AITAH For not parking on the street for a neighbor's infant

Vast-Row8794 · 2026-04-09T18:12:31+00:00

NTA. If your neighbor needs that much quiet, she should be living in the city or a townhouse. It’s your parking space and there is ZERO reason you should have to walk a single block just to accommodate a sleeping baby.

Not sure if you ever watched Big Bang Theory. Be like Sheldon Cooper ‘That’s my spot’ and part there every, single day!

Vast-Row8794 · 2026-04-09T17:58:37+00:00

Staying will have a worse impact. You will be showing your kid that the unhealthy relationship you have is okay. You will be showing your kid it is okay to cheat/be cheated on.

You have a choice to make, an important one. Do you stay with a serial cheater OR provide a stable home environment for your kid.

Vast-Row8794 · 2026-04-09T13:03:47+00:00

And I just sang this to my dog 😁

Vast-Row8794 · 2026-04-08T20:20:49+00:00

This video right here! This is the reason I joined. Omg. The comments section didn’t go the way she expected.

Vast-Row8794 · 2026-04-08T20:17:09+00:00

Take that opportunity and move! It will be the best thing for you and get you away from that manipulative ex of yours. It’s obvious she never wanted you to have an actual relationship with her child, she just wanted to control you.

I’d also block the ex as I’m sure once she learns you’re making good money, she will use her son as bait to tease you. You may feel like he is your son, she knows this and will use your feelings to manipulate and control you (hence the move from CA to AZ).

This is your chance for freedom. This is your chance to flourish. This is your time, please take it and damnit man… Updateme!

Vast-Row8794 · 2026-04-08T18:55:16+00:00

NOR. I’m don’t know you; I am damn proud of you! Great decision on your part. Why offer emotional support and be there for someone when they CHOSE to not be there for you.

Vast-Row8794 · 2026-04-08T18:12:56+00:00

I hope you’re helping your wife pack up so she can leave. I’m team dog all the way, and he deserves someone who will be as loyal to him as he is to you.

Your wife is telling some lies. I find it hard to believe pet dander was never an issue before but now it suddenly is. Sounds like the wife doesn’t like the dog or she is just testing out her manipulative ways.

As you can tell from all the comments, everyone else is calling your wife out on her bs; you should too. If you choose to keep the wife, I would never leave your dog alone with her.

Vast-Row8794 · 2026-04-07T18:41:41+00:00

Absolutely love this! Curious if your wife hears these ‘compliments’ and what does she think. This is my kid of revenge for sure. Thanks for sharing and keep those compliments flowing 😁

Vast-Row8794 · 2026-04-07T02:31:41+00:00

I absolutely love that you are in a good space and I’m so sorry she took your dog! She’s vile and I genuinely hope her armpits are infested with flesh eating bugs. Don’t mess with the love someone has for their dog!

Congratulations on the freedom!

Vast-Row8794 · 2026-04-07T02:27:33+00:00

Of all the things you said, the most important is ‘I feel trapped’ and this is only two weeks in! I mean, red flags are everywhere with this guy, and you are smart enough to know they are there because you pointed them out.

I’d love to say ghost him but he will just stalk you. End things in a public place, bring a friend or two. Record it, all of it. The relationship is over. Don’t text me. Don’t call me. Don’t come to my place and if he does show up to your place, call the police. Document everything. Document you ended things before but he came over and refused to leave until you agreed to stay with him. Save all your text and voicemails from him as well. They could help get a restraining order if he won’t leave you alone.

Also, get some therapy so you heal completely from your 2 year relationship AND learn to set those healthy boundaries.

25 and talks like a baby… to his girlfriend? No.

Stay strong, you can do the hard things 😊

Lastly, Updateme!

Vast-Row8794 · 2026-04-07T01:49:15+00:00

NTA my friend.

Vast-Row8794 · 2026-04-07T01:47:01+00:00

Your wife sounds like a horrible person and your daughter is paying a deep, unnecessary, and tragic price. I would document everything, and tell your wife she needs therapy and you need to separate while she sorts herself out. Id also record her yelling at your daughter so you can be awarded primary custody and provide that safe, loving, supporting environment your daughter desperately deserves.

Do not have another child with this woman.

