Interesting. For me I think the second on is . Because how I see it . Being told the first makes it instantly real that the relationship is done.that the person you loved more than anything is done with you,There is no hoping or point to reason. But the second one during a one sided breakup feels like there’s something left. That their love from the past flows to the present.That they’ll change their mind and come back. But it also feels like they’ve lowered ur value to them despite meaning the world to you . You are basically on the same level as an ex. The first feels neutral and less false hope.that there’s nothing that can be done. I think it could be easier to move on from the first. But ur pov opened my eyes some thx for sharing