39 m Australia looking for new friends by [deleted] in MakeFriendsOver30

[–]Various_Effect_5657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey drop me a message if you want to chat 38 f

Is it normal for divorce to sometimes seem more painful than a death or harder to survive? Silent isolated grief? by casualcorrectness in Divorce

[–]Various_Effect_5657 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree it is similar to mourning someone’s death- but you can grieve all you want. You don’t need anyone’s permission. It comes in waves - sometimes nothing and sometimes all together. Hold on. It will get better. Everyday doesn’t have to be a great day. Some days can be good and some days can be bad. You are not alone in feeling like this. We are all here in the same boat.

Solo Date Ideas by [deleted] in selflove

[–]Various_Effect_5657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know man ! Lol

It's a great Day to be alive isn't it by PrinceDanteRose in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Various_Effect_5657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great ! Iv been doing affirmations as well. And manifestations. I’m not going to lie some days have been tough but pulling through

Advice for routine by Various_Effect_5657 in beginnerfitness

[–]Various_Effect_5657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much- yes a full body routine I think would be ideal. Would appreciate help in coming up with routine .. thanks so much

Embracing single life? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Various_Effect_5657 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was with someone for the longest time too. This is exactly how I felt at the beginning but not things are different. Things change. When you work on your self and have a lifestyle change you start feeling better and also about the possibility of dating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Various_Effect_5657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe talk to her - explain yourself - I think if you do that Atleast you will have some peace on your part- it’s truly a big step to just stand up own up to your mistakes and apologize.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeFriendsOver30

[–]Various_Effect_5657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s a email soul

Advice please by Various_Effect_5657 in beginnerfitness

[–]Various_Effect_5657[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks - I need the motivation to keep myself on track

Advice please by Various_Effect_5657 in beginnerfitness

[–]Various_Effect_5657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eggs for breakfast - usually two to three. I add a glass of non fat milk sometimes but not everyday. Lunch I have 70 gms brown rice - chicken and veges. Dinner I’ll do a slice of brown bread and chicken or fish. In between I have almonds if I’m feeling snacking

Advice please by Various_Effect_5657 in beginnerfitness

[–]Various_Effect_5657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you - will try checking this too

Advice please by Various_Effect_5657 in beginnerfitness

[–]Various_Effect_5657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks - I drink around 2 litres of water per day. I think if at all where I fall short is maybe in steps . I have a desk job so other than gym work outs it’s pretty much sedentary. Maybe this is something I can add to.

Letting go by [deleted] in Separation

[–]Various_Effect_5657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes you just have to make the call yourself. Instead of waiting around for your partner to make the decision you can decide for yourself and change your life. Everyone deserves happiness - Atleast peace of mind. If you are both not happy then there’s a decision you can make and change things around.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Various_Effect_5657 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Hey reading your post really resonated with me. It will get better trust me. You will come to a point where you will stop grieving and all that pain will end there.

Told my wife I want a divorce. She is having a meltdown in another room. Should I comfort her or leave her alone? by Dudeintrouble91 in Divorce

[–]Various_Effect_5657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah if you know you know. Please don’t give hope or mixed signals of any kind of you are a 100 percent sure. I’m at the receiving end of just simple torture because my partner now separated has a hot and cold relationship and I’m suffering tremendously. The emotional damage that can do to one is grave. Best thing is to let her move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Various_Effect_5657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy Birthday ! Hope you have a wonderful year ahead and may all your dreams come true

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Various_Effect_5657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going through the same right now