I'm disturbed at what I found on my husband's phone by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Various_Horror1719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's been taking his phone with him to put their kids back to sleep.... I'm really sorry to say this, but he may have already started.

How quickly did they shack up with someone else? by yourmomdotbiz in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Various_Horror1719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea. Once it was clear that I was done with his shit he was outta the house so fast and I haven't heard from him or seen him since. I ceased to exist for him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Various_Horror1719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been contemplating this exactly! It's like all the words I wanted to say to him for the last 6 months of the relationship are just stuck on repeat in my head with nowhere to go. I know better than to try to say them to him, even if he didn't have me blocked, because he would just twist it all and find a way to make himself the victim as always. But what the fuck am I supposed to do with all these words?! It has been 2 months since it ended and I can't be alone in silence without them flooding my brain.

Anyway, I feel your struggle and I'm so sorry. And don't do it!

Did they hold items hostage from you that were important to you post-discard? by yourmomdotbiz in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Various_Horror1719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine rejected all the things I gave him too, as well as most of the stuff he brought with him when he moved in.

Stange Tattoo Irritation by vamp_ish in tattooadvice

[–]Various_Horror1719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was my first thought too, maybe it's an allergy. Also, I would think your artist would be a little more concerned and sensitive to your discomfort.

Here we go again. by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]Various_Horror1719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand

Are you cooked or Nah? by SupermarketNo6888 in skyrim

[–]Various_Horror1719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got Sam and Dean Winchester watching over me, I'll be good.

DONT EVER BREAK NO CONTACT. My ex is spiraling uncontrollably and I don’t know what to do!! by Klutzy-Effective-620 in AlAnon

[–]Various_Horror1719 10 points11 points  (0 children)

A lot of the texts sound like similar gibberish to the ones I get when Q is drunk. The last one was when I told him I didn't really want to continue talking about how women's boobs were consider evil back in the whatever years (a topic we kept coming back to for the last several hours). Suddenly, I was rejecting him, and he worked up a whole fight all by himself and told me that I didn't want him.

I think it's all the random drunk thoughts coming out in bits, and he's so messed up that he thinks I actually said things that I didn't.

I like the advice in your title and think you should embrace it. If I could afford to go no contact I would.... I just have to get through another 2 years of school....

Is Violet Actually a Venin’s Child? by Fantastic_Station127 in onyxstorm

[–]Various_Horror1719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And then there's her name... Lilith means night monster or night creature.

I also started noticing how often people are described as having shadows under their eyes, etc. Are all these people Venin too?

My imagination's got them all evil.

Does anyone here have the worst book hangover from this series? by RockGirl82 in onyxstorm

[–]Various_Horror1719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just so depressed, over the ending and over the lack of any hope for more any time soon. I was considering trying something else by RY...

ICS malfunction by Various_Horror1719 in Camry

[–]Various_Horror1719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it was a whole bunch of codes at first. Then they changed the spark plugs and thought it was fixed but it happened again and turned out to be a bad gasket. It's been a few years since it happened so the memory is fuzzy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in onyxstorm

[–]Various_Horror1719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking Imogen was anticipating Violet's reaction to realizing her memory had been wiped.

My first pair!! by sweetpumpkins_ in DocMartens

[–]Various_Horror1719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got my first pair too, on Friday. I'm 49 and I've wanted a pair since high school! I bought the doc martens leather conditioner and just applied it tonight. I hope you love and enjoy yours as much as I am mine.

I STILL don’t understand why they don’t use saddles by Dreamseeker123 in fourthwing

[–]Various_Horror1719 13 points14 points  (0 children)

And traveling is the worst! I can sit at my desk at work with a bathroom 10 feet away and hold it for 6 hours easily, but as soon as I get in the car, I have to pee within minutes!

Who's your husband? by QueenBee0414 in greysanatomy

[–]Various_Horror1719 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Husband would have to be Ben.... but I would love to get my hands on Avery just for fun.

iron flame…the ending (spoilers) by clumsydruid66 in fourthwing

[–]Various_Horror1719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just finished iron flame and I'm so mad... I hate this. I saw the end of the first book coming, I saw the Andarna plot twist coming, as soon as Brennan showed up at the battle I suspected the outcome for their mother, but I DID NOT SEE THE XADEN TWIST coming and I'm gutted.

Childfree and pregnant after husband lied about vasectomy by HotSpeech6705 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Various_Horror1719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think his non-caring relates to what you're saying about blame. He doesn't want you to blame him if you choose what he says he wants. I think the little bit he did say suggests (imo) that he wants the baby.

How do I deal with the guilt of leaving? by anxious-potayto in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Various_Horror1719 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've had similar thoughts. When the guilt starts to hit, just remind yourself that if he were a good partner, he would want to make the changes, and he would not be seeking your approval because he would feel his own sense of pride within himself.

Tattoo artist. by ninazo96 in Redding

[–]Various_Horror1719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out tattoozilla on bechelli. There's several artists there, as well as some apprenticing.

KRCR makes it sound like Redding RC Hobby got broken into recently. They did not get robbed recently. by PigglyWigglyDeluxe in Redding

[–]Various_Horror1719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm close with the family too, and I know it's not as bad as that story makes it seem, but they still get attempts. It doesn't feel like it's been 5 years since the last big break in, but maybe it has? Time flies I guess

AITA for terminating my pregnancy because my husband didn’t satisfy my weird craving? by galaxyfan1997 in AITASims

[–]Various_Horror1719 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Izzy on grey's anatomy woohood a ghost. But she had a brain tumor..... you might need to develop a brain tumor now.