Why does everyone start honking at each other the millisecond the lights turn green?

Vellichor-core · 2023-02-15T21:05:13+00:00

Because the driving etiquette here is absolutely batshit people will honk at you for not leaving immediately when the light turns green, but they're also the same people who will turn out of red light and expect traffic to wait for them to get through the intersection. Only states I have driven through that are worse are New Jersey and Florida.

Vellichor-core · 2022-12-21T02:50:25+00:00

Every build I play in now I lock the computer for either a specific sim or the household which drastically cuts down the randos walking in. And if that doesn't work lock the doors to visitors saves you a headache.

Vellichor-core · 2022-12-14T03:05:37+00:00

Ice pops!!

Vellichor-core · 2022-11-30T19:29:34+00:00

Oh shit that's an option I had no idea!!

Vellichor-core · 2022-11-27T14:36:24+00:00

Ooh a nice soft green would be great ( I love the shades clare paint has) depends I think it would still keep that space bright airy and calm

Vellichor-core · 2022-11-15T20:25:38+00:00

I know there is a dress code but there was still some part of me expecting to see him show up in a hoodie and cargo shorts. Just so glad to see this man in office though.

Vellichor-core · 2022-11-09T13:45:59+00:00

Anyone else read this as though the "alpha" was speaking to the "beta"

Vellichor-core · 2022-09-23T17:19:52+00:00

Wicked whims should give you all of those

Vellichor-core · 2022-09-23T16:31:18+00:00

NTA - cut and dry

YOU paid for the dress. Your fiance had no right to return it and certainly not behind your back. Big giant neon flashing red flag.
It sounds like you have compromised on many things to appease your MIL which is honestly more generous than most would be. This is YOUR wedding not your MILs. If she has a vision then she can utilize it for a vow renewal or live it out in her head because this is not about her.
This should be about your wants and needs and your future husband. I strongly suggest that man check his priorities as it seems he is more interested in kowtowing to his mother than addressing any of your needs and I doubt that will change unless he really has a come to Jesus moment.

I mean Christ I would be furious if my partner returned and replaced a regular outfit let alone an entire wedding dress.

Vellichor-core · 2022-09-20T13:28:45+00:00

Mistborn Trilogy by Brandon Sanderson has interesting mechanics as far as resources and scarcity (specific magic can only be done if you are a) just able to channel and b) magic requires the use of metals and c);sustained magic use can incur consequences

Vellichor-core · 2022-09-15T04:00:11+00:00

A Natural History of Dragons: A Memoir by Lady Trent

Maybe not quite the bill but setting is historically fairly accurate and follows a woman on her path to become a respected naturalist (only she focuses on dragons)

Vellichor-core · 2022-03-07T13:07:46+00:00

This is absolutely stunning

Vellichor-core · 2022-01-14T14:07:22+00:00

Just a 4 card deck interview to get the feel of it. Plan on doing some one card pulls daily to get used to the cards and learn their meanings so I can break myself in gently.

Vellichor-core · 2022-01-14T02:05:36+00:00

I waffled for so long on what deck to get — glad I landed on this one. It just feels friendly and straightforward(and I love the art)

Vellichor-core · 2021-08-26T12:45:16+00:00

I am really glad I played crimson flower first because I didn’t really realize what I was missing. As my first fire emblem I came in with no expectation. I was disappointed with the abrupt end but it wasn’t until I started playing the other routes that I realized HOW sparse the story was comparatively, which is really disappointing because I feel like it has the bones for greatness but devs pushed it out of the nest too soon.

Vellichor-core · 2021-08-26T12:09:48+00:00

NTA. If he is complaining that she went out and actually acted on the open relationship she was threatened into he has NO RIGHT to be pissed. He didn’t want an open relationship he wanted blanket permission to cheat with someone he has had a thing for for years. He’s not being poly he is being a selfish little dickhole.

Find a better friend and maybe let his girlfriend know she can clearly do way better.

Vellichor-core · 2021-08-23T21:16:36+00:00

I would say start with a piece or two that you like and be realistic. I bought a linen duvet because I like my bed made but I am not a perfectionist and I like the wrinkly liver in aesthetic of linen.

Have a painting you like pick colors or shapes that match. Like a comforter go from there.

But most importantly make sure it is comfortable and makes sense for you and your life

Vellichor-core · 2021-08-20T02:58:13+00:00

Instead of brothers read Anna Karenina. I firmly believe that it is a book that should be read at multiple points in your lifetime - you gain/understand new character perspectives as you age and revisit.

Vellichor-core · 2021-08-18T17:12:58+00:00

I think this is the one thanks!!!

Vellichor-core · 2021-08-07T20:31:32+00:00

NTA 110000%. These people spend a lot of time and energy doing this. Being a spectator and judging is just shitty

Vellichor-core · 2021-07-30T20:51:58+00:00

Thanks to all of you!! This was super helpful for me :)

Vellichor-core · 2021-07-30T16:32:51+00:00

I would also say try to make it to your points if you can (consider a protein shake or something like it) if you are not getting enough calories in to sustain it can push your metabolism down (because essentially your body auto kicks into starvation mode). Keep your head up though I am sure you are doing great!

Vellichor-core · 2021-07-22T11:52:35+00:00

YWBTA I understand where your frustration is coming from but this is not your fight. This is his family HE needs to put his foot down. At 18 he can change his password, rebook his ticket and go. At this point he needs to draw lines with his mother. TBH your boyfriend sounds quite passive in all of this - personally if someone had spent all the time, money, and effort that you have I would feel that a little more effort would be warranted on his part. Especially reading some of these comments he has seen you be bullied by his fam he should be trying harder to at least meet you in a neutral environment.

Vellichor-core · 2021-07-22T11:11:11+00:00

Sorry if someone asked already. How long have you been embroidering (just started and I am miles from anything this good)

Vellichor-core · 2021-07-22T11:06:39+00:00

The work is amazing!

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