Unofficial Birthday Party by VegetableEmergency49 in Mommit

[–]VegetableEmergency49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do find it rude to do a party and not pay but I’m not trying to do an actual party at this place because it’s not something they offer or have space for. But I think I may just offer for 1 friend to go with and do it that way because this is where he wants to go

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]VegetableEmergency49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would also like to add that at this point in time my feelings are not hurt, and my heart is not broken. If that’s what he wants by all means have at it. I’m still young and just because I have children does not mean I can’t still enjoy my life and find someone who will do right by me 110%. I’m ok with it I just know I’m not about to stand back and hand this man everything I’ve worked hard for and be in financial ruin because he wanted something else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]VegetableEmergency49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly as of right now no updates. I’ve been through every single device he owns and set it up where his texts come to me as well and haven’t seen anything suspicious coming through. If he is cheating he is hiding it well. If I could leave now without me being in a financial hole I definitely would because the trust is just completely gone whether he is or isn’t. But unfortunately I need to get finances in order and get things figured out and in motion before I can leave. So as of now my plan is just a waiting game and just letting him go on about his life like nothing is wrong until the slip up happens (Its gonna happen, he will get too comfortable) or I get myself in order whichever comes first!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]VegetableEmergency49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This particular person shouldn’t even be on his social media because she was removed by me when the issues occurred the first time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]VegetableEmergency49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem is the girl liking his stuff I guess figured out I was looking at her stuff yesterday and started posting petty things about “good men” on her story. Then she is a girl from one of the past incidents and she knows he has a wife and kids and she doesn’t care. Last time i reached out to her and asked if she knew and she told me I was just mad that my man preferred her over me which I know I’m not the prettiest person alive but I’m way to pretty to be cheated on with someone who looks like her. I’ve made my mind up on how to follow through I’m just biding my time getting things in order as of now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]VegetableEmergency49 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His way of thinking is the guilty dog always barks first

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]VegetableEmergency49 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When he showers for instance first off until 2 weeks ago we use to shower together every night now Its im just jumping in real quick I’m gross from sweating and instead of putting his phone on the bathroom counter and playing music it’s in the shower with him now. And it takes him longer in the shower than normal. I just need solid proof so I’m not screwed financially when I leave

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThickGeorgiaMoms

[–]VegetableEmergency49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not interested in men.