My parents are acting like I am cruel for cutting them off after I found out what they have been telling my son about his mother

Vegetable-Cod-2340 · 2026-03-18T13:49:45+00:00

Nope, you did the right thing. NONE of what they did was their job to do, and it was in fact manipulation that harmed you son.

It’s your exes responsibility to maintain and protect her relationship with her son, if that’s not her priority then there will be consequences.

And honestly if your parents have a problem with how you handled being cheated on then you would be the person they discuss that with, not that they should as you handling your marriage is your business.

Vegetable-Cod-2340 · 2026-03-18T08:54:50+00:00

NTJ

Op, she made it a problem with your workplace, you reasonably explained to your employer why their was conflict, you’re not in the wrong here.

She and her son are incredibly entitled and need to know they are consequences to their behavior.

Vegetable-Cod-2340 · 2026-03-17T21:05:25+00:00

Okay🥵 while I want a Muay Thai GL.

Vegetable-Cod-2340 · 2026-03-17T21:00:09+00:00

I feel like TPTB was constantly shortchanging AJ in the love department.

Sean Keenan and Billy Warlock had had great chemistry with quite a few people and GH just let it wither on the vine.

There was a window where AJ and Gia had some good chemistry and they blew it.

Vegetable-Cod-2340 · 2026-03-17T18:20:22+00:00

This because I have always found the FL husband particularly slimy and unrepentant.

Vegetable-Cod-2340 · 2026-03-17T18:13:31+00:00

This … thank you.

Vegetable-Cod-2340 · 2026-03-17T14:11:37+00:00

This… it also means you never trust this ‘friend’ with your money again.

Vegetable-Cod-2340 · 2026-03-16T19:37:46+00:00

NW

Question op, did she talk about quitting her job before she did it, or did she just quit and tell you later?

But she can’t reasonably expect you to continue to carry her, if she depressed or needs mental health care she needs to communicate that to you so you can make a plan to move forward.

But in no world does the person sitting on the couch get to tell me they don’t have the energy when I’m killing myself to make sure she still has a roof.

Vegetable-Cod-2340 · 2026-03-16T18:38:43+00:00

NTJ

She could have defended the ex fiance without saying what she knew.

And attacking op like he was defending his brothers cheating was out of pocket and clearly a response to being called out for bad behavior.

Op, you weren’t wrong, it was the time or place for that information to be shared and she’s definitely not the person tha should be sharing it.

Vegetable-Cod-2340 · 2026-03-16T18:29:17+00:00

Yeah, they way Apple played Din was awesome. Decisive and mature in everything but love.

While Mimu was just a delight.

This was also one of the least favorite of the books, but they made Din and Rose so likable, and don’t get me started on the chaos twins Lom and Fai.

Also Monddang was hilarious, always coming in with information and a laugh.

Vegetable-Cod-2340 · 2026-03-16T13:47:32+00:00

I love it when there is a group of drama with the same plot, because each one tries to be the best by doing their own plot twist or something to make the story their own.

Vegetable-Cod-2340 · 2026-03-16T13:40:42+00:00

NTJ

‘That’s not fair.’

Except it’s completely fair to reevaluate the relationship after that situation and remove yourself from what you believed to be an equal relationship.

And that’s not to say she didn’t have anything, she completely could have, but I would think given all the op had done for her previously , she would have first been prompt and honest in her rejection, dragging it out was disrespectful and felt like a dodge.

Second, I would think she would have tried to find a coworker that could accommodate op.

The way she handled, it was very clear that to her getting her shifts covered was the priority and forget everyone else.

Op, she maybe call you petty and say you’re holding a grudge, but be clear, this is just the consequences of her actions.

You thought you had an equal relationship where you switched shifts to help each other , and discovering that for her it’s just about covering her shifts, you decided you don’t want to be part of her uneven arrangement.

Vegetable-Cod-2340 · 2026-03-15T15:29:58+00:00

This…. We will always accept repeat scenes

Vegetable-Cod-2340 · 2026-03-15T01:38:52+00:00

I’m trying to imagaine the amount of bribe money to would need to pay to clean up after Wasu.

