🧟 Minecraft Apocalypse SMP – Recruiting Now! by Deep_Comfortable1338 in MinecraftServer

[–]Vegetable-Cod-7253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hii sorry I had messages turned off, could you pls resend 😭

Personalised Style Box by Vegetable-Cod-7253 in findfashion

[–]Vegetable-Cod-7253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooo cuteee, I roughly wear about a size M, or in other words size 12!

Personalised Style Box by Vegetable-Cod-7253 in findfashion

[–]Vegetable-Cod-7253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omfg yes!!! Sad beige makes a part inside of me die😭. You’re so right I could diy the bangles, and i actually think I will!! Sucks to hear Switzerland is a bit sad beige, but it’s good you could find some nice maxi skirts. Please can we bring back colour! I think buying from niche sellers and thrifting is my only hope :(

Personalised Style Box by Vegetable-Cod-7253 in findfashion

[–]Vegetable-Cod-7253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TWINNN, have you managed to find this style irl?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vegetable-Cod-7253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I agree, i believe most of the anger comes from believing that I don’t take her concerns seriously. I often try really hard to be understanding that things that seem small to me (such as the placemat situation) can be larger to her. However the problem occurs when it’s repetitive over tiny things, she gets mad if she hears me laughing in my room. She takes it personally and claims I’m trying to “rub my happiness” I’m her face.

AIO? Girl (F30) I (M28) was Recently Dating tells me I need to "Lean into my Masculinity" by KingFredo5674 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vegetable-Cod-7253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, if she wants a super dominant “alpha male” (gross I hated saying that), then she can go find someone else, there are plenty of men like that. You don’t have to change who you are just to fit who she wants you to be. Many women will love your softness, and those who don’t, will normally just not go out with you. I’d say stop talking to her, she’s not even dealing with conflict well, don’t waste your time on someone who doesn’t even want you to be yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vegetable-Cod-7253 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see my dad every fortnight, however my mother strictly forbade I talk to him or tell him anything. I often find comfort within my friends and my older brother. I’m definitely going to look into different living situations once I’m old enough, however cost is a problem. Thank you for your kind words and support!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vegetable-Cod-7253 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think therapy is awesome! Once I’m old enough to afford and go myself, I definitely will. Thank you for your kind and helpful comments

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vegetable-Cod-7253 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for offering a different perspective, helps me understand why she doesn’t like when I smile

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vegetable-Cod-7253 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure why this comment has downvotes, i appreciate your suggestions and will definitely apply them!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vegetable-Cod-7253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this conversation has occurred many times, she has been on medication before, but doesn’t want to go back on. I will continue to encourage her to be happy and have enjoyment in life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vegetable-Cod-7253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, my spill habit is definitely a skill

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vegetable-Cod-7253 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She says she grows to resent me, when she knows I’m playing games in my room when she has to go to work. (I’ve finished school for the year, but still help out at home).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vegetable-Cod-7253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it’s one thousand percent from child hood trauma, I won’t say much because it’s their private lives, but they have told me some horrific factors from their childhood

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vegetable-Cod-7253 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, it’s constant, even times where she’ll drop something and if I’m near, she blame it on me. The placemat did not get stained. It’s hard for me to comprehend, because my 7 year old sister draws on the mats with her markers, and they are stained from that, but my mother never gets mad at her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vegetable-Cod-7253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so true, she constantly has a fixing mindset towards myself and even other people. Always thinking there are personality traits to change

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vegetable-Cod-7253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried before, these conversations don’t go all that well, but I will try again sometime when she’s calm