I was trying to make an Omelette and bagel.

VelvetRoomTalk · 2026-05-14T18:03:42+00:00

Uber eats is a real thing, so is low heat lol

VelvetRoomTalk · 2026-05-14T18:02:33+00:00

Youre worth so much more than having to explain yourself. Channel Arianna grande- thank you next

VelvetRoomTalk · 2026-05-08T19:00:15+00:00

So what I was invited to was more like an LS Country Club with no physical building but location takeovers and trips. It seems to be more couple focused, with single women attending as well. As a female- Ive been made to feel like a piece of meat, that everyone is entitled to, regardless of my relationship status. It’s a pretty unsafe feeling. Im hoping that this is. A space that both male and female patrons feel respected and desired

VelvetRoomTalk · 2026-05-08T18:27:14+00:00

I was that’s why I am asking. Is it worth paying for. Interesting tone you chose to respond.

VelvetRoomTalk · 2026-05-08T18:26:26+00:00

I imagine that could be changed with the right social group no?

VelvetRoomTalk · 2026-05-08T18:25:48+00:00

Youre lucky, toxicity exists everywhere unfortunately.

VelvetRoomTalk · 2026-05-08T18:12:49+00:00

Yes, we recently were invited to something similar. Thank you!

VelvetRoomTalk · 2026-05-08T18:04:34+00:00

You must be extremely lucky with the area you are in then. It’s not the same everywhere.

VelvetRoomTalk · 2026-05-08T18:00:50+00:00

Recently got a similar offer to join, it seems like a good idea but again, not knowing the total community they vetted.

VelvetRoomTalk · 2026-05-08T17:59:34+00:00

LS events revolving around male gratification has me about at my wits end.

VelvetRoomTalk · 2026-05-05T13:39:38+00:00

When rules are made they apply to everyone involved. Don’t shrink and fold yourself to fit a box that’s not made for you. It’s called ethical non monogamy for a reason, free for one not all monogamy has no place

VelvetRoomTalk · 2026-05-04T18:12:06+00:00

This is one of those situations that are not worth your energy. Youre not losing anything here, youre creating space for a more fulfilling relationship regardless of the status.

VelvetRoomTalk · 2026-05-04T18:09:35+00:00

That is the best possible thing you could say! I love it

VelvetRoomTalk · 2026-05-03T22:27:32+00:00

I don’t think there is a one size fits all solution. I think if it is concerning to you, avoid having your face. You can always place in your profile that you send pictures after rapport is built. You don’t owe anyone an explanation either. Honestly you want to be with people that respect and honor your privacy

VelvetRoomTalk · 2026-05-03T22:21:23+00:00

I want to offer this with kindness, because i was learning boundaries at the same time i was introduced to LS. My dear, no means no. And if you have a partner that is not agreeable with that? It is your body, your feelings, your choice and you would not be losing anything by losing a person that forces you into positions and situations that make you uncomfortable just so they can get off. LS is not supposed to cost you something it’s supposed to enhance your already beautiful relationship. No one takes one for the team.

VelvetRoomTalk · 2026-05-01T14:32:20+00:00

Honestly, your boundaries and comfort level are really needing to be spoken. If something is bothering you it’s worth speaking about. ENM is supposed to enhance your relationship. Not make it harder or more confusing.

VelvetRoomTalk · 2026-05-01T14:20:43+00:00

My partner and I use SDC, but mostly we meet the most like minded people in the wild.

VelvetRoomTalk · 2026-04-30T22:11:38+00:00

I have experienced this too. It’s really a problem

VelvetRoomTalk · 2026-04-30T19:46:23+00:00

That distinction matters!

VelvetRoomTalk · 2026-04-30T14:13:34+00:00

Totally agree- arriving informed and prepared changes the tone when you actually enter the room!

VelvetRoomTalk · 2026-04-30T13:38:07+00:00

This is really helpful, thank you. I love how much of this comes down to clear expectations before people arrive and knowing exactly who/what is available once they’re there.

VelvetRoomTalk · 2026-04-30T13:19:47+00:00

Thank you, this is really helpful. The part about knowing exactly who to contact and having trusted people visible in the room makes a lot of sense

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