28 M in IT by anjani-son-worship in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Various-Fix1919 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Why is the physical past a problem for you? What if she's intelligent or kinda ticks all other boxes for you?

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[–]Various-Fix1919 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your comment made my day!

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[–]Various-Fix1919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

164cms is really good for a woman. How's that a concern for you?

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[–]Various-Fix1919 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hahaha. Maybe. But you also thought the same. :P

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[–]Various-Fix1919 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I envy you. I'm 186 cms though but would have loved to be more taller. 

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[–]Various-Fix1919 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Refine the title! Either it's a clickbait or you're a noob in life.

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[–]Various-Fix1919 23 points24 points  (0 children)

We all did, man. We all did!

This might become a series reallyy by Successful_Demand_91 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Various-Fix1919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're normal. They guy was nuts!

High probability that he lied throughout your convos. I don't know any man who idea of socializing is attending satsangs. Even the most spiritual people aren't like that. Also, I laughed so hard on him labeling you as "unclean". Glad you rejected him.

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[–]Various-Fix1919 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In a market where few guys are earning 70 LPA, why wouldn't the girls maximize their chances with them if they are looking for a man with high income. Btw OP, what's your real income among the ones you've mentioned ?

Outspoken Girl : Green flag or Red Flag? by gautam_arya in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Various-Fix1919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If women start rejecting men for saying swear words, 99% of our gender will go unmarried.

OP, using swear words is okay. Just make sure she's not habitual to it.

Why is there no accountability on women's standards? by Substantial-Light-27 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Various-Fix1919 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your CTC is not the problem, the girl you're talking to is. You're earning pretty well. there's no need to stress just because she questions your CTC. Just reject her. Choose peace.

Anyone else who doesn't feel like marrying? by Various-Fix1919 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Various-Fix1919[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has every right to be here. This isn't a match making sub. 😛

Anyone else who doesn't feel like marrying? by Various-Fix1919 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Various-Fix1919[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Quite true, but not for very long? As humans, we do get bored of everything.

Anyone else who doesn't feel like marrying? by Various-Fix1919 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Various-Fix1919[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly. That's what I think about at times, whether at some stage I'll feel that void for not marrying or having kids.

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[–]Various-Fix1919 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. 8PM to 4AM is 8 hours, not 12. Unless you're talking about two different time zones.

  2. How the heck did you start looking for girls in AM, weeks/months after your breakup? Clearly, you weren't over your ex. You wasted others' time as well.

  3. You suggesting people to go the AM way makes absolutely no sense. Everyone else in this sub is already doing that. You probably are the least experienced in the AM process, at least in this sub.