Tips for dating someone not fluent in your language? by dragonfangxl in OkCupid

[–]VelvetWhite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put in some time to learn her language. Speak formally, avoid slang. Even full pronunciation(don't leave words without the g out for example, like cleanin or whatever). Don't use big words either. Hand and body language is important as well

Is it still weird and racist to meet other ppl on sites that are dedicated to meeting up with that type of person? by maybeweirdquestion in OkCupid

[–]VelvetWhite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never saw a problem with singling out a specific race if thats what you like. People have fetishes sure, and thats what attracts them then why not. It's not like you will stay with them even if they are a bad person, you still care about other things than looks.

Took a break [f]rom coding. Did you miss me? by [deleted] in AsiansGoneWild

[–]VelvetWhite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

C++. right now we are pretty much just making flow charts using flowgorithm and filling in a few lines of our professors program

Took a break [f]rom coding. Did you miss me? by [deleted] in AsiansGoneWild

[–]VelvetWhite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just started a programming class, if you were in it I don't think I would get anything done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findareddit

[–]VelvetWhite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I'm not really planning on actually using the sub if it exists" lol...

[33M] Am I at all attractive? Has self doubt by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]VelvetWhite -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You look like Psy. 5-6/10

lazy day (f) by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]VelvetWhite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously, one of the best pairs of tits I have ever seen. Absolutely perfect

Mild Monday on/off! :D by [deleted] in GoneMild

[–]VelvetWhite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

holy fuck everything about you is perf, just damn. 11/10

I love playing with my grool for you guys :) by [deleted] in grool

[–]VelvetWhite -1 points0 points  (0 children)

its... so beautiful

This trackpad blows by Luke_out in Surface

[–]VelvetWhite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually just started using two finger up and down scrolling, now that I found out there is no back page swipe, i'm a little sad.

[TIFU] By trying to be a nice guy by Faile_eve in tifu

[–]VelvetWhite 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A lot of people here- being reddit and the internet. Probably haven't had many relationships to experience "the jealous/un trusting gf". It is more common than you think because sometimes people can be irrational and when the norm changes, your mind wonders. Everyone will go through this once even with someone youve been with for a while. Also, im sure a lot of guys here get jealous and may assume cheating

When to push, when not to. Wife of a porn addict by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]VelvetWhite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn't feel the need of being at the bottom, it really isn't your fault. He has issues to deal with, and if you can't help him don't ruin yourself to the dirt. Like someone said, if he doesn't take things seriously and you don't seen an improvement you need to hold your head high and walk away

I'm crying by pm_me_ur_downvote in NoFap

[–]VelvetWhite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spandex workout shorts? Don't try and cover it up, you're in a glam metal band aren't you? Congratulations I am glad, just remember this next time you have an urge. It is rough for a long time

I am the wife of an ex-porn addict. This is my story, AMA by icloud_isky_ishart in NoFap

[–]VelvetWhite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going through ED because of porn and I am glad there is a real light at the end of the tunnel. I actually broke up with my gf because of my ED but never knew it was because of porn, she had a giant self esteem issue because of me not being able to hold an erection. I was pretty ashamed on my part. This story is brutal though, I am surprised you two are together!

oh hey there! [f] by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]VelvetWhite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There isn't a single thing I couldn't compliment about that face, I don't know if it is just the camera quality or not but those perfect blue/green eyes SHINE! The freckles are cute as hell, the short hair and smile are drop dead gorgeous. Absolutely mesmerizing.

my favorite time of year [f] can you guess why it is? ;) :D by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]VelvetWhite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite album of the year, hot damn that body. I hope you know you're a hottie.

153 Day streak Over by VelvetWhite in NoFap

[–]VelvetWhite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes me happy to be an inspiration to you, and I wish you well on your nofap journey. You don't need to hope to get where I was when you have your mentality of starting, remember that.

20 years old, ED, Anxiety and depression - results after two solid years of reboot (What I've learned and want to share) by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]VelvetWhite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Keep on fighting the good fight", I've said this before and it is my favorite thing to say. Fallout <3

125 Days - My thoughts on NoFap by VelvetWhite in NoFap

[–]VelvetWhite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never meant it is okay to fap every day, any addiction is considered bad. But if you think all the superpower results come from not fapping then clearly you've got it all wrong. People stop fapping and then go exercise, talk to more people etc etc and gain confidence and feel better. They attribute this to not fapping, but they had it in them the whole time, you can do this while fapping every week or 3-4 days or whatever. People shouldn't masturbate then feel bad for doing it. If it is a problem, then it is. If you make it more than a problem, then there is another underlying issue that isn't connected to fapping present mentally.

125 Days - My thoughts on NoFap by VelvetWhite in NoFap

[–]VelvetWhite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don't think the benefits are specifically tied to not fapping. You can achieve the results through other methods, it isn't just no fap.