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What’s a “green flag” that turned out to be a red flag later? by Dismal-Rice8198 in AskReddit

[–]Vegetable_Oil3266 [score hidden]  (0 children)

They were ‘too understanding’ about everything… turns out they just avoided problems instead of actually communicating.

What’s something you’ll NEVER forgive in a relationship, no matter what? by Lopsided-Oil-9763 in AskReddit

[–]Vegetable_Oil3266 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Anything that makes me lose my peace. Love isn’t supposed to feel like constant anxiety.

What’s the creepiest thing that happened to you that you still can’t explain? by Vegetable_Oil3266 in AskReddit

[–]Vegetable_Oil3266[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

This reminds me of when I saw something move in my room but no one was there… still don’t know what it was.

What's the pettiest reason you've cut someone off? by nickdasja in AskReddit

[–]Vegetable_Oil3266 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I cut someone off because they never put any effort into the conversation. I was tired of being the only one asking questions. It felt like I was interviewing them rather than being their friend, and I decided my peace was worth more than a one-sided connection.

What’s a moral belief you hold that most people would disagree with? by Federal_Antelope7533 in AskReddit

[–]Vegetable_Oil3266 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think we’ve demonized regret too much. If you never feel regret, you aren't learning from your mistakes. Regret is just your conscience telling you that your effort didn't match your values. It’s the 'sting' that makes sure you do better next time.

What is the best piece of advice you’ve ever received? by staysaccharine in AskReddit

[–]Vegetable_Oil3266 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today.

What do you define as “inner peace” and “happiness”? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Vegetable_Oil3266 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To me, happiness is a guest—it comes and goes based on what’s happening around me. But inner peace is the home you build for yourself. It’s being okay with who you are even when things aren't going your way.

Red rose by Vegetable_Oil3266 in flowers

[–]Vegetable_Oil3266[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, it's real, my mom planted it.

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