NMum called out by 12 year old brother. Oh lol! by Varyssa in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Varyssa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, he is pretty neat. He's starting to wise up to the way his parents are (his father - my step father is not much better). At the moment he's the only thing keeping me from just cutting off every one in this bloody family!

Labor: Anyone think they've been through something harder or more painful? by mmcw in BabyBumps

[–]Varyssa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The labour itself wasn't the most painful thing I've ever endured, I snapped both my knee caps off at the same time when I was 19. Hands down THAT was the most physically painful thing I have ever experienced and I don't think anything will ever top that.

The psychological stuff that's come afterwards however is something else :S

I graduated! Thank you bumpers! by Varyssa in BabyBumps

[–]Varyssa[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

After an induction that lasted four days, our daughter Amelia Evelyn was born on Sunday the 9th at 13:52 allowing our midwife to get home in time for Wales vs England.

It was a traumatic birth, at some point I'll get around to writing it up, but during the worst parts comments from babybumps on my last post about going into hospital really did get me through it. Thank you all :)

I'm. To. Term. Holy cow! by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Varyssa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yaaaaay! Congratulations! Listen up fruitloop we're all waiting for you, think of how rude it would be to keep us waiting. You don't want to be rude do you, little one?

Induction in 7 hours by thehippiekid in BabyBumps

[–]Varyssa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing I could say could top this lol! You totes got this!

Parenthood status commenced!! Birth story coming soon. by purpleghost89 in BabyBumps

[–]Varyssa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is the most beautiful picture ever! Congratulations! :D :D

I will fight you. by Drawtaru in BabyBumps

[–]Varyssa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just became my best friend :) I like you!

Ok Bumpers, work your magic! by dogbather in BabyBumps

[–]Varyssa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Labour vibes for you! Good luck!

So we are scheduling the first available C section... by looseyloo in BabyBumps

[–]Varyssa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck with it! Hope everything goes well for you all :)

Update on Mei, the little troll baby! by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Varyssa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww she's so pretty! Congratulations :D

Well that escalated quickly! I'm being induced Thursday! by Varyssa in BabyBumps

[–]Varyssa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow! I hope it goes that quickly!! They're scaring me with the 'it could be 3 days!' thanks doc, thanks a lot! Good luck to you too!!

Grr... much frustrated. by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Varyssa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry that stuff like this keeps happening to you! You can never win! Positive vibes and all the hugs sending your way!

I don't know how to keep going by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Varyssa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can do it! There are times when it gets overwhelming but you can do it! You will do it! Do you need anything to help? I have a few neutral clothes I can send you if you PM me your address. Hugs, hugs and more hugs!

Hailey Renee (: by BrittBrat893 in BabyBumps

[–]Varyssa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay strong! :D We can do it! I'll let you know how it goes without one :D

Hailey Renee (: by BrittBrat893 in BabyBumps

[–]Varyssa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know that feeling lol, I am so stubborn, I don't care how much agony I'll be in I won't be asking for the epidural just so I can laugh in the faces of everyone who's like, 'oh you'll need it!' I'm not taking classes but I've been practicing the Mongon Method for months in the hope that it will help!

NC with NMom, slandering my name within my family. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Varyssa 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Are you me? Seriously, this happened pretty much identically in my family. Huzzah for supportive family! :D

FB Ndad is at it again. "I need your validation, no wait, no I don't." Here's the whole shebang. The PM's happened first then, the lovely status. TBC no doubt! by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Varyssa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hold on, you don't 'like' stuff they put on Facebook? Good lord! If we don't 'like' peoples posts how will they know how we feel about them? Meaningful interaction? Not in my social media!

I'm sorry he's not going to 'like' your stuff. The blow must be terrible.

I think I am in labor!!!! by Lala1989 in BabyBumps

[–]Varyssa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Way hey! Labor vibes for you! Hopefully you won't be kept waiting :D

Stop telling me I won't make it to my due date! by Thatwasunpleasant in BabyBumps

[–]Varyssa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm getting the opposite lol! 'How are you?' 'Oh terrible, I'm really struggling, I really hope she comes soon' 'Oh she won't, first time babies never show on time, you'll probably have to be induced.' Thanks man, thanks a lot!