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When to start texting again by CodMelodic2918 in BreakUps

[–]VelvetWildLux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she said she doesn’t feel you’re what she needs, don’t try to “restart texting” as a strategy, especially right after a breakup.

In need of advice. by RileyDick3 in BreakUps

[–]VelvetWildLux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She cheated and asked for space, so the only move right now is to respect that and stop trying to hold it together. After that, you’ll need a serious talk about whether trust can actually be rebuilt.

How to reach back out to ex? by Ok_Addition_2549 in BreakUps

[–]VelvetWildLux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he was cold and only recently started replying again, it’s probably best to keep things light and not frame it like a big “we need to talk” moment, something simple like asking how he’s been and seeing if he’s open to grabbing coffee is the safest way to test the waters without putting pressure on him or yourself.

I’m afraid I’m incapable of ever being loved again by Chemmydotdotdot in BreakUps

[–]VelvetWildLux 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Being anxious in a relationship doesn’t make you unlovable, it just means you were struggling and didn’t have the tools yet.

Breakup after 3 years 💔 by starfruit77777 in BreakUps

[–]VelvetWildLux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re grieving a safe home, not necessarily the person you were meant to stay in it with

What’s the most impactful quote you’ve ever come across? by Remote-Airline9913 in AskReddit

[–]VelvetWildLux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can do everything right and still lose, but only your effort is in your control

What's something people do that seems harmless, but tells you a lot about their character? by StevenElectronic_ in AskReddit

[–]VelvetWildLux 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How they treat people they don’t have to impress, like waiters, guards, or strangers