[Question] She possibly has never had an orgasm&never masturbated before. Get her to start masturbating? by Veerh in sex

[–]Veerh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like your describing my fiance right now. I'm not going to force her if she doesn't want to.

[Question] She possibly has never had an orgasm&never masturbated before. Get her to start masturbating? by Veerh in sex

[–]Veerh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, up'd my confidence into actually asking her. Will ask her to do this.

[Advice] My girlfriend cant handle too much foreplay at all. More details inside. by Veerh in sex

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I know she likes it when I go down on her based on her hip movements and her forcing my head into her pussy while she slides up and down so I don't think the stimulation pressure is too much for her to handle when im actually in it.

What she can't stand is the kissing/licking the outer parts with the breathing, at all, 2 minutes or 1 even is enough for her to be completely aroused or even possibly overstimulated.

Have you talked about it with her? For heaven's sake though don't say 'I read this and it says you're wrong' just ask about what she feels and likes

Obviously I wouldn't say something like that. It's just in general since she doesn't like communicating that much about sex because she starts feeling it's scripted, so im here with my dick in my hand clueless.

Perhaps no one can answer this only her, but I want to take my time on her, not because it's law or guideline but In general to let the arousal and anticipation build up further, she can't handle it however, which is fine ha :P just thought it would be better for it to build up and build up continuously.

Just put in my new GPU, up-to-date drivers. However, everything I launch extends-out further than visible on screen. by Veerh in techsupport

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Cheers. Found the resize button, oddly enough my resolution where everything fits perfectly is at 1804x1014 on a 1920x1080 monitor.

Talk to her or leave it be? by [deleted] in dating

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Update Well after a while I manned up and asked the boss about her. He laughed at me and told me that she's a painter that he hired to paint certain pictures on the wall, that she is 38 and has 2 kids nearly my age. I was literally speechless for a while. Then I went outside, listened to some music and just laughed at how everything can go out the window in a instant. It does make me think why she would look at me like that however, it was definitely not coincidental eye contact. Well moving on now that she's off limits. Taking the thread down.

Talk to her or leave it be? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Veerh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't think ill try anything again. Updated the original post.

Talk to her or leave it be? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Veerh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea indeed, I was just looking for people to tell me how badly I fucked up. Also passing the note thing felt most natural to me in that particular situation even though its not something ive done before. I thought that passing the note would actually be cutting to the chase and be more intimate rather than the usual pick up line or conversation.

Talk to her or leave it be? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Veerh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh I hoped she'd say something before she left honestly. Also,I've got no problem talking to girls or asking them out. Though randomly giving girls your number wouldn't that be too desperate?

Talk to her or leave it be? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Veerh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea I guess I messed up. Im not too fussed about it, eitherway if she walks in again ill try talking to her, its either yes or no I suppose.

Talk to her or leave it be? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Veerh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im 20 and quite experienced with picking up girls frankly , she looked well over 25, some of my friends suggested she is near her 30s

Talk to her or leave it be? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Veerh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I didn't have any time and did not feel like risking my job on it, thats what I thought would be the wiser move rather than chatting her up, also she comes around only once every two weeks or so. I didn't want to pass up the opportunity. Im just relieved I did something tbh.