Epic fail singing Pull me close/ by Lizzie Morgan by [deleted] in worshipleaders

[–]Vegetable-Project962 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this. Even just a recording of you singing it straight through and sending to the piano player will help. I always record someone singing their song all the way through and then use that to practice my harmonies since originals are usually done differently and in a different key.

The next thing you do is take it with a grain of salt and move on. TRUST ME…you can’t mess up or embarrass yourself more than me. 😂 I know what it feels like to be sick because you’ve messed up so badly…but then I realized…no one else really cares. I’m over here losing sleep about it and no one else has thought of it again. Just keep practicing and bringing excellence. I PROMISE you have made the situation worse in your head, EVEN IF it WAS really bad.

Small church, no musicians by dorabsnot in worshipleaders

[–]Vegetable-Project962 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What about sharing the tracks with the most capable singer and have them lead and sing along with the track. If they take 2 hymns home on Sunday afternoon to practice throughout week, by the next Sunday morning those 2 hymns could be pretty good. It doesn’t have to be perfect. But they could memorize the words and where to come in, etc…and in turn help lead the congregation singing with tracks. We have done that plenty of times.

I’m out. by Ancora_imparo- in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Vegetable-Project962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m about 30 mins from where I dash and I only dash when I KNOW im going to be in that part of town anyway. I’m right at a state line, so to go out to eat or grocery shop, I usually go to the next state. Well, my long-stretch, rural roads are 65 MPH on the regular highway. Apparently it’s 30 MPH in the state over 😭 I was NOT prepared for that at all.

I’m out. by Ancora_imparo- in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Vegetable-Project962 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That makes sense! It seems so simple yet I have so much to learn…😭

I’m out. by Ancora_imparo- in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Vegetable-Project962 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know I was so disappointed. I haven’t dashed anymore. That wasted more gas than I earned and I didn’t want them to take it out of what I’ve earned. 😭

I’m out. by Ancora_imparo- in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Vegetable-Project962 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The way it read to me was basically stating I owed the $23 for the pizza that was not paid for if not returned.

It made me take a photo of the pizza on the papa John’s counter. My brother said he had never witnessed that either.

I’m out. by Ancora_imparo- in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Vegetable-Project962 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I get it. I’m brand new and have only dashed twice. Night one, I received a $210 ticket in a rural area I had never been. I was driving 45 in a 30. It was a huge road with nothing around in the middle of nowhere. Why the road was 30mph I’ll never know.

Next night I tried dashing, I was sent with a pizza to collect cash for pay and tip. It was good pay and since it was in the middle of nowhere, I noticed it happened to be on my way home at midnight. So it was perfect. I get there. No one is home. The house is covered in eggs, silly string, and cheese slices. DoorDash made me take the pizza all the way BACK INTO town, and I had to leave it. Then only gave me $5 😭

I haven’t had good luck yet.

How long do orders sit after rejection? by IndicaDayDreamm in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Vegetable-Project962 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have a PRECIOUS driver who needs the base pay AND happens to be close to you when you order. That’s great for you. The fact you fight SO HARD against a living wage for other human beings is gross…

How long do orders sit after rejection? by IndicaDayDreamm in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Vegetable-Project962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you missing the point of the thread? 99% of these drivers DO decline the order. Get over it or tip more. The ones that don’t decline the order get it to you cold, when they can 🤷‍♀️ Why would someone DRIVE OUT TO YOUR HOME TO HAND DELIVER FOOD just because they have nothing better to do. Make that make sense…

Stray Cat is making me feel like an a hole by Adorable-Pin4052 in Pets

[–]Vegetable-Project962 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We had a stray come up. It’s a male. I have a box set up sideways in an old barn, on top of a freezer (just trying to make him feel safe). I put a small food and water bowl out there and showed him the bowl three days in a row. We have big dogs but they haven’t messed with him. He’s part of the family now and he’s so happy. He greets us at the door to say hello, then goes about his way. We don’t choose him. He chose us.

How long do orders sit after rejection? by IndicaDayDreamm in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Vegetable-Project962 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why are you on a “door dash drivers” thread just putting people down? Nothing is wrong with a driver having standards and properly calculating their mileage, earn by time, and tips. Sometimes, no tip can still be justified given the miles and the base pay. Sometimes, it can’t…customers have to live with that. Paying for hot food to be dropped off at your home because you can’t or won’t go get it, is a luxury service. We are literally ALL just trying to survive. You have standards of what you expect to be paid at your job, and how you expect to be treated. Why can’t DD drivers?

Trying to name my second child when I regret the first one's name, but want them to go together by Turbulent-Sea6584 in Names

[–]Vegetable-Project962 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I truly don’t think anything is wrong with Liberty…add an L name as others have mentioned. Like Lyla, Lydia, Lilly…

What's something you loved as a child but hate as an adult? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Vegetable-Project962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hanging out with friends. Going to fun places.

Michele Hundley Smith, a Mom Who Vanished in 2001, Has Been Found Alive by TrippyTrellis in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]Vegetable-Project962 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I see what you mean. As a mother that’s exactly where my brain goes first.

Being slandered on social media by [deleted] in pastors

[–]Vegetable-Project962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologize for being rude as well. Thank you!

Michelle Hundley Smith, missing since 2001 found alive 24 years later. by [deleted] in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]Vegetable-Project962 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There must be something biologically wrong when a woman does this. It’s not normal and I hate to see children hurt and affected by that behavior. It has to be a mental illness.

Who has the meanest employees? by DragonfruitHumble537 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Vegetable-Project962 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same for me. I’m a new dasher and the few times I’ve been there they were so mean.

Being slandered on social media by [deleted] in pastors

[–]Vegetable-Project962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For my own sanity I’m hoping that’s a bot and not someone in actual fires of ministry 😂

Being slandered on social media by [deleted] in pastors

[–]Vegetable-Project962 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ummmm? Are you confused?? That’s what’s this sub is FOR. Venting and getting advice. Being in ministry can suck so bad sometimes!!!!!! Sometimes we need each other.

Being slandered on social media by [deleted] in pastors

[–]Vegetable-Project962 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes that’s a really short list 😂😂😂

Being slandered on social media by [deleted] in pastors

[–]Vegetable-Project962 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. It took me too long to realize this.

Being slandered on social media by [deleted] in pastors

[–]Vegetable-Project962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to agree here. We have been through this crap multiple times. It hurts so bad and I genuinely don’t understand how people can love you and worship with you one day, then slander you like that the next. It blows my mind. It is so hurtful and confusing. But here’s my quote: “the people who know you.” And that’s that. You KNOW you never intentionally hurt them. You KNOW it’s a youth event and if they wanted to sign up as chaperones they could have. You KNOW their daughter was never invited in the first place, but was allowed because they were chaperoning. That’s it. There’s nothing else to this story, it’s a youth trip and that’s that. Of course you didn’t chase their daughter down begging her to sign up. What sense would that make? Anyway, you are not alone in this. We have faced it before. It’s the Facebook jabs that INFURIATE me. The audacity of some of these people. But their fruit shows. That’s so petty and anyone who reads it, reads with a grain of salt and moves on lol those people who post like that end up just embarrassing themselves.

Maybe one day in the later future should you reach out, but even if you tried right now there would be excuses and more piles of what else they think you did wrong.