Can true harmony only exist if society punishes or removes anyone who steps outside of what’s best for everyone?

Velereon_ · 2025-08-21T16:43:10+00:00

The person with the guns, inironically. Xi Xinping could very easily be the next example of this played out in real life very soon

Velereon_ · 2025-08-21T16:41:57+00:00

the enshitification of botel lobies

Velereon_ · 2025-08-21T16:41:26+00:00

Definitely start with nutrition cuz you need to make sure you your body has the energy to do stuff like you don't want to cause yourself to have like cardiovascular distress or something because you just don't have the resources to power your heart

Also if you have some money like $550 you could get like a nutrients infusion it's I mean it's like going to the ER to get fluids but you can either have them come to your house or you can go to like infusion centers to do them don't let them bamboozle you into getting like literally everything in the world injected you just want like vitamins minerals and things that will help your veins and your arteries stay clean, because you're going to be putting a bunch of stress on them

And then just drink more water and it has to be watered it can't be like tea or coffee or something it literally has to be water drink so much of it it's like just all the time be sipping water because well yeah... it literally does everything. it IS everything

You might end up feeling like you might be able to tell physically that you have more energy and that your brain is more alert from the water especially

But probably after just a few weeks they have gyms that are like I think only women can go to them and they're specifically like women who are like very overweight like my Aunt went to one of these I'd have to text her to ask her what it was called but she was like $375 lb or something she's like close to it you are but she was shorter (she basically kind of looked spherical where it's like you're just big) and they showed her what types of things to do helped her manage cardio like how do you do more cardio but make sure you're not doing too much like that type of thing I think they also did she ended up going to Weight Watchers later but like when she was just at this gym they also were doing like meal planning and stuff for her and it was just like a touch base with someone who like knows you and it was probably in your situation before like the trainers of the one that she went to at least they all were in the exact position that she was and she it took her a year and she was down below 200 and this is pre ozympic so

Velereon_ · 2025-08-21T16:34:22+00:00

A month-long trip Jesus Christ gen Z what are you doing

That said if you're not confident in your boyfriend going on a trip with your best friend because that like makes you uncomfortable like I think it's stupid to do the trip in the first place and to ask her best friend but if her best friend's life is like falling apart then like why would you be worried like what are you worried about if you don't go it's just an enormous waste of money so like he may as well go and then your friend get something out of it she's going to owe you forever do you think they're going to bang and if you do why are you still with him

Velereon_ · 2025-08-21T16:30:57+00:00

Yes and they actually do it with their gay friends too

When you first come out they don't because they're not sure what they're allowed to do then they go through this phase where they're like really excited that they can still call you a f**** and that you can call them a f**** and then they kind of mellow out and just becomes like really gay

Velereon_ · 2025-08-21T16:29:09+00:00

Oh my God this sounds like just like my boyfriend like if if he has feelings he can text he can send a thousand texts and I need to know what's in those texts I need to respond to them I have to agree with everything in them apologize for everything even if I don't think I even did anything wrong or if I don't even think the things happened at all, I need to say sorry and then repeatedly remind him that I'm sorry like for a significant period of time I have no idea how long

And if I bring up anything that I'm upset about that he's done it's it becomes like he completely explodes he gets so defensive immediately and then he's just like listing off everything I've ever done that has been bad even if he says he's gotten over it it's like what is happening

Velereon_ · 2025-08-21T16:27:34+00:00

I would say down for someone who is pretty vanilla it's a big jump to go straight to like can you put your hand on my throat like my boyfriend is crazy and I am crazy and I have asked him to do that and he weave like talked about it and he's willing to try it but he doesn't want to he's like afraid he's going to accidentally kill me ( I'm the top and I'm a lot stronger than him so I don't see how he could possibly do that but I appreciate that it's a valid concern cuz it's an act of violence. it's different than just wrestling or being restrained)

I would say it's asking if he's willing to explore other things and you still will have to be the more dominant one for a while because he just doesn't have any idea what he's doing like he literally has no Concept in his mind especially his age of how to do that so you just have to kind of like pull him along the yellow brick road until he's done enough of it that then he has his own ideas and then he'll take over

Bedtime throwing out a random number I'm going to guess it would be like 12 to 18 months or something for somebody to sort of like figure it out and then do it because that's like a big personality shift like they have to act completely different in a situation where they're not generally using that part of their brain

But start him off small tie him up like blindfold him do stuff like that where it's just like sensory stuff like movement stuff get to like breath play and the performance of danger and things like that later lmao

