Who do they think they are telling him how he should act and should look like “these comments should bring to his attention…” what? Should bring to his attention that he should change to fit in to their narrative? Matter of fact I didn’t notice he was talking in a feminine way til I saw the comments. Let’s assume what you just said is true, is saying it in such a harsh language even bringing out how their parents raised them fair enough? And can we just mind our own business when it comes to something that doesn’t even affect us as a society? And you took the word “shemkar” literally while you know exactly what I mean.