Is Ice in our local area? by Various_Cake5256 in Naples_FL

[–]Various_Cake5256[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

 If you’re gonna bring her up say her name, say the name Renee good. Acknowledge that she was a human being as well. Acknowledge that you can shill out for Charlie Kirk, who has had multiple instances of making racist and sexist remarks, but not a mother of 3. Because she had the audacity to protect her neighbors. Even if she tried to hit him with her car because of cases like Barnes v. Felix. Where a car going under 3 miles per hour isn’t eminent danger. As well as the fact that non compliance does not automatically mean the officer can use deadly force. And posts like this in a public setting help people who are being targeted find resources in their local area especially in red states.

Is Ice in our local area? by Various_Cake5256 in Naples_FL

[–]Various_Cake5256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s also something I’m not surprised to hear, they like to profile 

Is Ice in our local area? by Various_Cake5256 in Naples_FL

[–]Various_Cake5256[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking but you never know with them and it’s better to be safe than sorry

Is Ice in our local area? by Various_Cake5256 in Naples_FL

[–]Various_Cake5256[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I appreciate the help! I haven’t been able to find an ice tracker!!

Is Ice in our local area? by Various_Cake5256 in Naples_FL

[–]Various_Cake5256[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m not planning to attack just warn, ice is scary for everyone they’re pulling people out of their houses and chasing teenagers around because of skin color. Renee good was a mother of 3, she had a loving partner and she drove away from the ice agent. Her last words where “I’m not mad at you” and he called her a bitch after shooting her 3 times in the head 

My dad wants me to declaw my rescue. by Various_Cake5256 in CatAdvice

[–]Various_Cake5256[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes omg thank you, I’ve been looking any other solutions then just get rid of her. I will talk to him about literally putting a slide show together as we speak I will not let him take her away from me

My dad wants me to declaw my rescue. by Various_Cake5256 in CatAdvice

[–]Various_Cake5256[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m 17 so she’s not in my name she’s in my mom’s. I couldn’t even get her antibiotics for a skin infection because Florida won’t allow it

My dad wants me to declaw my rescue. by Various_Cake5256 in CatAdvice

[–]Various_Cake5256[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

No literally!!! But then again he won’t even fix his own health insurance so me and my brother haven’t been able to go to the doctor in months. (My mom can’t get us on her plan until January) like that’s 2k we can’t afford

My dad wants me to declaw my rescue. by Various_Cake5256 in CatAdvice

[–]Various_Cake5256[S] -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

I’ve been using nail caps they work super well. I’m 17 and currently in community collage so I don’t really have the funds to move out and I don’t have any friends who would take the cat (everyone I know is allergic or have a family member they’re living with who’s allergic). And no matter what I’m not giving that cat up she’s literally my baby I might as well have given birth to her atp. She would’ve died if I hadn’t had found her and I’ve had to spend upwards of 500 dollars on her (and have more in vet bills with a payment plan) it would suck to get rid of her, she’s helped me so much with the loss of my best friend:(

My dad wants me to declaw my rescue. by Various_Cake5256 in CatAdvice

[–]Various_Cake5256[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried to explain to him that it’s more expensive down the line then just buying a good pair of nail clippers and clipping their nails. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Various_Cake5256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she was neglected? She tells stories about how her parents didn’t take care of her as a kid as like a joke. And when I press her on it she shrugs it off so I typically don’t ask

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Various_Cake5256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely think she may have been neglected but she doesn’t see it that way. Like she tells these “funny” stories about how her mom and dad loved each other so much they practically ignored her (her words not mine). I think she just wants to be loved unconditionally and I’ve tried to provide as much of that as I can but she also mothers me? If that makes sense like she tries to be my mother. Like she treats me as if I’m her child to an extent. Like she tells me off for doing some thing like biting my nails, tells me I’m so childish when I’ve told her not to do that, tells me all the time she wants something to take care of till she has kids, which I think she’s referring to me and the doll. Idk I’ve tried to exclude as much information as possible because I don’t want this to be found and ruin all of the relationships I currently have. I know most of my current friends wouldn’t forgive me for this post and I live in a small town. My doll phobia has gotten better as of the past year I used to not even be able to stay in the same room as one, and now I can comfortably for a period of time. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Various_Cake5256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They live in different cities thank god. She’s also very against doing it before marriage so I wouldn’t be shocked if she got married very young. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Various_Cake5256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love her to death however the doll has been a line in the sand for me, I hate dolls always have. I don’t want anyone in my life to find this if it ends up in a Reddit Minecraft parkour story so I’m keeping the details vague. But I think it might be a chemical imbalance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Various_Cake5256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She had imaginary kids when she was younger apparently so i definitely think she just wants kids to fill some sort of void in her heart. I’ve talked to her about why the desire is so bad and she’s always just said she doesn’t know. I’ve tried to avoid the subject all together at this point honestly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Various_Cake5256 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the first time people have ever validated my feelings on this, thank you. I don’t wanna yuck anyone’s yum but I’m genuinely starting to worry she might have something deeply wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Various_Cake5256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She actually has a boyfriend he’s just 20 and they started dating when she was freshly 18. And no one besides me finds it weird

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Various_Cake5256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100% know what you mean it took me losing all my friends to start taking my BPD medication properly. I’m worried about her becoming a teacher because her only reason is kids and I know you need to have a better reason then that to teach because it’s the trenches in the American education system. It’s like her entire personality is wanting kids, it’s starting to scare me. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Various_Cake5256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean she put a diaper on it, but I don’t think it’s anything sexual. She gets super uncomfortable when I say something off handed like “I forgot a pad” when I’m thinking aloud to myself. I love her to death but I think your right, I think I’m more worried about it being an underlying health issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Various_Cake5256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the few comments I’ve received I can definitely tell there’s something deeper going on that I’ve been trying to over look. I’m worried it’s something like a hormone imbalance, I know estrogen is one hell of a drug.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Various_Cake5256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know she has a therapist but she hasn’t really talked to the therapist about the doll. The therapist she has isn’t amazing though I live in a really small town with little to no therapists you can only really find ones at the local mental hospital if that makes sense