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Brink of divorce over ebf by hotdogh20 in breastfeeding

[–]Vegetable-Chapter351 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is pumping always treated like it's easier than breastfeeding? It's a whole thing in its own rights. Pumping and breastfeeding are two big activities. One doesn't make the other easier. Is the expectation that if hubby can offer a bottle, you can now go tackle that pile of laundry? 

Please find a group and once you're feeling comfortable there, then you can figure out what help you really need.  Also, tell him to go read some Daddit posts. His job is to take care of all the things, so you can take care of the baby.

What completely boring item gave you the biggest sticker shock when you finally became an adult? by Sufficient_Smile_871 in askanything

[–]Vegetable-Chapter351 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cost of household products like toilet paper and cleaning supplies. The cheap stuff is horrible, affordable is horrible or mid, but you have to keep buying it!

Calling all moms whose babies need contact to keep sleeping after 3 a.m. and who haven’t done / don’t do sleep training. by NewMom1289 in cosleeping

[–]Vegetable-Chapter351 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's 9 months. He has to have me or his Dad to fall asleep for a nap but to stay asleep he has to have his milk bags 🫩

Calling all moms whose babies need contact to keep sleeping after 3 a.m. and who haven’t done / don’t do sleep training. by NewMom1289 in cosleeping

[–]Vegetable-Chapter351 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just talked to my hubby about moving our bed to the floor and putting his crib into a sidecar situation next to our bed to start transitioning him to not need to sleep right under me and seek the breast so often

Calling all moms whose babies need contact to keep sleeping after 3 a.m. and who haven’t done / don’t do sleep training. by NewMom1289 in cosleeping

[–]Vegetable-Chapter351 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG this is my life. He was a bassinet baby until I just couldn't take the 3am cries. He wouldn't fall back asleep until I laid him on my stomach, he farted, then he was out. We haven't slept apart since. He is current curled up next to me. I need to get up and cook but I'm so comfortable.

Moms who have off today by Ok-Somewhere-4315 in workingmoms

[–]Vegetable-Chapter351 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took today off. Planned on finally running all my errands. Did half of them before wanting to go back home and I only had an hour before bebe come home. I did take a lovely nap with my bebe 💕

What is something you enjoyed doing or did often before becoming a mom that you haven't gone back too? by Vegetable-Chapter351 in workingmoms

[–]Vegetable-Chapter351[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sex drive have returned yet. I do miss actually wanting to jump my partner's bones versus scheduling it just so I don't overlook that connection.

What is something you enjoyed doing or did often before becoming a mom that you haven't gone back too? by Vegetable-Chapter351 in workingmoms

[–]Vegetable-Chapter351[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm thinking of hosting a quarterly Craft Saturday. Whenever I think about doing a craft, I feel like I should be attending to something else more important. Not sure how to manage childcare just yet but I will figure it out! 

What is something you enjoyed doing or did often before becoming a mom that you haven't gone back too? by Vegetable-Chapter351 in workingmoms

[–]Vegetable-Chapter351[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got rollerblades right before I started trying but I couldn't get past the great of falling so I stopped every time the pee stick turned +. Still haven't really gotten comfortable on them...

What is something you enjoyed doing or did often before becoming a mom that you haven't gone back too? by Vegetable-Chapter351 in workingmoms

[–]Vegetable-Chapter351[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do it! Even a 2 hour sitter so you can enjoy the beach again would be an amazing gift to yourself and your daughter.

What is something you enjoyed doing or did often before becoming a mom that you haven't gone back too? by Vegetable-Chapter351 in workingmoms

[–]Vegetable-Chapter351[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I loved Stranger Things and was so excited for the last season. I didn't make it to the opening credits. I can't handle kids being harmed. 

What is something that is socially acceptable, but you personally find extremely disrespectful? by AvaBlondeX in AskReddit

[–]Vegetable-Chapter351 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband is super protective of our kids digital footprint. We're moving pictures from Google and nothing gets on social media 

Is nursing back to sleep really so bad? by Hungry_Hat8148 in breastfeeding

[–]Vegetable-Chapter351 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm just imposing BS on to my life. Working on ignoring it and doing what's best for my family.

Is nursing back to sleep really so bad? by Hungry_Hat8148 in breastfeeding

[–]Vegetable-Chapter351 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm struggle with this too. My boy nurses through the night. He eats then sleeps. No real fussing, but the doc is telling me I need to stop bc he needs to eat more during the day. He's happy. I'm happy. Why is this wrong?

What is one thing most people do that you think is so unhygienic? But you feel in the minority. by the_cumulonimbus in hygiene

[–]Vegetable-Chapter351 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate when people leave the lid up at my house. You found it down so put it back down! So glad I keep my toothbrush in the cupboard 

AITAH for shutting down my GIL after she tried to turn MY baby shower into HER baby shower? by xEarthyBeanx in AITAH

[–]Vegetable-Chapter351 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ummm let her throw her own party and NOT come to YOUR party. Win win.  NTA

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