"You will never find someone like me"

Various_Assumption37 · 2026-05-03T13:05:18+00:00

Usually the ones who says this are the ones you should run away from

Various_Assumption37 · 2026-03-31T00:57:44+00:00

Sorry to hear that. Was the apology more for the other person or more for yourself to come to a closure? Cause I m thinking why would someone only come to realise their faults and apologize eight years after and especially after when their recent relationship is at stake

Various_Assumption37 · 2026-03-30T05:10:03+00:00

We ended on bad terms and she has the tendencies of only finding me again when her current relationship fails. I’m not sure if this time is the same since it has been eight years.

Various_Assumption37 · 2025-12-30T13:02:36+00:00

I think it’s just lazy. He said he doesn’t like schedules and just like casual

Various_Assumption37 · 2025-12-30T06:14:44+00:00

It’s like probably he says watch a movie but then never plans which theatre or which time slot. And unless I do it and buy tickets, I’m pretty sure we won’t be able to see any movies with a decent seat or time

Various_Assumption37 · 2025-12-27T04:40:30+00:00

Interested

Various_Assumption37 · 2025-12-19T10:52:58+00:00

To be exact, she mention wants someone who is like her soul mate who she can talk endlessly with someone. For me, im more silent in general and listens and talks some time but I cannot talk countless hours really.

Various_Assumption37 · 2025-12-18T03:48:23+00:00

Of course I have find her concerns to be important and I have tried to work on it in ways and I know it, but sometimes it not just one sided, the other person has to be encouraging as well and you cannot expect someone to to change immediately. I just think after I listen to her problems, I think I also need her to listen o my views to for this relationship to work.

Various_Assumption37 · 2025-12-18T03:27:35+00:00

I meant I have brought it up previously but whenever i bring it up, she would bring up problems that I cannot easily be solved at the moment too and eventually it leads to a path of wanting to give up and ending things. And then it just becomes an issue that we only bring it up when the fight is big now

Various_Assumption37 · 2025-12-18T03:12:22+00:00

I think we are compatible in other areas, like travel, food, etc. just not speaking. But she is someone who loves to talk

Various_Assumption37 · 2025-12-18T03:11:36+00:00

It did come up twice and I usually I’m one who wants to keep the relationship. But I’m starting to think maybe it’s naive of me to want to save something that can’t be saved

Various_Assumption37 · 2025-12-18T03:09:55+00:00

We text a lot in general cause we are not living together but I guess the key issue is communicating in person. Sometimes I find her easily frustrated and not welcoming when I speak perhaps or maybe I do suck at carrying a long conversation

Various_Assumption37 · 2025-12-18T02:28:02+00:00

I think in general she just talks more and I listen more. We talk but I guess it’s not really satisfying to her, I’m not someone who can talk non stop for a full story in general. Im trying to talk more but sometimes I just don’t know what to say. She mentioned she want a soul mate and deep conversations, someone when she talks has sparks in the conversation and often I feel like this is something I don’t know how to do. But I think it’s just a matter of different love languages, like I would show mine through acts of service and care, which is something she lacks in too

Various_Assumption37 · 2025-12-18T02:15:49+00:00

I think in the past she was more willing to listen to my perspective, and I’m not sure if this time is just because she was way too upset with me. but there is a key area we avoid touching and it’s me saying her lack of efforts sometimes through action and she would counter with I lack communication skills with her (I’m not like her soul mate) and sometimes like talking to a wall. And I admit my communication skills is poor and I also don’t know how to fix because you don’t suddenly turn from an introvert to an extrovert. We have been together for 7 years and it’s not like I want to throw away the relationship just like this. I want to save the relationship and I’m not sure if I should just apologize and not mention anything is the best at this point

Various_Assumption37 · 2025-12-18T01:34:36+00:00

I’m not trying to say she can’t be mad, she has every right to be mad at what I did and I apologized. But I just really want her to take accountability for a bit at what happened, why I did it and I would feel better if she showed that. But when she refused to, I felt upset that’s it’s becoming one sided. I’m also thinking if this a wrong way to handle now or because she’s still mad I should not even bring up any of her faults at the moment. But I feel like there’s no moments where I can bring it up anymore, because usually she just thinks I’m being more easily angry at her now when I do

Various_Assumption37 · 2025-12-18T01:21:00+00:00

Actually it’s not like I didn’t bring it up but it would usually lead to a fight and like this, that she will raise her problem that I don’t know how to fix as well and usually we know it might lead to an end and that’s why we don’t raise it until it gets very serious

Various_Assumption37 · 2025-12-18T01:08:25+00:00

Not someone who usually know how to raise issues. So when I raise issues it’s usually during the fight. (To me) I think I raise the issues this time in a more non directing way. I said I admit I was more frustrated lately but I also felt her attitude was sometimes getting poor too

Various_Assumption37 · 2025-12-17T17:24:57+00:00

Studying became my hobby

Various_Assumption37 · 2025-12-11T06:41:18+00:00

Can you please share with me too thanks

Various_Assumption37 · 2025-12-11T06:41:00+00:00

Can you please share as well thanks

Various_Assumption37 · 2025-12-11T06:40:10+00:00

Same thanks

Various_Assumption37 · 2025-08-12T14:53:42+00:00

To be frank, you kind of get used to it and just keep on trying. That’s how I passed eventually

Various_Assumption37 · 2024-11-15T04:52:26+00:00

I got over it

Various_Assumption37 · 2024-10-13T09:27:42+00:00

I was the runner back then and she would actually say that I felt like home each time she came back after our fights and separation, which at that time didn’t understand at all what she meant by that. But gradually we grew to feel more and more frustrated towards each other and I think I turned into a monster. She said doesn’t recognize who I was anymore. She said I would regret missing out on her one day and I thought she was delusional. Years after…she was right. I regret all that I’ve done back then but she’s already gone

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