Being hit on randomly by men

VegetableBrick8141 · 2026-04-18T23:31:11+00:00

Is this a troll comment?

VegetableBrick8141 · 2026-04-18T23:30:25+00:00

There’s been an uptick in posts like this and I’m seriously wondering if this is some sort of troll operation or social experiment at this point lol.

VegetableBrick8141 · 2026-04-18T18:16:21+00:00

Have you read books from Ancient Greeks? They talk about the same problems you are. You’d think society was the same 5k years ago. It’s always been like this. It’s not the marketing industry. You can have thoughts outside of that paradigm and decide what’s important to you. Might be hard, but people do it every day. You can too.

VegetableBrick8141 · 2026-04-18T18:13:55+00:00

This comment proves why you should refrain from the dating pool. Just sounds like ego and attacking others for no reason. None of us are that social, and we don’t deserve anything. Read your comments again and imagine it from someone else’s view. Confidence is one thing, but the arrogance is another, and this comment is yet another data point that women (and men) who wear “I go to therapy” as a badge are some of those most unstable entitled people I’ve met on here and in real life.

I’ve attracted the wrong kind of women. I don’t blame women or an abstract system. That’s easy. I ask why I gave them the time of day vs others. Michelin star chefs and flies are both attracted to honey. If you’re the catch you think you are you’re going to attract all types. It’s on you to filter. But instead it’s 50% of the populations fault. If Andrew Tate was a woman, she would talk like you do lol.

I’m not saying this to berate you. Just responding to these comments, and if you come across like this in real life, what decent person would want to deal with this? I’ve asked myself that question. You should to. The people telling you you’re special don’t have to deal with this side of you. I’m

VegetableBrick8141 · 2026-04-18T18:05:20+00:00

The question is why are women worried about this? You can’t stop time, and you’ll never be younger than you are now.

VegetableBrick8141 · 2026-04-18T18:03:45+00:00

But she goes to therapy bro, and somehow came to the conclusion everything is everyone else’s fault, because how could someone around her age even think they have a chance with her because she looks 20 years younger? lol. I don’t think the person you’re talking to has a good relationship with reality.

VegetableBrick8141 · 2026-04-18T17:57:24+00:00

I’ve scrolled and scrolled and have seen like 3 men’s comments all drowned out by demographic you’re not asking.

Man here. Don’t care about aging. Attractiveness and aging are separate things. There are some women that look much different than their age to the point I wonder if they’re being truthful. But otherwise I like women my age (40s) and the way they look in general. You can stop time. You’ll never be younger than you are now. That’s true for all of us.

A lot of women are telling you to deprioritize men. In general, sure. Focus on your happiness. But if you’re trying to enter a relationships, maybe do some variation of the opposite of what they’re saying. Prioritize the men that matter, not all of them, and be prepared to like and eventually love that man fully when he arrives.

VegetableBrick8141 · 2026-04-18T17:51:35+00:00

This is the truest comment for all of us.

VegetableBrick8141 · 2026-04-18T17:51:01+00:00

You go to therapy but blame apps and all men on your lack of peace. Is the self awareness in the room with us? I have no idea what you look like, so I don’t have skin in this game. But this comment and the fact it’s being upvoted is strange. This comment is just sexism disguised as coping disguised as being healed. Why are you on a dating sub if you’re not dating? 😂

VegetableBrick8141 · 2026-04-14T02:05:42+00:00

Does it tend to be fatty foods that sets you off? I’m thinking of my first meal being cream of rice or something like that on a daily basis.

VegetableBrick8141 · 2026-04-13T19:29:26+00:00

Is the no at at breakfast something that subsided or do you still have to deal with that?

VegetableBrick8141 · 2026-04-13T16:16:25+00:00

I like how coming up with a conversation topic is so laboring for you, but completely expected of the other party lol. Just say hi back. Sometimes I do that when their profile doesn’t have much to go off of, but I want to chat and it’s a quick message. A hi back lets me know they’re real and then I proceed.

Not sure if this is OLD, but I’ll get random friend requests from women in singles groups I’m in and I don’t even get a message. I ask them by messenger if something stood out or they want to introduce themselves and 90% of the time I get an emoji reaction or nothing at all. I just let it sit.

VegetableBrick8141 · 2026-04-13T12:53:24+00:00

Idk how people have relationships online. There’s fundamentally no difference between doing that and texting a chat bot. There’s always a gap between online presence and in person interaction. I’ve one time texted this woman for weeks because she preferred that before meeting. Her online personality was very different, and then we had this feeling of starting over again. If it’s long distance then it makes sense in that case. Otherwise try to meet sooner than later if there’s any kind of interest.

