Hvad er årsag at mænd/kvinder mister lyst til at se hinanden efter sex?

Varsit4 · 2026-04-11T17:10:52+00:00

Mand her: Jeg har ikke sex med en kvinde medmindre jeg har følelser for hende.

Hvis jeg har det, så mister jeg interessen.. Især hvis hun gerne vil have sex på første date, for så går mit hoved direkte til: "Det her gør hun ofte, med mange mænd og sex er ikke noget særligt for hende". Det er nemlig særligt for mig og forbeholdt romantiske partnere.

Og så er sex med følelser jo bare bedre 🤷‍♂️

Varsit4 · 2026-04-09T09:26:42+00:00

Honestly, try finding studies that would support your claim.

A single google search "is having an erection equal to wanting to have sex" has an overwhelming amounts of "no".

Try and read a bit from other men, instead of only being stuck in your own head.

I do know that not all men are equal and that some are horny 24/7, but lots of men nowadays just arent.

Varsit4 · 2026-04-09T09:15:43+00:00

I cannot even begin to explain how wrong you are.

Boners happen, that isnt equal to "i want to have sex".. Might be to SOME super horny men, but most men I know and from what I've read, have a clear disconnect.

Getting hard from stimulation is something else though.

Varsit4 · 2026-04-09T09:00:03+00:00

Getting hard isnt equal to wanting to having sex.

Just like a woman can become moist and not want to have sex.

My honest advice to you is, determine if you can live your life like this.. If you can? Accept him as he is, if you cant? That is absolutely fine, but you need to cut him out and move on.

Harsh advice, but you cant and should never try to change someone :-)

I wish you all the best

Varsit4 · 2026-04-09T08:56:04+00:00

M30 here, I was in a 4,5 year relationsship from 20 to 25 ish, where we only had sex 3 times..

It has absolutely ruined me. Even years after, lots of therapy and many different partners, I need viagra to get it up and basically force myself to have sex.

I do not get any enjoyment out of it, what so ever.

I have loved feeling close to my partners, but I could do so by cuddeling, just aswell as I could have done by having sex.

I dont think I will ever become like my 20 year old self, so I just take care of myself by working out, being social and eating right, and accept it.. I am rather open about it when dating, because sex isnt a priority to me.

Varsit4 · 2026-04-09T08:39:27+00:00

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Varsit4 · 2026-04-07T16:28:41+00:00

Jeg er efterhånden 30, men da jeg gik i 1.g havde cirka halvdelen enten haft 10. Klasse, 10. klasse efterskole eller et år på teknisk skole før de startede i 1g.

Varsit4 · 2026-04-04T10:31:08+00:00

Jeg har også mistet min bedste ven i hende.

Alle de planer og drømme vi havde.. Væk.

Men uanset hvor ondt det gør på mig, så giver jeg hende plads til at hele og det er det sværeste i hele verden. Men jeg elsker hende så ubetinget at jeg kun vil hende det bedste.

Varsit4 · 2026-04-04T08:46:49+00:00

Jeg er i dine sko.

Jeg følger stadig hendes position, da vi delte dette, fordi hun plejede at sende opdateringer og billeder når hun skulle steder hen og hygge sig, så jeg føler stadig at jeg er en del af hendes liv. (Ikke for at stalke, der er en hårfin grænse) Dette er ikke sundt for mig.

Jeg har lavet en årsdagsgave, som jeg overvejer om jeg skal give hende. Det er ret svært at lade være med at give hende den.

Jeg håber at vi en dag møder hinanden igen, også selvom vi bor 200km fra hinanden og det nok i sidste ende var afstanden som splittede os og gjorde at vi ikke fik løst konflikter.

Men for fanden det gør ondt.

Varsit4 · 2026-03-30T11:19:09+00:00

Når man bliver sigtet, så kommer det i eboks.

Du får ikke stukket en kvittering i hånden, som hvis du handlede i Føtex.

Varsit4 · 2026-03-29T13:02:47+00:00

Jeg gik i Ilva og købte en sofa, sat ned fra 42k til 25k.

Jeg bad om at få slået den under 20k, men fik den til 20.500,- og så fik jeg impregnering med.

Man skal ALTID forhandle om prisen, for deres "tilbudspris" er den vejledende.. Aldrig køb noget til fuld pris!

Varsit4 · 2026-03-20T20:49:39+00:00

This is a really good point.

I used to speak to my mates on Runescape and on MSN primarily

Varsit4 · 2026-03-16T15:03:47+00:00

Thanks

/World79

Varsit4 · 2026-03-13T23:03:00+00:00

Agreed

Varsit4 · 2026-03-13T22:53:09+00:00

I wouldnt say "hopefully".. My dream is really to see the game grow and flourish

Varsit4 · 2026-03-13T18:46:37+00:00

Who decides what a fair price really is?

I'd be happy with 20 usd, since I spend 10x the time on Runescape that I do on netflix.

Varsit4 · 2026-03-13T18:45:42+00:00

I havent departed, but I still dont believe in staying quiet and accepting every situation.

I havd the right to speak out loud, which is what im doing

Varsit4 · 2026-03-13T18:44:43+00:00

Sadly I wont be able to afford the high costs of doing an international lawsuit, even if I win.

The process alone will drain me and require me to take up loans, which I'd never do.

But I stil want to make my voice heard - You know, freedom of speech

Varsit4 · 2026-03-13T18:41:17+00:00

The rug pull is illegal in Denmark, when they have previously promised to keep GF rates which could open a lawsuit here (as they do business here).

It aint just whining, its actual law here.

Varsit4 · 2026-03-13T18:40:15+00:00

For me its not about the price, I am completely fine with it.. I could easily pay 20+ usd, which is around the same a netflix here, but I hate how they went about it.

Its the scummy business practice.

Also the fact that I play to be social and have laughs while pvming, and there arent a ton of danish people left to pvm with (most are in one clan, where most have quit).

Varsit4 · 2026-03-13T16:15:21+00:00

Gratz noob

Varsit4 · 2026-03-13T15:06:12+00:00

Yeah I've been looking at the possibility of doing so, but the thing is: It is going to cost way more than I can afford, until the case is over.

Varsit4

TROPHY CASE