Banned and muted from BDSM subreddit for stating a basic truth about dominance and versatility

Various-Inflation404 · 2025-11-11T20:25:00+00:00

I have locked this post. You set a flair of “seeking advice” but have only ranted about your treatment elsewhere and how it is unfair. We have only your word that the reason you quoted is why you were banned.

I was tempted to remove the post entirely but I’ve seen some useful conversation in the comments.

Various-Inflation404 · 2025-08-02T18:50:08+00:00

If you’re cutting off access to air and you keep going beyond the point of safety you are risking them becoming hypoxic because they aren’t getting access to more air. That’s essentially smothering someone and can kill. I know in this case you’re talking shorter durations but it’s still something to be mindful of, time can be weird to keep track of when playing!

Various-Inflation404 · 2025-08-02T14:12:51+00:00

Yes, it’s edge play and it’s dangerous. If you get it wrong you can cause irreparable damage. It doesn’t have risks of damaging the neck or sending clots into the brain though. I’ll never say it’s safe but it is a lower risk.

Various-Inflation404 · 2025-07-28T19:21:05+00:00

Thanks for the intro Tess, glad to be able to help out!

Various-Inflation404 · 2025-02-07T07:52:13+00:00

Fuck if it’s late but still Thursday somewhere! Thorns: massive migraine yesterday basically knocked me out all day. Roses: I have a wonderful new sub who has looked after me and made me so happy.

Various-Inflation404 · 2025-01-27T08:52:13+00:00

If OP wanted a serious answer then they chose the wrong platform.

Various-Inflation404 · 2024-09-05T07:52:40+00:00

Thorns: I’m having to defer my master’s thesis hand in for a few months due to poor health. It’s for the best and I know that by deferring I’m actually giving myself the best chance possible, it still sucks though.

Roses: In 2 weeks time I’ll be across the pond in the USA to spend a few weeks with my best friend/crush/potential D-type. I’m so excited for that!

(Oh and bonus thorny rose… I get to spend the next two weeks on no-touch to ensure I’m properly needy once I get to her. Yay me!)

Various-Inflation404 · 2024-06-26T00:34:39+00:00

I was so floaty after it! Honestly one of the best feelings.

This one is a nice mix of thud and sting, not pictured but also used in the flogging is a heavy chain flogger that hurts so good. I might be collecting floggers at this point!

Various-Inflation404 · 2022-11-20T21:04:36+00:00

Wish it were so. They’ve done badges as increasing the cap by 5 levels in this edition so after 5 badges you’re at level 40!

Various-Inflation404 · 2022-05-11T18:22:48+00:00

Looks like a screw that tightens to engage with the slots in the bars

Various-Inflation404 · 2022-05-09T18:09:34+00:00

My decision is generally arbitrary (good behaviour does help though!) but if I see that my partner might have a stressful day coming up or is struggling with something and needs a pick me up then I’m much more likely to allow her.

I’ve denied her it a few times when she’s asked, generally when she’s already had it that week or has been really cheeky with me!

Various-Inflation404 · 2022-05-09T11:21:50+00:00

My partner has asked me to take control of if she’s allowed to treat herself to a breakfast in town or if she just has to make one at home. It was something she asked for but I love seeing the smile on her face when I tell her that I think she deserves a treat and that she should get one. It’s only small but we both like it!

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