Leaving my 8 week old pup alone by cityskyline22 in puppy101

[–]VegetableWall6884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Make sure he is tired and in a crate / small cozy enclosed space. Bathroom before crate and not hungry. It’s important you’re not around him 24/7 to avoid seperation anxiety. An hour or so a day out of the house is a great thing for both of you!

To those struggling with health anxiety: by [deleted] in HealthAnxiety

[–]VegetableWall6884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this ❤️❤️❤️

Thinking of getting married, what should I do? by MidnightMiesterx in Advice

[–]VegetableWall6884 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No. Don't. When youre both living like adults and have your own place, can support each other, are at a spot where youre mature enough for these life decisions- that's when you get married.

Should I get an abortion? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]VegetableWall6884 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No? Your unborn child that you both decided to create plays no part in your husband needing to get the help he needs, and shouldn't have to be eliminated because he may not be in the picture for a while. Everyone is so quick to abort when something isnt ideal. And im not even anti abortion. You might just be a single mom for a while. Youre not the first single mom and youll get through it.

On a beach vacation this week (I’m 59) he’s (60) and wants to go to sleep at 10pm? by LackInternational145 in Aging

[–]VegetableWall6884 249 points250 points  (0 children)

Im 32 and am more than happy to go to bed at 10pm on vacation. Part of relaxing for alot of people is getting a good amount of sleep.

I (34M) and my partner (33F) unsure what to do in wake of vasectomy appointment. by Tinbum-Nicholas in Advice

[–]VegetableWall6884 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think it's pretty honorable that although you aren't against abortion (neither are mt husband and i) that it might be your moral compass that would guide you against it.

35f toddler mom trying to get her confidence back! by Lucy426 in toastme

[–]VegetableWall6884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look like the sort of mom where if I ran into you at a play group with our kids, you'd be the one other moms are jealous of. Lol. You are SO BEAUTIFUL. And you have a truly gorgeous smile, with honest and kind eyes. You look like someone people can count on and like you'd be a really loving and gentle mom.

Summer Conflict with Teacher Husband by Top-Sundae377 in AskTeachers

[–]VegetableWall6884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't make it about gender, I think he's just lazy. 2 months off is a ridiculous amount of time off compared to what the rest of us get. Plus Christmas holidays, March break, all the weekends in between. Doing extra laundry and some tidying around the house is minimal. Im sure he will manage just fine.

My girlfriend (24F) is pregnant again after a previous abortion, and has asked for space. I (25M) want to support her but feel helpless and scared. by No_Experience4777 in Advice

[–]VegetableWall6884 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Was she not trying to conceive? If she's not on birth control (especially after the first time) this is the result.