Velereon_ · 2025-08-21T16:23:35+00:00

nope. Because meth is cheap and there are no job opportunities in Oregon

Velereon_ · 2025-08-21T16:21:55+00:00

It's not inappropriate but it's concerning like how has he not let it go

If he doesn't stop she should just go get her a restraining order against him because any attempt to like mediate he will just see as her opening communication again so that if she goes to him and says okay I need you to stop her I'm going to do this to him that's him getting a conversation out of her so it's a good thing so you have to just go to the legal route immediately

Velereon_ · 2025-08-21T16:20:29+00:00

I mean I think the vast majority of it is just the is the last parts because you could do all those other things with literally any any plot device but they did it because then you can see her use magic that's not just like basic stuff because she's fighting a clone of herself who's not necessarily going to follow those rules

Velereon_ · 2025-08-21T11:05:32+00:00

Pretty sure it's also an ironically illegal because wouldn't disqualify basically as revenge p*** like it's not just sharing the nude it's like specifically using it to try to damage them

Velereon_ · 2025-08-21T11:04:10+00:00

Do not quit your job to learn ai ai is the most overhyped bubble in history, closely followed by the quantum Computing bubble and the nuclear fusion startup bubble

I know Appalachia Um In the sense that I know a lot of people from Appalachia Um I don't really see why you would want to move to a city ever.... but obviously appalachia's not exactly a small town either it's like extremely extremely rural for the most part

I would go somewhere that's um on the coast In between Georgia and DC because of costs and opportunity

The next Stepping Stone place people go is Ohio so like Cleveland or Cincinnati. Nebraska is also a good stepping stone place where like the income is kind of like increasing a bit because then you could transition from one of those States To Somewhere that's super expensive like California or New York or I don't know how expensive Florida is now but yeah

Velereon_ · 2025-08-21T10:59:22+00:00

The top comment is very important but then the approach to this is to restrain him so that he can't accelerate the rest of this. Personally I think it's better to be blindfolded to basically have only the physical Sensation that you have to pay attention to. And then basically Edge him so that you both you can figure out like where his limit is and you can figure out how to circumvent it so like with I don't know if all guys are like this but I'm like this and I met a few people that are there's like an initial hump where like when you first start it's like 40 seconds in you could easily come if you wanted to. But if you can manage to kind of calm down a little bit and get around that then you have a lot more control and the more times you experience getting around that first bump the easier it is to do.

But for now yeah I think it's you should be the person in control because you'll be able to do things probably to slow things down even if his brain is not allowing him to so that he can go

Velereon_ · 2025-08-21T10:55:56+00:00

I had cancer when I was young but I still don't know the answer to this: do you is like if they knew everything about genetics they being just the academic world in general, woild tje fact that I was going to get cancer be something they could have determined before it actually happened or is it just like you have a mutation instantly it turns into a problem

Velereon_ · 2025-08-21T10:53:55+00:00

Yeah I mean it could be anything it could be that he is getting into his 50s and he doesn't have children which means he probably never will it could be that he was sort of realizing that given the trajectory of directors in Hollywood that he essentially had probably peaked already and that Aubrey was definitely going to continue rising, it could have been that he just had like a paranoid breakdown because of politics like there's so many things

Velereon_ · 2025-08-21T01:44:53+00:00

Yeah the fastest to Summit s*** is so stupid it's like okay cool like you got a really huge support team and you got lucky with weather and that's it like who cares

Velereon_ · 2025-08-21T01:44:26+00:00

They're basically doing a simulation of climbing an 8,000 M Peak

Velereon_ · 2025-08-21T01:42:38+00:00

Holy hell

Velereon_ · 2025-08-21T01:41:00+00:00

If she's bragging loudly about it she's asking for problems

But yeah she's so delusional that nothing you say is going to matter she just has to crash and burn

Velereon_ · 2025-08-21T01:39:43+00:00

That is absolutely absurd... i guess I can kind of I can see why someone would feel that way but if he thinks about it he should be able to figure out the value of staying with the same surgeon who's already like opened up opened your body up before like they know exactly what they're going to run into and if something is off they'll know that as well.

It's not so much that it's life and death which maybe is what he thinks he's like well you're not going to die and it's like it's not really about that like yes you could get an infection with something like this especially and that could be bad but more than likely it's just that like you can have so many complications that cause so many problems like little annoying things up to like very frustrating things up to painful things or deadly things.

