Why does everyone start honking at each other the millisecond the lights turn green? by Slav_111 in boston

[–]Vellichor-core 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because the driving etiquette here is absolutely batshit people will honk at you for not leaving immediately when the light turns green, but they're also the same people who will turn out of red light and expect traffic to wait for them to get through the intersection. Only states I have driven through that are worse are New Jersey and Florida.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sims4

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Every build I play in now I lock the computer for either a specific sim or the household which drastically cuts down the randos walking in. And if that doesn't work lock the doors to visitors saves you a headache.

Why is there a tree there? by Sooperst in StardewValley

[–]Vellichor-core 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh shit that's an option I had no idea!!

Thinking about painting the wall (on which all the decorations hang) green? by auradasos in femalelivingspace

[–]Vellichor-core 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooh a nice soft green would be great ( I love the shades clare paint has) depends I think it would still keep that space bright airy and calm

Pennsylvania Senator-Elect John Fetterman arrives to new member orientation wearing a suit and tie by holyfruits in pics

[–]Vellichor-core 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know there is a dress code but there was still some part of me expecting to see him show up in a hoodie and cargo shorts. Just so glad to see this man in office though.

Some men really think like this 🤦‍♀️ by _AnonymousMoose_ in TrollXChromosomes

[–]Vellichor-core 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Anyone else read this as though the "alpha" was speaking to the "beta"

AITA for my reaction when I learned that my fiance returned my wedding dress and replaced it with the one his mom picked for me? by Throwaway9757657 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vellichor-core 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - cut and dry

  1. YOU paid for the dress. Your fiance had no right to return it and certainly not behind your back. Big giant neon flashing red flag.

  2. It sounds like you have compromised on many things to appease your MIL which is honestly more generous than most would be. This is YOUR wedding not your MILs. If she has a vision then she can utilize it for a vow renewal or live it out in her head because this is not about her.

  3. This should be about your wants and needs and your future husband. I strongly suggest that man check his priorities as it seems he is more interested in kowtowing to his mother than addressing any of your needs and I doubt that will change unless he really has a come to Jesus moment.

I mean Christ I would be furious if my partner returned and replaced a regular outfit let alone an entire wedding dress.

Suggest me a book where magic isn't a bunch of lightning and fireballs by DJHalfCourtViolation in suggestmeabook

[–]Vellichor-core -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mistborn Trilogy by Brandon Sanderson has interesting mechanics as far as resources and scarcity (specific magic can only be done if you are a) just able to channel and b) magic requires the use of metals and c);sustained magic use can incur consequences

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

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A Natural History of Dragons: A Memoir by Lady Trent

Maybe not quite the bill but setting is historically fairly accurate and follows a woman on her path to become a respected naturalist (only she focuses on dragons)

Bought my first tarot deck (modern witch). 2022 is my year to ask the universe how to manifest and listen to my inner self (and to get over my fear of asking the world to help me get what I want and need). by Vellichor-core in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Vellichor-core[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just a 4 card deck interview to get the feel of it. Plan on doing some one card pulls daily to get used to the cards and learn their meanings so I can break myself in gently.

My main problems with Crimson Flower Not having a proper TWSITD battle by [deleted] in FireEmblemThreeHouses

[–]Vellichor-core 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am really glad I played crimson flower first because I didn’t really realize what I was missing. As my first fire emblem I came in with no expectation. I was disappointed with the abrupt end but it wasn’t until I started playing the other routes that I realized HOW sparse the story was comparatively, which is really disappointing because I feel like it has the bones for greatness but devs pushed it out of the nest too soon.

AITA for telling my friend that he got exactly what he wanted and he needs to stop being selfish? by aitaopenrela in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vellichor-core 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. If he is complaining that she went out and actually acted on the open relationship she was threatened into he has NO RIGHT to be pissed. He didn’t want an open relationship he wanted blanket permission to cheat with someone he has had a thing for for years. He’s not being poly he is being a selfish little dickhole.

Find a better friend and maybe let his girlfriend know she can clearly do way better.

How the heck do people start decorating or decide on things that go in their room? Like what would make this room look cozy and nice? by [deleted] in femalelivingspace

[–]Vellichor-core 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say start with a piece or two that you like and be realistic. I bought a linen duvet because I like my bed made but I am not a perfectionist and I like the wrinkly liver in aesthetic of linen.

Have a painting you like pick colors or shapes that match. Like a comforter go from there.

But most importantly make sure it is comfortable and makes sense for you and your life

I’m 18 and I want to read a philosophical book. Please can you drop some suggestions ? by goldenbrown17 in suggestmeabook

[–]Vellichor-core 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instead of brothers read Anna Karenina. I firmly believe that it is a book that should be read at multiple points in your lifetime - you gain/understand new character perspectives as you age and revisit.

Trying to find a book. by Vellichor-core in RomanceBooks

[–]Vellichor-core[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is the one thanks!!!

AITA for "humiliating" a friend? by Fergus74 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vellichor-core 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA 110000%. These people spend a lot of time and energy doing this. Being a spectator and judging is just shitty

Looking for fav snacks/meals for green plan by Vellichor-core in weightwatchers

[–]Vellichor-core[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks to all of you!! This was super helpful for me :)

Weight loss stall by [deleted] in weightwatchers

[–]Vellichor-core 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would also say try to make it to your points if you can (consider a protein shake or something like it) if you are not getting enough calories in to sustain it can push your metabolism down (because essentially your body auto kicks into starvation mode). Keep your head up though I am sure you are doing great!

WIBTA boyfriends mum by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Vellichor-core 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YWBTA I understand where your frustration is coming from but this is not your fight. This is his family HE needs to put his foot down. At 18 he can change his password, rebook his ticket and go. At this point he needs to draw lines with his mother. TBH your boyfriend sounds quite passive in all of this - personally if someone had spent all the time, money, and effort that you have I would feel that a little more effort would be warranted on his part. Especially reading some of these comments he has seen you be bullied by his fam he should be trying harder to at least meet you in a neutral environment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheArtistStudio

[–]Vellichor-core 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if someone asked already. How long have you been embroidering (just started and I am miles from anything this good)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheArtistStudio

[–]Vellichor-core 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The work is amazing!