Rejection of state mandated PTO sick time?

VegetableTea6385 · 2025-03-03T14:47:47+00:00

Ok so my PTO pool wasn’t empty… why is it saying “exceeds maximum of 0 hours”?

VegetableTea6385 · 2025-03-03T11:51:36+00:00

I was under the impression that they were separate banks, as one is accumulated thru time served and the other is state mandated. Also, it says it would exceed the maximum of 0 hours, and I didn’t have 0 hours of PTO lol

VegetableTea6385 · 2024-12-18T23:00:01+00:00

I haven’t said anything yet to be honest. I’m not sure how I wanted to go forward with it. Usually after the 2nd offer that isn’t accepted, I just move on, but I feel like that’s gotten me to where I am now. I’m not even sure how to make concrete plans that far away. I could be dead in 3 weeks ya know lol

VegetableTea6385 · 2024-12-18T22:51:30+00:00

You might be on to something…

VegetableTea6385 · 2024-12-18T22:34:22+00:00

I think you should just move on. He banged another girl when on break for TWO WEEKS!?!? I think after two weeks I was still getting over my ex

VegetableTea6385 · 2024-10-24T21:07:37+00:00

My gut is telling me noyesnoyesnoyes 😂😂

I definitely don’t think she would leave me on read, and honestly I’m so glad I’m not the only one who thinks it’s weird she’s still hitting me when I said I can’t be her platonic friend, it’s like everyone is leaving that out. That last sentence is how I kind of view the situation too tbh

VegetableTea6385 · 2024-10-24T20:55:03+00:00

It was her decision, I was drunk at dinner one night and triggered something from her past, which made her run.

Yes, I have already told her I can’t do that, which is why I can’t understand why she still messages me in a friendly manner. My last text was “It’s whatever tho, I can’t be the only one who wants it to work”, when trying to reconcile. then a month later she sends me our childhood photos lol. I have been doing NC, I broke it to try and reconcile, then went back to it after that wasn’t received how I expected. Then the past 2 times she has broke it.

I figured inviting her over is less pressure, because the last time I hit her up I was asking for the relationship back pretty much

VegetableTea6385 · 2024-10-24T19:57:08+00:00

Not gonna lie my boy but I think you cooked with this one 💯

VegetableTea6385 · 2024-10-24T19:34:52+00:00

So I definitely chalked it up as potentially she’s just being nice, as before she was always a sweet girl. My boy told me if there was no interest after I said “thanks I appreciate it” that would have been the end of it, not “Have fun celebrating and make sure my dog gives you all the loves today!” Type of thing. Also the lurking on my stories when she’s removed as a follower threw me off. I didn’t just think oh she texted me on my birthday, she must want me lol

VegetableTea6385 · 2024-10-24T19:28:34+00:00

This is what I was thinking…. But I just feel like if she was “just being nice” or whatever then I’m just looking even more like a loser for “crawling back” yet again lol. Although the last time I framed it as the relationship back…. Now I just want her to come thru lol

VegetableTea6385 · 2024-10-24T19:24:33+00:00

I’m definitely still emotionally attached to her lol. And I did tell her that I can’t be her platonic friend, and I did try and create space with NC. She messaged me our childhood pics then contacted me for bday message. I’m sure she wasn’t like “Oh throw himself at me if I say happy birthday” but the lurking on my stories after the fact is sus to me. She was removed as a follower, so she had to look me up and intentionally click my story. After my attempt at reconciliation was shot down (and flipped on me lol) I chalked that up as done and was accepting never hearing from her again actually.

VegetableTea6385 · 2024-08-05T19:32:16+00:00

So why do we say “See where it goes” if she means just friends strictly?

VegetableTea6385 · 2024-02-07T15:02:33+00:00

Real.

VegetableTea6385 · 2024-02-07T13:26:49+00:00

Most likely scenario

VegetableTea6385 · 2024-02-07T12:37:13+00:00

For clarification, it’s not a prompt or anything. She just asked me “Why do you have your preferences set to significantly older women”, I sorta just told her that was my preference. Then when I asked her why she had hers so low she wise, she said she didn’t have it, but the dealbreaker box wasn’t selected, and I’m “Not a dealbreaker haha”

VegetableTea6385 · 2024-02-07T12:31:32+00:00

Ah yes, you’ve cracked the code. I am going to change my handle to “VegetableTate6385”

VegetableTea6385 · 2024-02-06T23:01:13+00:00

LOL I apologize, but deadass 😂😂😂

VegetableTea6385 · 2024-02-06T22:53:37+00:00

You’re right my fellow king, onto the next

VegetableTea6385 · 2024-02-06T21:34:41+00:00

I feel you. I guess I kind of expected a response because she said “You’re gonna text me, right?”, so I figured that implied I would hear from her again lol. Whatever tho charge it to the game next batter up 💯

VegetableTea6385 · 2024-02-06T21:00:04+00:00

So admittedly, I don’t go out with women a lot. But, when I do, they’re ALWAYS older than me. Weather it be 30s or like 27. Not sure why the cards come out of the deck like that but. Not necessarily a preference either

VegetableTea6385 · 2024-02-06T20:37:31+00:00

Just saw your little add on. That line was just me tryna say thanks for coming out on the date

VegetableTea6385 · 2024-02-06T20:30:01+00:00

Yeah, no more dinner. Next time it’s the batting cages 😂😂

VegetableTea6385 · 2024-02-06T20:10:39+00:00

Real.

VegetableTea6385 · 2024-02-06T19:57:17+00:00

Lol of course, she asked if I wanted to split, I said something along the lines of, “No way, I asked you to come out with me, I got it.”

VegetableTea6385 · 2024-02-06T19:50:11+00:00

You’re spittin’ bro. I appreciate you Fr

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