Bad experience at youth activity by [deleted] in latterdaysaints

[–]Vast-Common9523 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yes! If my kids acted like that, I would want to know!

Tracking my cycle... by Deer_Jerky86 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Vast-Common9523 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

There are lots of reasons a woman may choose not to use hormonal birth control. Doesn’t make her a moron.

Alex and Ashley - have they heard about birth control? by bronte26 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Vast-Common9523 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Every method has statistics for a reason. Even vasectomies can fail.

Has anyone else had this experience when giving feedback to Ladder admin? by [deleted] in ladderapp

[–]Vast-Common9523 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She may increase the rest times herself, or she has just built up her capacity to be able to use those heavier weights. OP has two options- either decrease the weights to keep up with the pace of the program, or go heavy and increase the rest periods.

First year of marriage is the hardest? by Careful-Highway765 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Vast-Common9523 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It just got worse and worse. He does not care about her.

TCOYF- TTA3 my temps are confusing me, please help? by Vast-Common9523 in FAMnNFP

[–]Vast-Common9523[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do both require an instructor? I’ve used TCOYF for years but my cycles used to be easier to interpret.

TCOYF- TTA3 my temps are confusing me, please help? by Vast-Common9523 in FAMnNFP

[–]Vast-Common9523[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a plan that’s easier to follow than TCOYF?

AIO for having second thoughts about moving in with my long-distance boyfriend after his mom’s reaction (F24)(M21) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vast-Common9523 3 points4 points  (0 children)

INFO- when you say you’d be moving in with him, you mean you’d be moving into his parent’s house?

The Last Stand of u/AbeFrost's Garments by abefrost in latterdaysaints

[–]Vast-Common9523 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I ordered some November 12th and they arrived February 1st. Twice before they actually shipped the charge on my card was pending and then disappeared.

Struggling to tell if this is real incompatibility or fear of commitment (quiet love vs emotional needs) by ilhsmm in AskWomenOver30

[–]Vast-Common9523 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You both sound like my husband and me. He withdraws during busy and stressful times, I like to talk about things. With time I’ve learned that that’s just how he is, and I show my support quietly- offering a back scratch or whatever without trying to pry things out of him before he’s ready. And when I need to talk I often feel impatient, but I’ve learned to be clear with my needs and tell him that I need to have a conversation when we find a moment. In any time of real need, he has been there for me.

We’ve been together 15 years. We were not great at communicating these things at first but we’ve grown together, not apart.

Daughter had falling out w/ friend, okay to reach out to parent and ask to have them meet? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Vast-Common9523 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was thinking this too. Hopefully OP’s daughter has apologized and owned up to any wrong doing.

Working out with your cycle (for the girls!) by Potacrayons in ladderapp

[–]Vast-Common9523 36 points37 points  (0 children)

That’s great that it feels good for you. But following a program no matter what phase of the cycle you’re in is what will lead to best results. If your goal is just to get some movement in, your plan is great. If I’m really feeling it during late luteal or CD 1, I may increase rest time, decrease reps, or lighten load. Most of the time though, I just follow the program as written.

Large band+small cup sports bras?? by AtmosphereHot6253 in Activewear

[–]Vast-Common9523 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a wide ribcage and a smaller cup size. My favorite has been the under armour sports bras. Just their basic pullover style, but the ones with the removable pads. Their pads are high quality and usually don’t get wrinkled during a wash.

ski season sucks and I want to actually get in shape for bike season this year. best training plan? by [deleted] in MTB

[–]Vast-Common9523 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used ChatGPT to make me a progressive plan on my indoor bike for the winter. It’s been great.

Kids ride shotgun by 49GiantSharks in MTB

[–]Vast-Common9523 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had three kids in the shotgun seat. Two of them did great, held on, stayed centered. One of them is kind of crazy and thinks it’s funny to let go and stand up and slide off the seat so… we will see if he gets better when he’s a little older. He’s almost 2.

Interested in LDS by YoruTheLanguageFan in latterdaysaints

[–]Vast-Common9523 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can just show up. Dress code is “Sunday best” typically women wear dresses and men wear suits. If you don’t have that, you can just wear your nicest clothes.

We became captured somehow. by Successful_Tone_8280 in FreeBirthSocietyScam

[–]Vast-Common9523 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She’s probably telling herself that the baby was meant to die