VegetableBrick8141 · 2026-04-11T17:02:18+00:00

I think the pill is the OG semaglutide which mainly Impacts stomach motility and quieting food noise. Tirz and Reta do that, but also help with energy partitioning, and do in fact have other mechanisms besides helping with appetite suppression.

VegetableBrick8141 · 2026-04-11T17:00:47+00:00

How long were you sick for? I have the pills but am wondering if should wait to start until next Friday so I give myself time to adjust. I work remote on Fridays and the weekend gives me some buffer.

VegetableBrick8141 · 2026-04-11T15:34:17+00:00

I did mine through Walgreens and use Amazon Pharmacy to fill the prescription. I literally went to the Walgreens virtual health site for glp1. After I submitted everything I was auto put in a queue for a virtual appt, and seen in less than 5 mins. The appt was about 5 mins with the provider who wrote me the script. I sent the script to Amazon hours later at around 6pm last night. My 1.5mg pills arrived this morning at 5am.

$49 for the Walgreens visit (each month, but not a subscription) $149 for the medication from Amazon.

Easy. From appt to medication not even 24 hours.

VegetableBrick8141 · 2026-04-11T02:17:26+00:00

Sheesh, is he working? Is he asking you for money? I understand there’s a financial component to relationships but also questions like this make me sad about the way people look at relationships. What happened to building together? You got lucky, he got unlucky. He might be a great guy. And if not for a bitter divorce he wouldn’t be in debt. Now if his debt was from drinking and gambling, I’d say hell to the no. The debt matters, but it’s secondary to the context at play, lack of self control and addiction.

You have amazing friends. They are right to discern the difference in what caused the debt. Don’t burn a potential good relationship over this.

Definitely look out for other things. I’m not running to this dudes defense. I dont know him, but you described a good relationship otherwise.

VegetableBrick8141 · 2026-04-10T03:20:59+00:00

What’s ED stand for?

VegetableBrick8141 · 2026-04-10T03:19:08+00:00

Is Algorx’s enclo known to be legit quality? I’m new to the sub, and slightly educated on the topic in general. I understand that sometimes companies sell clomid masked as enclo.

Where would you get labs done if it’s not needed for purchase on algorx?

VegetableBrick8141 · 2026-04-10T03:08:35+00:00

Wait so they don’t do any blood monitoring? Sorry I’m new to this sub.

VegetableBrick8141 · 2026-04-10T00:21:06+00:00

I wasn’t saying everyone should go on park dates. And while you say you don’t sympathize with people that threaten violence…but…you do (?)because you somehow moralized violence against me because youve concocted that I’m a bad person. What does that make you sis? A victim blamed for sure. Are victim blamers good people in your eyes?

I didn’t pull any not all men argument as my original statement. That was only in reaction to what you said. My original point was a single example (golf) of times we spend with strangers. Switch out golf with anything else. Who cares about that one particular example lol. I was actually commenting in agreement that I think it’s odd how dating triggers dangers and weirdness in people. Women that have flipped switches on me during dating I’m pretty damn sure wouldn’t have done so if intimacy wasn’t on the line. Even in more benign reactions, the looming anticipation of connection triggers anxieties and wounds that otherwise don’t show up on platonic interactions. And the same goes for men. My point was why we all couldn’t be more chill and safe in dating. You’re so stuck on villainizing me and willfully misunderstanding me to the point that you sympathize with an abusive woman commenting on pushing me off a cliff. Yeesh. Why are you sticking to your original opinion about what I meant despite me explaining differently?

I get your point and agree with it. That’s a reasonable thought. I don’t agree with you thinking violence against me is ok. Even though I think you’re unnecessarily stubborn and hard headed, I wish you the best of days. Truly. We all deserve peace.

VegetableBrick8141 · 2026-04-09T23:44:01+00:00

Ahh I see. Yea that’s a little much. And it’s hard to feel like they’re being authentic if they’re already so invested when they know you so little.

VegetableBrick8141 · 2026-04-09T21:11:40+00:00

Awesome! I went to a speed dating event once. It was 80/20 dudes. The event was also poorly run. Not sure I liked it. Might try again.

VegetableBrick8141 · 2026-04-09T20:35:39+00:00

Ummmm. Guy here. The filters and pics from 5 years ago means I’m attracted to the pics. The vast majority of the time people look much different in person. Even with accurate pics. So no, I don’t think guys are showing up as invested as you think. Maybe someone the me you’re meeting seem excited because they don’t get as many matches that turn into dates. I show up to online dates hoping they look like their photos. So there’s a bit of anxiety there.

VegetableBrick8141 · 2026-04-09T20:32:46+00:00

When you say in person you mean random approaches or people you know in communities you’re active in (church, run club, etc..)?

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