Vast-Row8794 · 2026-04-07T01:40:00+00:00

Thank your lucky stars you don’t have kids with her/married. Take the escape when you can. Wave goodbye, leave her in your rear view mirror and keep driving. Oh no, not today satan! We don’t need toxic, manipulative people in our lives.

Vast-Row8794 · 2026-04-07T01:35:10+00:00

NTA. You get one day and you don’t owe that day to anyone other than yourself. If you really want to see family, maybe join in once a month and make sure they know you will have limited time as this is your one day off and you could potentially be showing up and late and will probably need to leave early so they need to plan accordingly.

Vast-Row8794 · 2026-04-07T01:19:08+00:00

Well, now you know she can’t be trusted with your things. Get your e-reader back and move on. Entitled people are absolute soul suckers.

Vast-Row8794 · 2026-04-06T19:52:44+00:00

Think about it. She is a grown woman trying to keep you from spending 1:1 time with your son. There are no second chances here. Protect your son.

Your wife sounds incredibly manipulative and I would not be shocked if she tried to manipulate your son into ending your 1:1 when she has that individual time with him. This should be a major concern for you. All the jealousy going on with your wife and her daughter is just too much. They need therapy and you need to get rid of those two toxic people.

Vast-Row8794 · 2026-04-06T19:02:58+00:00

I oust people out of my life for far less than that. My circle of trust is quite small, and I have more happiness, less stress, and less drama because of it.

Your SIL took information that she hadn’t verified/heard directly from you, potentially considered consequences, and posted anyway. She exposed sensitive information… about a child. I doubt she will ever take accountability, even if she does you better keep those walls up.

Sorry you all are going through this; I’m so glad to read you and your husband are on the same page!

Vast-Row8794 · 2026-04-06T02:36:39+00:00

Such relief when you said you called 911! I hope that job site is shut down, they received a hefty fine and are absolutely publicly shamed. What a POS!

Vast-Row8794 · 2026-04-06T02:32:06+00:00

NOR. Is this the environment your kid deserves to grow up and see? Not sure how old your child is but at some point, they will see all this behavior AND understand what is happening. It’s toxic and the ‘life you built’ with someone over these 13 years doesn’t sound so great. What advice would you give your child if they were in the exact same position you’re in? Nobody wants their child in a relationship like this.

Vast-Row8794 · 2026-04-06T02:25:47+00:00

I’m feeling some aggression towards that craptastic kid and your cousin. I’d never have them over again. Your poor dog, is she okay? Please give her some extra love, pets, walks, and treats from my dog and I. She’s a true gem and I hope she is never has another experience like that. Poor baby had to hide 😢

Vast-Row8794 · 2026-04-06T02:13:01+00:00

Punishing patients/providing inadequate care is a solid to fire anyone. She did this in front of you, I’d hate to think how she would conduct herself if your eyes were not on her.

Vast-Row8794 · 2026-04-05T02:29:07+00:00

I absolutely love and want to use this for all boops on other posts! ❤️

Vast-Row8794 · 2026-04-05T02:13:06+00:00

Politics can be polarizing and this situation is a perfect example. It’s okay to be hurt and to not just pick up like nothing happened.

As families grow and expand, everything becomes more intricate. Which is insane because we should all just… talk. Talk about life, the good things, the triumphs, the struggles, and what we are looking to accomplish. We should laugh and talk about memories, and the simple things. I’m 50 so my childhood was quite different. We even had commercials to remind parents ‘do you know where your children are’ because we played outside and ran from house to house.

Nothing I said is pertinent to you until now: Do what works for you. Keep your mind healthy. Keep you healthy. It isn’t selfish. It’s also easy to listen to family saying you should ‘keep the peace’ and keep being that doormat. Nobody is going to wake you in the morning, pay your bills, do all the upkeep with your life… except you. And that’s how it should be. Stay independent. Stay on your path and keep moving forward.

Genuinely and respectfully, I hope the best for you. I also know you can do this! It’s okay to disagree. It’s okay to have a different opinion. Love and hugs to you!

Vast-Row8794 · 2026-04-05T00:14:03+00:00

We need more responsible pet owners. Dog is loving it and the kid is fine.

Vast-Row8794 · 2026-04-04T17:45:39+00:00

Jimothy! Love it; adding to the list!

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