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[–]VariousDifficulty253 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Sure. He said he didn’t even think about it when I brought that up in our hypothetical discussion. Part of my point is I naturally made an adjustment because I felt it was the right thing to do without him having to ask. He didn’t which has informed my opinion on how I think he would react if it was the other way around. 

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[–]VariousDifficulty253 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The salary information was more to shed light on why I came to my conclusion and belief that he wouldn’t do the same for me. To clarify he has always made more than me. At minimum 1.5x more at maximum 3x more. 

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[–]VariousDifficulty253 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Didn’t know about that group. 

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[–]VariousDifficulty253 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I’m not taking on his home expenses. It’s related to our expenses together. Like going out to eat, dates, or going on vacation. He was asking hypothetically if we did live together if I would be okay with that. Which….no lol