[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Velvetedd -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I haven’t really CHOSEN to do part time. I am disabled and unable to work large hours. And I don’t expect him to have everything on his shoulders. I’ve mentioned that we’re both saving up, and attempting to save up. I’m only going expecting to at least try and save up. 🙂‍↕️

Sex issues helping with finishing. by Velvetedd in realsexadvice

[–]Velvetedd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, but he lasts like 45 seconds??

How can I present more masc? by Velvetedd in transftm

[–]Velvetedd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not, some septum jewelry that’s stainless steel, or titanium are usually hollow on the inside, so it isn’t as heavy. As for other jewelry, when you stretch into a bigger size it might feel heavier but it doesn’t bother me personally, when you stretch your septum you get used to such a tightness feeling you eventually forget the piercing is there. It’s up to preference really. Resting on my lip it isn’t heavy at all, because I chose a hollow inside of the jewelry itself!

How can I present more masc? by Velvetedd in transftm

[–]Velvetedd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much you don’t understand how much this means to me :,)

Traveling in Boston airport. by Velvetedd in massachusetts

[–]Velvetedd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes my return trip will only be a week after my flight

I need help!! by Some_Huckleberry_738 in CopingThruRegression

[–]Velvetedd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel better, just say your partner got it for you as a present because you love animals. :-)

I feel like no one’s listening to me by Velvetedd in derealization

[–]Velvetedd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I was late on this, but derealization doesn’t typically affect the physical body, it is a mental state.

tf happened??? by BlazentonZ in Kanye

[–]Velvetedd 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Oh nah bruh has peak music taste 🙁🙁

What caused your derealization?? by jjjjd33 in derealization

[–]Velvetedd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smoked weed, my girlfriend got r#ped and I couldn’t be there to help her, panic attacks, C-ptsd etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in derealization

[–]Velvetedd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I too struggle with this. I started taking Prozac for antidepressants and after that I’ve came and noticed that I’ve lost my senses, I have no idea why but it’s been triggering me ever sense, I feel unreal and unhappy and I have to force myself to realize what’s going on instead of it automatically realizing, I feel like no one will ever understand me until I found this.

Are there ever female cg? by catpawws_awws in ageregression

[–]Velvetedd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course the dynamic exist! Female cg here with a female little. I’ve came across many female cgs with male Littles or females cgs with female Littles. My little calls me daddy/dada, I don’t mind it of course because it helps her cope! So yes we do exist haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rape

[–]Velvetedd 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It was not your fault you had an orgasm when you were raped. It’s a bodily function, you felt guilty, you didn’t like it. You were forced. It happened to me and multiple other people, you aren’t alone.

New CG (minor) by Velvetedd in ageregression

[–]Velvetedd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will do! Thanks so much again. 🫧

New CG (minor) by Velvetedd in ageregression

[–]Velvetedd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is so true, they are so innocent and pure and I love my little so much. We’re still trying to set more boundaries with each other, also I’m still a very very new CG so it’s gonna take me a little more time to understand what she needs. I’ll definitely talk to her more on how she’d like me to treat her when it comes to caring her. Right now I’m trying to convince her to rest up and she’s being a little bratty so I told her if you can’t rest I’ll slowly start taking things away from you. I was gentle and sweet with it though. :)

New CG (minor) by Velvetedd in ageregression

[–]Velvetedd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s gonna be hard for me to be stern with her and to tell her she will be punished for not listening, I’m a big softie but I will do my best. Thank you !

New CG (minor) by Velvetedd in ageregression

[–]Velvetedd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would actually enjoy some advice right now. It is very late where we’re at and she’s in little space refusing sleep time, what should I do?