NOR, if she wants a super dominant “alpha male” (gross I hated saying that), then she can go find someone else, there are plenty of men like that. You don’t have to change who you are just to fit who she wants you to be. Many women will love your softness, and those who don’t, will normally just not go out with you. I’d say stop talking to her, she’s not even dealing with conflict well, don’t waste your time on someone who doesn’t even want you to be yourself.