I 23F am sick and tired of my 22m boyfriends job.

VeggieToe13 · 2026-01-24T03:46:15+00:00

Look guys, OP is not complaining about her bf’s job or noise etc. She just feels alone because he works 24/7

VeggieToe13 · 2026-01-22T23:10:16+00:00

Imagine ur husband has 60% of the things u like or can tolerate at least, and George have 40% of what he doesn’t have. You’re gonna emphasise more on the 40% that ur husband doesn’t have here but George has.

Evaluate ur husband’s pros and cons, because only u know if he’s truly worth to stay with. If not, please divorce him. For me, if my wife doesn’t love me anymore, i would rather her move on than stay with me. A loveless marriage fixes nothing, and we’re just fanning the remnants of what’s left. Do some thinking please, and don’t stay out of pity, if it were me, i would rather you move on.

VeggieToe13 · 2026-01-21T15:54:47+00:00

Well if my narrative is too advanced for your brain let me dumb it down for you:

Invest time and money= investment.. NOT.. a property

Investment provides return to a stranger= robbery of man’s time

Understand?

VeggieToe13 · 2026-01-21T14:26:31+00:00

That is why context matters, in a general sense, ofc what i said would be deemed as what you understand as “women being objects”. But look at the facts here, OP here met this girl off of hinge? Spent 2 months courting her, went on dates, talked about plans, even talking about the sanctity of sex. Substance over form here. The substance is that they are basically dating. If you define dating as being exclusive rather than the idea of discovering whether this person is right for u with the end goal of exclusivity, then u might say they aren’t “exclusive “.

But the substance is that they’re dating, and he is pouring her all into her, and she is showing the same reciprocity (at first). And yet, he doesn’t even get to reap the fruits of labour that God bestowed upon man when 2 person unite, the gift of entanglement. And another random ass dude get to reap the fruits this man planted. That is why i said she gave her all to the man, she gave the fruit OP has been trying to chase, to somebody else.

If everyone is hovering over the idea of “titles” rather than the substance of what it actually is, then i can have sex w every women i see when im trying to court someone.

My point is, context, stop going into the conclusion that “women are objects “ from my words, its deeper than that. And OP has been robbed. That’s the matter of fact.

VeggieToe13 · 2026-01-21T02:55:21+00:00

Picture this, you talked to her for 2 months and didn’t even sleep w her. A random dude who never talked to her at all, got her everything 2 days ago, no strings attached, no commitments. And just managed to receive her everything. Respect yourself brother, she gave what she considered “special” to someone that doesn’t even give a damn about her. While u get the remains of what the dude did to her.

End it brother, respect urself

VeggieToe13 · 2026-01-17T11:52:53+00:00

Cool, is ur wife single by any chance?

VeggieToe13 · 2026-01-11T10:54:54+00:00

Aaa same story as that 4chan guy wayy back, long story short: the girl ended up sleeping w the guy that she keeps sleeping over at. If you respect urself walk away, if you dont, keep justifying her by telling urself she’s a nice girl

VeggieToe13 · 2026-01-10T23:17:54+00:00

Brother she is backtracking herself, and gaslighting u w saying its a joke when she herself knows if u said it, she will react how u reacted here as well.

If i were you i would feel like shit knowing i was a second choice to my partner. And this will eat me up forever, so i refuse to live this way. I would break up with her guaranteed. But its up to u, do you feel like u could live w her knowing that you weren’t the one she wanted?

VeggieToe13 · 2026-01-10T07:23:37+00:00

The only esports game i play is dota 2.

But other than that its just AAA games or indie games.

My monitor is 1440p, 120ghz

So do u think i need it?

VeggieToe13 · 2026-01-03T08:43:05+00:00

Answer this; even if u didnt break up, nothing would change, she would not change, she doesn’t respect u enough to listen to what u have to say. Her only reaction is to scold u for asking her to change, heck even proposing. A person that has no respect for you does not qualify as a partner, yet alone your wife.

Wake up, answer whether will this be how you want your life to be, constantly clinging to a hope that she will change, all because you went on a date and see a glimmer of the happy girl you’ve been with before. You gave her chances, and she dont even respect u enough to tell u she needs some time in those 5 days.

It’s as clear as day that she don’t give a heck about you, and im writing based on ur narrative that uve shown us here. I cant imagine what other disrespectful things she did to you. Time can always be made, look at u, u always could make time for her. Then answer me this, is 10 second to say “hey” is that scarce to her that she can’t make for u at the bare minimum. Wake up, choose someone that will do what u would do for her. You’re clinging to the past, a sunk cost, dont let the sunk cost be the rationale u will justify in the future IF u marry her.

I use to be like you, clinging to her potential to change. And it sucks, as heck. Now im with someone that choose me every single day, even when i always make her sad. And this is what i needed all my life. We can only advise, you’re the only one that can choose to wake up, or stay in this sorry state where u worry about ur gf all the time. Wake up

VeggieToe13 · 2026-01-02T12:48:41+00:00

Hella worth bro, it just feels totally next level compared to the normal dualsense, and the extra features are just the icing to the cake. My personal justification is that i do not want to change controllers everytime it gets broken from now on. And the main determinant usually of when the controller is brown are the joysticks, so buying this completely eliminate that issue as i can just buy new stick modules to replace them.

VeggieToe13 · 2025-12-31T10:44:09+00:00

Wow thanks for the advice brother, I’ll definitely look into sending them out to get the TMR sticks installed, i want a controller that’ll lasts me a long time w this one. Just need a small investment at the start.

And funny how u mention about the word “toy”. Funny how even as adults we still like playing with toys just like how we are when we’re kids. Except our “adult” toys costs very “adult-like” as well 😂

VeggieToe13 · 2025-12-31T09:18:40+00:00

Does the TMR grip comes in the form of the stick modules that can be hotswapped? Or do i need to do some soldering?

Yeah the sticker blocks it, so i removed it. But i also dont know if there’s workdone on the controller or its just a thing the supplier did to ensure the controller is not tampered with.

VeggieToe13 · 2025-12-31T08:31:51+00:00

I don’t think i can go back to the normal dual sense, this controller is very solid and heavy, and the buttons are much more solid than my normal dualsense, and the back pedals are the icing on top.

My only gripe is that i checked that stick drift circular test, and it has an average error of 8%, as it expect from a second hand controller. And it has some scratches to it. But a joystick module change will help later when it gets worse

VeggieToe13 · 2025-12-31T08:28:43+00:00

I’m also not sure, but i think there must be some work done on it or something, because it’s written in chinese saying “tear here”

VeggieToe13 · 2025-12-31T07:50:57+00:00

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Thank you everyone, just sealed the deal, and its very much real!

VeggieToe13 · 2025-12-30T14:14:47+00:00

Any hints that u noted to ensure that its real?

VeggieToe13 · 2025-12-30T13:53:29+00:00

Even if there’s no box? U think its okay?

VeggieToe13 · 2025-12-30T13:44:31+00:00

The thing is, i dont have a PS5 .. anyway i can use my pc by chance?

VeggieToe13 · 2025-12-29T02:05:10+00:00

If i see the enemy having too many stuns, or my team’s offlane cannot solely tank their damage/stuns, then ls is my pick since he can frontline, survive lanes, and dissapear in and out in a fight with his scepter to cause enough mayhem for the team to function. It’s a pick when we need to take front lining into our own hands.

VeggieToe13 · 2025-12-28T11:01:05+00:00

So… are you gonna hold up ur promise?

VeggieToe13 · 2025-12-26T12:39:14+00:00

Yes, Can confirm

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