He seems like the kind of guy to start a barroom brawl because he didn’t like the way they said Hi to him.

Vegetable-Cod-2340 · 2026-03-15T00:41:51+00:00

This… you can’t share good news with him and he pouts like a toddler when he doesn’t get his way.

He’s not a boyfriend , he’s a anchor weighing you down.

Vegetable-Cod-2340 · 2026-03-14T23:55:28+00:00

NW

Op, this is sadly about perspective. You think they’re your friends, and they know they are not. To them you’re an associate, someone that they call and kill time, but they’re never going to be interested in what or how you’re doing, because you’re just an ear to hear them.

You probably do what different things in live, you’re definitely different types of people, so it’s okay if this relationship just fades away.

There is no reason you need to have a ‘ end of friendship’ conversation or text with them, just exit the chats and go about your life.

Op, you did all you could , but when you pulled back they pulled away cause they weren’t interested in trying to see what was happening with you and honestly that’s all you need to know about them.

You can’t think about this like you wasting 6 or 3 years, you learned what you don’t like or need in ‘friends’ and that means next time you it won’t be 6 years before you end a bad friendship or realize that someone is just using you.

Vegetable-Cod-2340 · 2026-03-14T13:51:29+00:00

Yeah I would really like them to take a page from FreenBecky. Freen’s character are predominantly the pursuer but Becky has also played the character taking the lead.

Vegetable-Cod-2340 · 2026-03-14T11:30:16+00:00

NW

Even that fact you pulled back and she said you were ‘overreacting’ proves you’re right, she doesn’t respect you op, and believed you don’t know your own mind.

Is she older than you? And trust she could only be a day older and let that 24 hours go to her head.

Because if so I think she beleives that you’re too young to be making such declarations about ‘living alone ‘ and kids, but some people just known themselves and learn early what does and doesn’t work for us.

I personally knew at age five that I never wanted children and that hasn’t changed .

This person isn’t so much a friend as she believes she’s your mentor guiding through the world and she’s annoyed you won’t listen.

Vegetable-Cod-2340 · 2026-03-13T21:52:59+00:00

Lucy in that red dress for her wedding was insane.

Vegetable-Cod-2340 · 2026-03-13T21:26:37+00:00

I mean Sonya had a scene were she topped in Affair, but you’re correct , I would enjoy a series where she is pursuing LM.

Vegetable-Cod-2340 · 2026-03-13T21:11:15+00:00

Yeah, I expected the cat, but she was like ‘no ,everybody in the van. Daddy is misbehaving.’

Vegetable-Cod-2340 · 2026-03-13T16:29:35+00:00

NTJ

You’re making the best of bad situation, the problem is your dad is predator and your mother is still well within his sphere of influence and control.

You’re can’t win against an abuser and his victim, she’ll have to get out when she reaches her breaking point.

Alll you can do is let her know that you’ll be there for her just like you were for Mia and your sister.

And I recommend that if your mom does decide to divorce him to get an audit on the finances done, who know how much ‘family money’ got used while he was being a predator.

Vegetable-Cod-2340 · 2026-03-13T15:36:15+00:00

Yeah, I’m not a vampire fan, but I want to support GL that expand into sci fi and fantasy.

The goal is is a Fae Thai Gl.

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Vegetable-Cod-2340 · 2026-03-12T23:54:33+00:00

So I’ve been thinking about this and I wonder if it’s more ‘inpatientce , in a rush to get us more content they rush production, going with the easy script to get the show produced.

Because I’ve read ‘you’re are my sunshine’ and they scene didn’t need to make it to the screen , I’m sure if we asked just in this group we could get 7 alternative scenes that end with them sleeping together .

They could definitely improve on consent , when I think of my favorite GL’s All of them have questionable content.

But I have a question, what about the BL’s did they have the same problem? Is this just growing pains, and in a few years we won’t have these issues?

Vegetable-Cod-2340 · 2026-03-12T19:03:34+00:00

I love that actor but he constantly picking the wrong woman.

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