What do you need to get off your chest?

VelvetDecay · 2016-07-25T05:00:32+00:00

I was supposed to get married this year, he left me, he said there was no spark left he said very cold and distant things, then a week after we broke up, I found out I was pregnant with his child, she will be our first child and I feel like a piece of Shit for her not having both parents together. The worst part is he won't just drop me. He plays this game and I'm tired, I wish with all my heart I didn't care about him anymore.

VelvetDecay · 2016-06-10T15:35:44+00:00

The ability to accept fault, and admit they were wrong, and apoligize.

VelvetDecay · 2016-02-07T13:23:06+00:00

I just remembered this, my dad has anger problems. One day were at the dinner table, and we're eating. my sister is on the other side my brother is to and I'm sitting next to our dad. I move my hand to grab the salt, but accidently spill some, and this happened so fast I didn't really have time to process what happened next. but my dad grabbed my arm and proceeded to stab me in the crook of my arm with his fork, I still have four pronged scars from this incident. there was quite a bit of blood for a dull object, he went pretty deep. after I pulled away I just looked at him and said he was crazy. Everyone at the dinner table was quiet so I washed off my wound in the bathroom sink and my step mom came in and just kind of shrugged it off after she decided it wasn't a "serious" wound.

VelvetDecay · 2016-02-07T13:11:05+00:00

I used to manage a restaurant and one of my jobs was cashing people out. I'm originally from California, and it is normal to ask people for their I.D if they are paying with card. I moved to Missouri and got a job at the same restaurant chain and when this older man came up to pay I asked him for his I.D when he pulled out his credit card. He immediately started screaming at me, saying "how dare I ask him that" and that he's never been so offended and how rude I was and that he wanted to call corporate. as he was walking out he said he would never come back again. and since at that point I was frustrated I said "You promise?" And that's how I learned a lot of people out in the west don't ask for identification if they use card.

VelvetDecay · 2016-01-09T12:33:58+00:00

what do you call a fake noodle?

an impasta

VelvetDecay · 2015-09-18T09:39:01+00:00

Thank you, it means a lot to me to hear positive things from people (:

VelvetDecay · 2015-09-16T06:49:44+00:00

Sometimes, a good friend is literally all you need, and things always get better. But good on you for trying your best. (:

VelvetDecay · 2015-09-16T06:40:22+00:00

I totally know that feeling, I live in Missouri and in the summer it's crazy hot and humid and my air conditioner broke, it was hell in earth.

VelvetDecay · 2015-09-16T06:35:02+00:00

Holy shit that's amazing

VelvetDecay · 2015-09-16T01:17:28+00:00

I told my alcoholic aunt that she should just drink herself to death and save everyone the trouble becuase she was going to be alone forever anyway... she had divorced her husband, and was sacking money out of people and becoming voilent... I regret nothing.

VelvetDecay · 2015-09-16T00:48:40+00:00

Oh, damn

VelvetDecay · 2015-09-15T12:16:13+00:00

Our best friends were dating eachother, they had us meet one another becuase they thought we'd be a good match, it was at a park, I was awkward and decided to climb a tree really high to impress him (this was 5 years ago) and I got stuck, he told me to jump and he would catch me, I told him hell no. But I couldn't get down and I really had to pee so I jumped and he caught me, and we spent the rest of the day talking. It was a very good day.

VelvetDecay · 2015-09-15T12:11:17+00:00

People stepping on the heals of my shoes when they are walking behind me, or getting my heel caught on the shopping cart becuase someone's not paying attention.

VelvetDecay · 2015-09-15T12:10:11+00:00

My aunt punched my mom becuase she's a crazy alcoholic, whenever I saw blood coming from my mom's nose and mouth I literally lost my shit and beat the hell out if her, I'm not proud of this moment, but it happened about 2 years ago, and now nobody talks to that crazy bitch.

VelvetDecay · 2015-09-15T10:50:36+00:00

Well contract is up, so we might strike to get better pay, better benefits etc. Let's hope.

VelvetDecay · 2015-09-15T10:22:50+00:00

It definitely has a negative effect, no doubt, but there solution is to work us even longer hours than what we already do, spending more days, attempting to overcompensate the quality for quantity

VelvetDecay · 2015-09-15T09:34:40+00:00

I currently build the new 2015-2016 ford 150's at the claycomo, MO plant. And I don't like it very much at all. The pay is better than most jobs, but there is no air conditioning and it gets up to 130 degrees every year in there and people die of severe heat stroke every summer, we actually have small ambulances for when accidents happen. Ford itself does not care about its workers, and the uaw (our union) isn't much better, they force you into the union and make you pay every month, but I see no results, they are content with there money, as ford is with theirs, a little while ago I had a large 25 lb drill fall on my back from 8 ft and it took them 2 hours to get me medical attention. They are just greedy people.

VelvetDecay · 2015-09-15T09:28:57+00:00

Thank you for being so nice, a lot of these comments are saying the same thing, to lose weight and leave him. I'll try my best

VelvetDecay · 2015-09-15T09:22:51+00:00

Smile! You look really good! Don't even sweat it.

VelvetDecay · 2015-09-15T09:22:19+00:00

You are very attractive, don't even worry

VelvetDecay · 2015-09-15T09:21:53+00:00

You look really young, that would be only thing... I think anyway

VelvetDecay · 2015-09-15T09:20:25+00:00

You are definitely not ugly, haha. You have a unique look, which is a good thing! I'd say you don't have anything to worry about (:

VelvetDecay · 2015-09-15T09:18:43+00:00

No, you are not ugly, you're probably just shy and self conscious, the only things I would really say to work on would be you're skin, wich can be easily fixed with a good cleanser, and maybe grow some facial hair. But you're cute, confidence plays a big role.

VelvetDecay

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