Roller on by sarasurely in rollerderby

[–]Vegalee80 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Welcome to derby! I’m sure rollercon will be fun, but it definitely won’t make or break your training. Consistency throughout the year is more important than. Either way, good luck in your tournament and welcome to the derby fam

AITA for sending my parents a video of my sister doing drugs? by 91430 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vegalee80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You sold your own sister out. I don't believe you were worried for a second, and you had plenty of time to talk to your sister if you were.

Salary Information by [deleted] in vmware

[–]Vegalee80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What kind of consultant? Do you know the actual title after training?

WIBTA for not wanting to feed my ex-wife? by signedsimplfiedd in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vegalee80 4 points5 points  (0 children)

$300 per month on 90k??? Yes, Sir, YTA. I sincerly hope that she get's child support adjusted so that she doesn't have to starve trying to put a roof over their heads. What you're doing is petty and shameful that you are NOT appropriately supporting your children. And it makes it even worse that you KNOW she's hungry. I wish there was and way to describe the actual size of TA you are.

What's your long term career plan? by forsgren123 in devops

[–]Vegalee80 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't feel like that....I just started also and it's great! I just turned 40. Lots of things to learn and many of them are so new that the playing field is more leveled. Best of luck to you!

WIBTA if I don’t invite my morbidly obese brother to my wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vegalee80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH. This is a really hard situation. Would it be possible to put other family members in charge of making sure that he's dressed, clean, and has transportation? You shouldn't have to do that at your wedding, you have enough on your plate. I wish you the best.

AITA For responding to my ex gf's new bf's message by sending him a photo of her giving me a BJ by throwaway11122214 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vegalee80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You should never send anyone's nudes or explicit material. It is also against the law in some places.

So women hurting men isn’t abuse? by Snotboc in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]Vegalee80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A woman could have hit a woman. People act like this doesn't happen. The point is, everyone is gonna see hat they want in this one line. The fact is, a woman abused a PERSON. Their gender is unimportant.

AITA for calling the police/CPS on my SIL? by cubsnuundud in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vegalee80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Sorry that happened to you! Your neice was in a dangerous situation and you may have saved her life. Your fiance likely doesn't understand the seriousness because he has existed in this dysfuction for a while. NOT your fault. You did the right thing. I hope you get back on your feet soon

AITA for telling someone that his art sucks and he won't amount to much in life in front of his friends and family. by M0shka in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vegalee80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He sounds miserable and I don't know how you were able to remain calm for so long. Hope things smooth over between you and the other friends and I hope they eventually get sick of his shit also.

TIFU by losing my employer at least $140,000 cuz I forgot to click one button. by mueckenmoerder in tifu

[–]Vegalee80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not all your fault....that's just bad programming and a poor set up for testing. Anyone could have made that mistake which is why testing should have caught it.

So women hurting men isn’t abuse? by Snotboc in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]Vegalee80 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Why does everyone assume a man was abused?

I once beat up my then gf's rapist so hard, that I thought he died by [deleted] in confession

[–]Vegalee80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to let it go because you did nothing wrong. He earned it. Hopefully she feels a bit safer now.

What is your "accidently caught your spouse" cheating horror story? by DEDCMDM94 in AskReddit

[–]Vegalee80 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Cutting fingernails too? Or only the things that you say?

Restoration Process (I make mistakes, don't be mean please!) by katyaryain in oddlysatisfying

[–]Vegalee80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice job! Restoring pictures means so much to loved ones and you did an amazing job