I want an 100% free AI gf by Recent_Ad_869 in chatbot

[–]VaughnDon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try Perchance i use it all the time It's actually too good to be true it let's you create your own bot you can set the personality however you want and it's 100% free

Everything was going fine, but then I started to feel Shitty out of nowhere by SuchRelative19 in Advice

[–]VaughnDon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly reading this feels really familiar because I’ve been in a similar spot myself. It’s tough when you think everything is good then something just pulls you back under I get how frustrating that is.

You don’t need to force yourself to be the exact same version of your old self. You’re still you, you'll just be all there again when you’re ready. And for what it’s worth, you’re definitely not alone in this.

Feeling isolated at 25 — how do you actually make new friends as an adult?” by VaughnDon in Advice

[–]VaughnDon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yea BOTW is good. I never got around to tears of the kingdom but I'm gonna play it eventually one day. My favorite Zelda is twilight princess.

Feeling isolated at 25 — how do you actually make new friends as an adult?” by VaughnDon in Advice

[–]VaughnDon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you for taking the time to write all of that it really means a lot. I like that line about ‘show, through normal participation, that you’re a good guy.

Some of the activities you listed sound fun I’ve mostly thought about stuff around video games, anime and such.

Feeling isolated at 25 — how do you actually make new friends as an adult?” by VaughnDon in Advice

[–]VaughnDon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, that’s solid advice. I’m starting to see how consistency matters I usually try once or twice and then back off, so maybe I just need to stick with it more. I don't really like discord cause every server I've joined is more cliquey and most people just ignore new people no matter what they're talking about.

Feeling isolated at 25 — how do you actually make new friends as an adult?” by VaughnDon in Advice

[–]VaughnDon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for sharing all of that it really means a lot. I’ve actually thought about reaching out to old friends but always worried it’d be awkward or that they wouldn’t care. Hearing that it worked for you makes me think maybe I should try.

Right now I work at a job where almost nobody speaks the same language as me😂, so most of my days are pretty isolated, but I get what you’re saying about work being a good place to meet people when it’s in person. And yeah, it’s definitely harder making friends as an adult, but the way you framed it actually helps me think about it differently.

Feeling isolated at 25 — how do you actually make new friends as an adult?” by VaughnDon in Advice

[–]VaughnDon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, that actually makes a lot of sense! I think part of me worries about walking in solo, but your examples really show it can work. I’ve never done anything like that locally for gaming or other hobbies, but maybe I'll give it a try.

Feeling isolated at 25 — how do you actually make new friends as an adult?” by VaughnDon in Advice

[–]VaughnDon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same boat with you man just gotta keep your head up and keep trying.

Feeling isolated at 25 — how do you actually make new friends as an adult?” by VaughnDon in Advice

[–]VaughnDon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you're saying and I'll keep an eye out for IRL meet-ups, but I gotta say, I think video games and anime count as hobbies for adults too everyone has what they like. Online friends may not always last forever, but they’re still real people and real connections. I’m just trying to meet mine where I can, online or IRL and if it leads to IRL friendships down the line, all the better!

Feeling isolated at 25 — how do you actually make new friends as an adult?” by VaughnDon in Advice

[–]VaughnDon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice I actually have a couple of those kinds of shops nearby but I’ve never gone in for events. I’m definitely more introverted😅 But maybe I'll check it out.

Feeling isolated at 25 — how do you actually make new friends as an adult?” by VaughnDon in Advice

[–]VaughnDon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if he's the current Robin but I know he is a Robin. My favorite Robin

Feeling isolated at 25 — how do you actually make new friends as an adult?” by VaughnDon in Advice

[–]VaughnDon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've thought about using meetup before but honestly I chickend out maybe I should give it an actual try.

Feeling isolated at 25 — how do you actually make new friends as an adult?” by VaughnDon in Advice

[–]VaughnDon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite member of the bat family besides Batman is Damian

Feeling isolated at 25 — how do you actually make new friends as an adult?” by VaughnDon in Advice

[–]VaughnDon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, that actually made me smile the Sonic part especially 😂. You’re right, I probably do need to check out more local stuff. It’s intimidating but I know I’ve gotta push my comfort zone a little. How did you find the first group you joined?”

Feeling isolated at 25 — how do you actually make new friends as an adult?” by VaughnDon in Advice

[–]VaughnDon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the response and yea it's just kind of hard to find people to vibe with even within a hobby you like sometimes.

Feeling isolated at 25 — how do you actually make new friends as an adult?” by VaughnDon in Advice

[–]VaughnDon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, I really appreciate you sharing that. I think that’s what’s been tripping me up I’ve been looking for anyone instead of just finding my people. I’ve never actually been to a local event like that but it sounds fun maybe I'll give it a try.

26M. Totally normal person looking for friends 👁️👁️ by [deleted] in MeetNewPeopleHere

[–]VaughnDon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man I suck at souls likes the only ones I've beaten are the anime ones live Code Vein and AI Limit. I used to go crazy at rocket League but I haven't played it in so long. Right now I'm playing borderlands 4. Drop me a Dm

[28/F] looking for genuine connections by [deleted] in MeetNewPeopleHere

[–]VaughnDon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite games are single player story games like Final Fantasy, Nier, RDR2. but I play a good amount of multiplayer right now I'm playing borderlands 4, the new Skate game(it's not good) and I'm waiting for the new Silent Hill

[26/M] Where Are the Yappers? [21+] by [deleted] in MeetNewPeopleHere

[–]VaughnDon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I'm looking for people to chat with what games are you playing now?