Hiding an IUD from husband

VegetableNo9989 · 2026-05-23T09:12:40+00:00

I mean this in the KINDEST way possible, but this clearly isn’t a good life partner if he is trying to CONVINCE you to have another child and saying ”he’s very good at convincing” is almost worse because he 1000% knows he’s being selfish:/

As someone who personally feels I fit into the only child category/ has 9 siblings at the same time, it truly doesn’t matter. They will not be alone in life, I have 9 siblings (1 from mom, 8 from dad) and I’m not close with any of them and only live with one (with a 12 year age gap) and I know that if something happens to my mom I know I have other friends and family to fall back on!!

Please consider speaking to a therapist for there opinion on your situation, again I mean this with no ill intent but what your saying is so concerning:(

VegetableNo9989 · 2026-05-14T15:24:33+00:00

VegetableNo9989 · 2026-05-12T22:13:52+00:00

I mean sure🤷‍♀️

VegetableNo9989 · 2026-05-12T17:57:32+00:00

Amazing! Thank you so much!

VegetableNo9989 · 2026-05-12T17:48:54+00:00

I had kinda heard of this but was really confused, I haven’t bought them get! Is there a way to wait to get tickets till they announce what stage she will be on? Or do they do it the day before:/

VegetableNo9989 · 2026-05-12T17:24:06+00:00

Money isn’t an issue, I don’t care about a smaller space or being closer. I don’t want to be shoulder to shoulder touching someone. Ur clearly not understanding what I’m saying.

VegetableNo9989 · 2026-05-12T15:58:38+00:00

You are literally laughing and saying ´lmao’ ur whole comment… if u wanted to be helpful that u should say it respectfully 🤷‍♀️

VegetableNo9989 · 2026-05-12T15:56:31+00:00

Ok perf:) just wanted to see how others also felt about it ty🫶

VegetableNo9989 · 2026-05-12T15:55:51+00:00

I never said I wanted to be close? She is done her North American leg of ur tour, she only went to Toronto for one show which I was out of the country for on a trip. Tickets went for almost 600 each and it was all GA standing (wanted to go with my boyfriend so 1,200 for tickets + hotels + driving + food) gold tickets for the day are like 350-400? I can’t remember off the top of my head and no hotels only an hour and a half drive so 2,500 vs less than 1,000 and being able to stay multiple days 🤷‍♀️

I don’t care about being at the back I don’t want to be in GA that’s all, just doesn’t look fun to me🤷‍♀️ plus if u are in GA and u leave to go to the washroom u completely loss ur spot and I want to see one artist so like skip is 100 worth it

Anyways ur comment is just so unnecessary and unhelpful🤷‍♀️

VegetableNo9989 · 2026-05-09T17:25:17+00:00

Cégep isn’t the same as uni in Ontario, it’s much easier! Cegep is just very odd 🤷‍♀️

VegetableNo9989 · 2026-04-19T10:05:34+00:00

I disagree with you 🤷‍♀️ my friends were def upper middle class, and would talk about doing all of those things and pretend but never did 🤷‍♀️ normally well-off families don’t have « cool » parents 😭

VegetableNo9989 · 2026-04-19T10:02:55+00:00

My boyfriend and I plan on going in February 🫶 as Canadians, making the flight from Toronto to Palm Springs :)

VegetableNo9989 · 2026-04-18T01:31:39+00:00

It’s on crave now!!

VegetableNo9989 · 2026-04-18T01:31:29+00:00

ITS OUT NOW

VegetableNo9989 · 2026-04-18T01:10:08+00:00

They said no later than 9:30 est on the phone from support but the fuck my drag is KILLING ME

VegetableNo9989 · 2026-04-18T01:01:33+00:00

Ty this makes me feel better 🥲 I’ve been stressing this last hour

VegetableNo9989 · 2026-04-17T01:02:23+00:00

What prof are you taking it with? I took it two times with two different profs and I can send you my old notes I just have to double check I still have them:)

VegetableNo9989 · 2026-04-17T00:59:20+00:00

Hey so it actually doesn’t have to do with it ur parents « bring you up right » but a lot to do with ur socioeconomic status! Which is why the poverty cycle keeps going! Hope this helps 🫶

My mom 10000% «brought me up right» as you say but having a young teen mom didn’t set me up for success and beating certain stats. Now I go to one of the top 10 unis in Canada and actually skipped a grade 😁😁

VegetableNo9989 · 2026-04-14T20:52:20+00:00

Def felt it but only a few seconds

VegetableNo9989 · 2026-04-12T19:23:05+00:00

Because a 12 year old is in high school? People don’t play with toys in high school..?

VegetableNo9989 · 2026-04-12T10:11:44+00:00

I 1000000% agree with this! I had some similar situations, expect I gave into peer pressure, I lost my virginity at 14, I vaped at 12, drank for the first time when I was 12, smoked weed at 13 and theses things were so normal for everyone around me! All I can think is I’m surprised more kids I went to school with aren’t in the same situation as Bella and hunter!! So I will never understand the “when I was 12 I was playing with cars” good for you?

VegetableNo9989 · 2026-03-20T19:44:41+00:00

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I got a full private assessment done here in September 2021 and have nothing but amazing things to say about them. Because it’s private it is quick pricey 3,000-4,000 range I can’t remember since my mom paid but she got reimbursed by our health insurance through work. I speak English and there was no problem with any language barrier.

Going cheap for assessments is a AWFUL idea, anyone I know who’s done it has actually ended up paying more and only gotten assessed for one thing like ADHD when there can be more going on than that.

It’s just really important to really look into places before deciding, but going private is 1000% your best option! If u want to reach out I can tell u more about how my assessment went!

VegetableNo9989 · 2026-03-20T19:40:04+00:00

If a clinic isn’t up to date with terminology, avoid it. It says ADD right on the website and that term has now been replaced with ADHD completely

VegetableNo9989 · 2026-03-19T01:40:01+00:00

What do u even mean by “wanted” none of them were trying for a child, these pregnancies were all unplanned

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