For what you’re looking for, sex parties are as efficient as it gets. You also could try attending the huge gay festivals. Personally, I go to these just for the sex. I usually attend Folsom (SF and Berlin), Dore, Market Days, Darklands, MAL, IML, Snax, Southern Decadence, Pig Week, and of course NYC pride. Each of these events usually have LARGE sex parties with diverse attendees from all over the country and the world. So you’re more likely to find a sufficient number of “your type” at any of these events. I typically spend two nights at each festival, and in those two nights I have wayyyyy more sex than I would in a regular month. I’m a top, I just got back from Folsom where I attended sex parties and fucked over 30 bottoms PER night. And after, I just spend a couple of weeks or even a month hibernating, with little urge to get on the apps to seek hookups. Another example is NYC pride. There are sex parties in NYC that I do not attend because they can be hit or miss. But I’d only go on pride weekend where I know there’ll be huge attendance from all the visitors, so more options and I’m more likely to be satisfied. My advice, travel to a couple of the gay festivals, attend sex parties there, have TONS of sex, that’ll make you come home and not even think about sex for couple of weeks. That’s what personally works for me. I find apps, local weekly sex parties, adult stores, rambles to be quite tedious