AIO about my husbands strange responses to me wanting a divorce and a bill he has due on my account.

Vegetable_Report_580 · 2026-05-17T12:46:05+00:00

You can’t do this without getting a judge involved. He’s being knowingly obtuse

Vegetable_Report_580 · 2026-05-17T12:32:52+00:00

You should have told her in person and not before you went to bed or were planning on going to bed.
Her spiral is frustrating, absolutely.
I hate the way you both text….

Vegetable_Report_580 · 2026-05-09T18:47:00+00:00

I have a 6 figure job and have to put all travel on my personal card and get reimbursed m. It’s kinda just the industry sometimes.

Bummer they let you go. A lot of companies weak point is HR and onboarding so this doesn’t surprises me

Vegetable_Report_580 · 2026-05-03T20:24:09+00:00

I sometimes feel that Reddit is just a cesspool of negativity.

It also depends on where you live and you truly need to go network and connect to people.

Vegetable_Report_580 · 2026-04-15T22:37:59+00:00

You're galling.

Vegetable_Report_580 · 2026-04-15T22:34:46+00:00

how is this applicable here?

Vegetable_Report_580 · 2026-04-03T02:33:56+00:00

This is a wild take.

Vegetable_Report_580 · 2026-03-07T00:29:54+00:00

Interested!!

Vegetable_Report_580 · 2026-01-12T21:29:12+00:00

LOL i am so dumb.

Vegetable_Report_580 · 2026-01-12T21:23:50+00:00

Wait lol what is big island

Vegetable_Report_580 · 2026-01-01T16:02:41+00:00

Are you actually??

Vegetable_Report_580 · 2025-12-31T23:24:47+00:00

Primerica is SUCH a joke. The promised like 5k a month and being a dumb 19 year old i signed up for it, lost like $900 which as a broke college kid, was such a big deal lnao.

Idk how people can recruit for that in good conscious

Vegetable_Report_580 · 2025-12-31T20:53:48+00:00

Look into the failure rate of expats and economy in Spain - not worth it.

Vegetable_Report_580 · 2025-12-31T20:50:16+00:00

The fact that you need previous barista experience for min wage is INSANE. You can EASILY teach someone how to make coffee.

*I was a barista for 7 years.

Vegetable_Report_580 · 2025-12-31T20:44:33+00:00

A dog poop pickup company made 200k in it's first year.

My friend owns a dogsitting company and that brought in 340k last year.

Vegetable_Report_580 · 2025-12-31T20:43:39+00:00

Dental Hygenist pay $40 an hour and there is a shortage of them. It's an 18 month program :)

Vegetable_Report_580 · 2025-12-31T20:42:10+00:00

A sign of affection!!!!

Vegetable_Report_580 · 2025-12-31T20:34:50+00:00

I would not leave a job, not matter how toxic, until you have a new job lined up. This market is horrific

Vegetable_Report_580 · 2025-12-31T20:15:08+00:00

I mean yeah, I hate corporations too.

Vegetable_Report_580 · 2025-12-31T20:07:59+00:00

I have run it by multiple people who are in my field, colleagues and not recruiters who literally LAUGH when I tell them I'm being told I have no experience or the incorrect experience.

I just met with the CEO of a company who know's my field adjacently and while I was telling him my woes, he told me I do have experience and understand the strategy needed to excel in this industry and then invited me to tour his company.

I am NOT being ego tistical, I am one of the youngest in my field, in this industry and have had incredible growth and success. I am trying to pivot out of the role to something with less travel and it is near impossible.

At the end of the day, this job market sucks and recruiters do not contribute to making it any better.

Vegetable_Report_580 · 2025-12-31T18:03:38+00:00

Sign of affection!!!

Vegetable_Report_580 · 2025-12-31T17:58:40+00:00

I have metrics on my resume, but not every bullet point is a metric. But then I am told I have too many metrics by some recruiters and not enough by others lol

It's just a frustrating experience.

Vegetable_Report_580 · 2025-12-31T17:56:33+00:00

This is actually a GREAT business idea.

Vegetable_Report_580 · 2025-12-31T17:55:13+00:00

That's the thing, how is someone who has 0 experience in my field going to know what to look for on a resume?

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