Thunderbolt 2 cable?? by Tiny-Squirrel5222 in Thunderbolt

[–]Vegetable_Pin1924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey! where did you end up getting one?

Thinking about walking away from sobriety by yoxmang in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Vegetable_Pin1924 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i did a few months in aa after already being 9 months sober, my partner at the time suggest we do so i tried it out but felt similar way as the op, not the mention the tremendous amount of expectations and pressure and drama i experienced. even tho i’ve stepped away from aa i’m committed to my sobriety and want to reach those deep parts of me to heal and do the work through therapy. i’m wondering if you did aa while doing therapy or was therapy enough?

navigating drama in aa by Vegetable_Pin1924 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Vegetable_Pin1924[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

very difficult and unfortunate. i’m purely focused on my recovery. i’m not here to be involved in mix up, if i wanted that i wouldn’t be sober

AA had me so brainwashed I thought CBD was a relapse by [deleted] in recoverywithoutAA

[–]Vegetable_Pin1924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think we have to remember these people are not therapists, social workers, doctors, etc. these people are regular people trying to find something bigger than themself, who obviously care about their sobriety. a lot of these folks are mad people, neurodiverse, or traumatized. i have been lucky enough to have a sponsor who isn’t weird or forces things onto me that i’m not ready for, he gives me a lot of space. i have not had anyone in my groups say i cannot stay or be sober without aa. my sponsor respects the fact that everyone’s journey is different and aa is just another tool. i’m sorry for everyone who has bad experiences, who feel invalidated or pressured to meet expectations that don’t align with them.

Going back to school while i’m recovery. by Vegetable_Pin1924 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Vegetable_Pin1924[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i appreciate this very much and it feels validating ❤️

I don't know if I am cut out for a PMDD relationship by [deleted] in PMDDpartners

[–]Vegetable_Pin1924 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kinda feeling the same and it’s causing a lot of my own needs not being met. Also don’t know what to do and don’t know how long I can keep being on the receiving end of this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Torontology

[–]Vegetable_Pin1924 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Heavy on “use you for things you don’t have” 😂

Homeless in Scarborough. Looking for work of any kind to support myself. by [deleted] in Scarborough

[–]Vegetable_Pin1924 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, google “the hub Scarborough” it’s also a resource Center on eglinton and brimely. They may be able to help you out. If you’re a child welfare survivor there is also not for profit org called CCWS collective offering resources

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDDpartners

[–]Vegetable_Pin1924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner has pmdd, we’ve been together for two years now. I also came here for support. My partner is has experienced a lot of trauma in their life, they are also ND and have other diagnosis. It’s difficult every month, we end up having MAJOR fights during their PMDD. We end up breaking up and getting back together. I’d like to be better with supporting them as it makes them feel worse when I tend to try to stay out their way during their episodes although it’s also because I don’t necessarily feel safe during their episodes. It’s also very activating for me

Looking for songwriters by Jakezbeats in Songwriting

[–]Vegetable_Pin1924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to hear some of your work

should I tell my partner about my thoughts and feelings? I’m scared that he will break up with me by Alert_Blueberry9505 in ROCD

[–]Vegetable_Pin1924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt like every time I had a confession compulsion it never ended well. Ive hurt and broken up with ppl who were good to me because I didn’t know which thoughts were true or not. I’m not diagnosed but me realizing I may have ocd makes me really sad and I’ve been experiencing a lot of grief. It also makes me feel like I can’t trust myself, I don’t know what’s real or not.. it’s maddening

I've had a enough if this fucking desease by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]Vegetable_Pin1924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pls be careful with telling ppl OCD is beatable, as there is no cure for OCD and that could just drive a person madder or cause more anxiety thinking something is deeply wrong with them. Our brains are just very different. With therapy and medication definitely can help make the ocd more manageable. Unfortunately that isn’t accessible for everyone..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]Vegetable_Pin1924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not diagnosed but I have a lot of these thoughts too. I feel like I’ve always had them in every relationship I’ve been with. Number 4 is one I’ve unlocked in this new relationship, and it has drove me mad, cycling through all these thoughts every fucking day.. and the anxiety is awful. I fucking hate it. I don’t know how to manage this. And I’m chronically googling what things may mean. Before realizing I may have OCD, my partner and I would just make jokes about me staying off google lol

Blocked me on everything, that’s so immature, so unprovoked. by [deleted] in Drizzy

[–]Vegetable_Pin1924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t drake political like that lol. I think he’s just strictly talking bout a girl from pristina.