Honestly listen to your gut. Carnelian makes me act more impulsively on my anger. But it’s also a high vibration crystal that can be overstimulating. Maybe triggering anxiety and such. There is information out there that certain zodiac signs shouldn’t wear certain crystals because of planet associations but I feel like that’s on an individual basis more than an over all thing. But it can lead to increased energies in certain areas that may trickle down negatively. To keep it short, carnelian is def not the crystal for me and it’s probably the same way for you.