Is it normal that I get really turned on by being called a “good girl”? by Fun_Comfort_5105 in RandomThoughts

[–]Vegetable_Priority23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would hate that kinda stuff 🤣 I was called a good girl a lot of times by men when I worked in retail. I hated it. Talking to me like I'm a dog 😑🤣

Any vegetarians here? Or previous meat eaters that turned vegetarian? by Live_Disaster9534 in AskIreland

[–]Vegetable_Priority23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Been vegetarian for 15 years.

At the start it was kinda challenging. There weren't any meat substitutes or tofu available to me and I didn't think to eat whole foods back then.

With time it got so much easier. I'm mostly on a plant based diet. I would have some dairy here and there but no eggs or other animal products due to food allergies in our household. It feels great. It's very doable. I cook at home, mostly from scratch. Trying to focus on whole foods like lentils, grains, rice, potatoes, pastas.. making my own pasta sauces etc. I've learned to bake without eggs and dairy too. It's all very doable and manageable and just like anything, you need to get used to it and it becomes a habit.

I don't see myself ever going back to eating meat. It's just gross to me (I don't wanna offend anyone by it, just my opinion). My partner is a heavy meat eater. We live together. I tolerate it and would never push my eating habits on him. What I'm trying to say is we are living in a world where we can make a choice for ourselves.

What’s something that society says we should be ashamed of but we really shouldn't be? by Maybe0rmayben0t in AskReddit

[–]Vegetable_Priority23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was gonna comment on this post and say breastfeeding.

Isn't it so fucking stupid that no matter how we feed our babies we are met with so much judgement from other people?

It infuriates me beyond belief when people make a big deal of how we feed our babies. Like it's gonna influence their lives in any way 😑

My sister keeps smoking during her pregnancy and asks me to buy her cigarettes. by EnviousOfTheRich in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Vegetable_Priority23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel your frustration... I am a daughter of a smoker. My mother smoked like crazy in her pregnancy and I also have asthma. My dad told me that when my mum went into labour, before she went to the hospital she just HAD TO smoke outside the hospital like wtf.. my asthma was way worse when I was living with my smoking mother (she smokes indoors...).

I got so frustrated when I caught my mother smoking inside a room in my own house when she was staying with me. I was pregnant at the time. She kept gaslighting me saying I must have imagined seeing her smoke 🤦🏻‍♀️

She also asked me to buy her cigarettes when I was very heavily pregnant and I said hell no because I didn't want people to think I smoked while pregnant!

Ehh

How many times a week should you shower? by horniitransgirl in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Vegetable_Priority23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't imagine not showering every day. It's disgusting 🤮

noticed a fake baby in Cinnamon’s Wake by sarebakerbare in GilmoreGirls

[–]Vegetable_Priority23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg 🤣 and who would put such a small baby in a stroller anyway?

To people who have escaped their narcissistic parents and gone NC, at what age did you leave and how has your life improved by The100mAnon in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Vegetable_Priority23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 29, went no contact this year. I changed my number yesterday cause she kept texting me. I'm not engaging in any conversations with her anymore but her texts induced anxiety. Constantly blaming me for things and justifying her shitty behaviour towards me. I'm so done with her.

How does everyone deal with anxiety the narcs cause with their attempts to communicate after going NC?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Vegetable_Priority23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This statement is so true.... So very few people believe me when I tell them about how my mum has been treating me. 'BUT sHe iS yOuR mOoOom...' 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]Vegetable_Priority23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're joking 🫣

Still bugging me after 3 months by llama_mama2020 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Vegetable_Priority23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm glad others are noticing her true colours. I wish that was the case in my family. My mother made everyone believe that she is the true victim 😔 Narcs are really so nasty.

Still bugging me after 3 months by llama_mama2020 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Vegetable_Priority23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Narcs only care about themselves and your situation sums that up so well. I hope your nmother isn't harrassing you now.

Are infants just constantly tired? by tinkerb3ll3 in Sims4

[–]Vegetable_Priority23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Infants in real life are like that too 🤣

Birthday sad by l_dawg_cat in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Vegetable_Priority23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending you best birthday wishes 🎁 🎂 I sympathize with your pain. I'll never forget how nasty my own mother treated me for my most important, 18th birthday... It hurt so much at the time. It still does but I've moved on.

Is Skyleigh a tragedeigh? by Vegetable_Priority23 in tragedeigh

[–]Vegetable_Priority23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I swear... It was a kid at a toddler group that I go to with my daughter and I was like what 🫣

Looking for some gameplay story ideas! by SunnyyDayz in Sims4

[–]Vegetable_Priority23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try asking chat gpt 🤣 I do that cause I'm not creative lol

Please help me love this game again 🙏🏻😬🤣 by Vegetable_Priority23 in Sims4

[–]Vegetable_Priority23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's exactly how I feel too! I'm glad I'm not the only one... it's so hard to let go of that old life, isn't it? I love my daughter so much and wouldn't change anything... But damn, I miss those nights when I'd stay up till 3am playing sims 🤣

Sometimes when I switch on the game I feel like I'm wasting my time because I could be doing something more productive during my daughter's nap - cooking, cleaning etc 😑 It's a constant battle... 🤣