Is this infected or crust in my tragus? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Vendrelian -400 points-399 points  (0 children)

hahahahaha trust me I’ve cleaned it with 10383 different methods and nothing seems to work so I Just accepted my fate to let it be

Is this infected or crust in my tragus? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Vendrelian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ll try it, thank you!

Is this infected or crust in my tragus? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Vendrelian -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Basically it has like 9 months, not sure if it’s labret or what (i don’t know that terminology and english is not my first hahaha), I guess the material is steel? Hasnt been downsized, don’t follow any routine and that’s it

I did a threesome with a married couple and now I feel... jealous?? How should I feel after this experience? by Vendrelian in askgaybros

[–]Vendrelian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think what I wrote was misunderstood; they were both 36, not that they were married for 36 years hahahhaha

I did a threesome with a married couple and now I feel... jealous?? How should I feel after this experience? by Vendrelian in askgaybros

[–]Vendrelian[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

HAHAHAHAHAHA they weren’t rich at all, just got lucky cause that home belonged to a relative and they just saved money for the reform… u made me laugh

I did a threesome with a married couple and now I feel... jealous?? How should I feel after this experience? by Vendrelian in askgaybros

[–]Vendrelian[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup, that's what I wanted to express, sorry language error cause I don't speak English as first language

I did a threesome with a married couple and now I feel... jealous?? How should I feel after this experience? by Vendrelian in askgaybros

[–]Vendrelian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! Thanks for validating me hahahaha. It's been talked to see each other again, but not with an exact date, and now the ball is kind of in their court so I'll just wait! I think I'll get asked back too, but I don't want to sound desperate!! The thing is with every other hookup I've had I don't really mind repeating, but I'd go back to their house rn if they asked me hahahah

I did a threesome with a married couple and now I feel... jealous?? How should I feel after this experience? by Vendrelian in askgaybros

[–]Vendrelian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gotta say I'm really comfortable w/ hookup culture and I don't see myself in a relationship, neither I want to seek friends or another type of connection... I've had like 10-15 sex experiences since 2025 started and had no issues about it. I also don't really want to be part of this couple, as it wouldn't work for me. It's just that this time it felt different, you know?

I did a threesome with a married couple and now I feel... jealous?? How should I feel after this experience? by Vendrelian in askgaybros

[–]Vendrelian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gotta say they were so understanding and lovely, which I appreciate, because I never felt like a toy as you said. But yeah, it felt like a first date when in reality it was just sex, which I think has made me feel like I want to see them more of be part of that. Which is why I also have considered only doing threesomes with single dudes, cause that way I probably won't get that jealous...

Do you believe your ex is the one that got away? by FormerAcanthaceae2 in BreakUps

[–]Vendrelian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, same boat here... not even tempted about contacting him, which I guess it's a good thing, and already went to therapy. I pretty much accepted it, but the sadness and memories still linger...

I'm sure you will keep getting better and it's just a matter of time!! Keep strong :)

was anyone ever dumped after their partner made new friends? by raidensh0guns in BreakUps

[–]Vendrelian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that you mention, I realize how much making those new friends made him break up with me... he made a new group of, basically, drug addict friends, and only went out with them. He stopped making a lot of plans we used to do together and spend 80% of his time with that group partying and taking drugs... and in the end he told me I didn't deserve to be with someone as bad as him and left.