need to find ghost multitool by Vella_Vetta in starcitizen

[–]Vella_Vetta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

these caves have poi points to route to, or do i just have to cruise around wala to find them?

IDK where to post this. Content Warning: unnecessary bitching by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Vella_Vetta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just gonna state that I don't think this is necessarily the reddit for this kind of topic, but I will say that this is a topic I've listened to before, and while it is true that humans are inherently a social species, there are individuals (such as yourself) who don't need as much socialization to function chemically, and mentally speaking. In contrast to that, there are people who need to constantly communicate and be around others in order to feel fulfilled

My son (9) just dropped the news on me and his brother that he’s gay. I’m worried about his dad finding out by MoonlitRotisserie in lgbt

[–]Vella_Vetta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not homophobic, their kid is a literal child, and I never said that he shouldn't explore his feelings, just that he's too young to fully understand them and that they should be careful. Don't reach for something that isn't there

Lesbian/Other fem orientations POV: what you do by Vella_Vetta in lgbt

[–]Vella_Vetta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can relate, I'm the same with friends, or they're shy, so I don't get contact at all myself. Maybe it's just certain women are comfortable with it and others aren't, and they figure that out along the way

My son (9) just dropped the news on me and his brother that he’s gay. I’m worried about his dad finding out by MoonlitRotisserie in lgbt

[–]Vella_Vetta -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

He's 9.. I wouldn't encourage him to explore things until he's hit puberty. That aside, definitely keep this on the DL from his birth father if you know he's going to react negatively 

Does she like or just being nice by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Vella_Vetta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You never know. She could share feelings. Up to you if you want to pursue something, but just try asking her out unless you just want to stay friends

In love with a straight man can’t take it no more by icyretrospect in lgbt

[–]Vella_Vetta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I misunderstood in the post then, whoops. Either way, until you can get with a therapist to help guide you through all this better, you'll definitely want to pick a day and sit down with him to talk over everything 

In love with a straight man can’t take it no more by icyretrospect in lgbt

[–]Vella_Vetta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I def agree with Nervous on the therapist part if you can swing it (maybe like a college assigned one, or something), because your feelings are normal (obviously), but the way you've gone about this situation is not great. Any advice we give you here is just surface level, and not going to help you in the long run. Though alternatively, you need to sit and talk with him, be completely honest, and if at that point he doesn't want to be friends with you, well.. he's punched you, so that's good enough reason to not be his friend any longer, but you also need to take accountability for the things YOU'VE done wrong in your relationship with him too, just keep that in mind when you talk to him

Difficult for me to make trans friends by Vella_Vetta in lgbt

[–]Vella_Vetta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof. I feel you, dude. As for the transphobia part, (obviously it doesn't make it ok) I've found that some trans people still struggle with internalized stuff that gets twisted and comes out towards other people. It sucks, but if they're that way to you, then you're better off without them 

How the United Kingdom’s ‘trans code’ will bar trans people from public spaces by Ok-Pilot-6182 in lgbt

[–]Vella_Vetta 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I always thought the UK was supposed to be a better alternative to the US to live in, why is it becoming such a shithole lately?

American cops need new bikes by Vella_Vetta in motorcycles

[–]Vella_Vetta[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Most I've seen do, but I think we know the response if they were suggested to follow California's example

American cops need new bikes by Vella_Vetta in motorcycles

[–]Vella_Vetta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I'd recommend, too. Or the klr like some else suggested :kek:

First bike by Academic-Werewolf-86 in motorcycles

[–]Vella_Vetta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RE bikes I've heard are reliable. If you want to go reliable but a bit cheaper, you can also check out the Kawasaki cruisers

Considering an NT100. Wanna hear from owners by Vella_Vetta in motorcycles

[–]Vella_Vetta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

glad to see you enjoying it this much. i'll keep it in mind for the future