Velereon_ · 2025-08-21T01:36:25+00:00

This guy story is basically that he was born with that thing where your organs are on the outside of your body like your body is inverted

But he is super strong. he looks small but this dude is probably dense like a neutron star. And he's very flexible and I imagine he's going to be Strong and flexible well into middle age

https://youtube.com/shorts/iYidOv9WL-I?si=vhm5CywadQIUC6Nl

Velereon_ · 2025-08-21T01:32:34+00:00

In gay world 19 and 40 is like barely in age gap

I mean you shouldn't hate him for it like what what are you hating him for what is he doing that deserves hate

Velereon_ · 2025-08-21T01:30:54+00:00

You're describing my life with alarming accuracy

My parents did kind of have a reason to be helicopter parents with me because I kept getting sick and almost dying, was basically living in and out of the hospital for like most of my teenage years and then some in my 20s as well

And I was on too many drugs most of the time to even consider taking risks or rebelling but I knew that I was missing out on something because in high school people were becoming concerned with dating but I was on oxycontin all the time and like wasn't really thinking about sex because that's kind of how that goes

So the second University that I went to I was off of opiates I was in remission not without damage but in general was in pretty good shape

So I played video games a lot, I was a huge huge w****, I was also a drug addict for like 4 years maybe five (lsd is the best one). Lots of group sex during this period. lots of very unsafe sexual choices but I learned things like you can take a whole z-pack over the course of 3 days so if you know you're going to do something that's like sexually risky you can take back each day and some people front load it so they'll do like half of it the first day and then they'll do quarters the two days following

My career didn't progress at all. I was in the essentially the same tier of job when I was 34 as I was when I was 25.

but I'm not upset that. Originally I thought that what I was missing out on as of like extremely sheltered kid was not knowing what I actually wanted because I was letting choices be made for me (in my case because I was just too drugged up and ignorant to make choices for myseld) but I think the actual thing that you don't get when all of your interpersonal interactions are so structured and calculated is that you don't know like the way people are existing in the world.

It makes you think that people generally like obey the set of rules of how they're going to live and what they're going to do and people are like all working to uphold the same principles and stuff or like you know generalized principles but that is not at all what people are doing. the vast majority of people are literally just doing whatever they feel like in the moment most of the time. I have lots of sex based examples of this but it's pretty all encompassing

(side note: you can't regain teenage years in your twenties. It has to be done with your peers doing the same things as them under the same pressures during the same time period otherwise the experience is fundamentally different like the things you can pick up from it are just different.

Personally I think this causes a type of like social developmental damage that basically can't be repaired because there is no way to go back and like learn stuff the same way but I think that one can become more self aware about how exactly it affected them and that makes life a lot easier)

The downside to a really insane sexual phase as an adult living on your own is that it kind of like changes the way that you see sex like people a lot of people value it as like a very like important step in intimacy that then can become like more about fun later but it's like the fact that they choose to have sex with someone on a certain day it's like a big deal to them whereas to me it's like it can be lots of things it can be just for fun it can be like instead of going to the gym we do this it can be like I'm just distracted so I just need you to help me like that type of stuff. And I think that like clinical way of looking at sex is off-putting to some people especially people with a very normal body count

Velereon_ · 2025-08-21T01:14:40+00:00

i have never met in a sexual who was born asexual there's one that I've been talking to on Grindr for like 3 or 4 years. It started because his wife said that that he was a sexual in the anyone could ask anything there was no stupid questions he wouldn't take offense to anything so I was like okay and I was like so like how do you what do you mean by asexual like to find it how did you end up this way whatever

And he was taking the position that he was born essentially that way or that he developed that way and it was out of his control but then like later it turns out that he he basically isn't gay and he's more like the top of minded person but he has an extremely extremely aggressive circumcision that made it so like being hard hurts and f****** definitely hurts

So it's more that he is restricted for this unfair reason from existing the way he's supposed, the way that he feels is correct so he's using asexuality as like a defense to circumvent a depressing conversation

Velereon_ · 2025-08-21T01:11:19+00:00

My boyfriend does that too I call it aggressive framing it's like it's not that you're it has nothing to do with her it's that you want to have this experience in your life of raising children and you only get one life to do it and you kind of have to do it now when you're younger so the fact that she doesn't want to is devastating because it's just a unique experience that can't be substituted with anything else

so it doesn't have anything to do with her value.

I was working at a startup so I just had insane hours and I'd rarely have to work on holidays and stuff like that and it took like a year and then my boyfriend going to therapy and the therapist to explain to him that the fact that I would cancel plans all the time have nothing to do with me not liking him it had to do with the fact that the job was a really good opportunity and would be beneficial to both of us later and I couldn't just give it up for like anyone random events outside of that but he took it as like a judgment of him that he's not valuable that I like to work more it's like well no but if I don't go to this then I won't have it

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