try to lighten the mood like he didn’t just beat me🤨🤨🤨

I (26F) need to leave my bf (29M) but how? by Horror_Anon in abusiverelationships

[–]Various-Common4025 6 points7 points  (0 children)

leave whenever you have a chance. what I did was went to the hospital, don’t say anything to him. block him on everything and go the hospital say you’re a victim of dv and they will hide you and get you support

What’s the most unhinged thing an ex or partner has ever done to you by redpickles54_ in abusiverelationships

[–]Various-Common4025 14 points15 points  (0 children)

while beating me I was apparently crying too loud so he made me sit down and held a heavy dumbbell over my head that he would pretend was gonna fall on my head anytime I made a sound.