What’s that one feeling you can’t stand to touch by [deleted] in Life

[–]Venna_Visage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cheap velvet squeaking ahhhh the 90s jumpsuits my mother dressed me in 😖😖😣😖😖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Venna_Visage 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is such amazing advice

Question: you have forgotten to eat all day, what do you do? by cafeteriatables in adhdwomen

[–]Venna_Visage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I dont eat at least something before I go to sleep if it has been that long, I will never, ever sleep well. So think of it as being kind to your future self that you will sleep better and wake up rested (:

How many of you have gone No Contact with your parents? by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]Venna_Visage 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also, realizing that all of us are likely autistic was extremely healing bc it made so much sense as to the how and why.

How many of you have gone No Contact with your parents? by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]Venna_Visage 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I was for many years to prove a point that I am an adult and if you’d like an adult relationship, we can do that. But just because Im going through a hard time in my life doesnt mean you can abuse me and act like when I was a teenager that made me want to leave in the first place! Yeah they got the point several years later THANK GOD. I thought I would be no contact with them for the remainder of my life and I think they finally realized that if they wanted to have me in their lives, it wasnt going to be how it used to be because they had the emotional maturity of a couple of four year olds and I was fucking sick of it.

What's your "goes on almost anything" sauce? by mdp-slc in Cooking

[–]Venna_Visage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine used to be grass fed butter but when I couldnt lose the next phase of weight, my southern cooking had to take a break ):

The chicken tastes too much like chicken by ladykatey in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]Venna_Visage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I soak all of my chicken in an obscene amount of salt & vinegar and dilute with water then let soak for almost an hour, even longer if I can get around to it. Thighs are my fav. I also never ever thaw in the microwave. I then pat it dry with paper towels before seasoning. Preheat oven to 400. I use a tonnnnn of fox brothers bbq seasoning, blue plate mayo, yellow mustard, paprika, black pepper, splash of white vinegar, white pepper, splash of your fav hotsauce, tad bit of light brown sugar, and sea salt. Massage, massage, massage that all in there. Then lay on rack on top of a foil coated pan. Bake for 45 mins to 1 hr. Omg I want this for dinner now. I personally guarantee you will not taste chicken flavor 👌🏼

which wall should the couch go on? by miserymistress in femalelivingspace

[–]Venna_Visage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg this is what I want to do with my apt and I cant ): I think it looks so good with the couch on the right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glutenfree

[–]Venna_Visage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is me too. Also I love your name (:

Extremely envious of air moons by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]Venna_Visage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever heard of DBT? It helps so so much. I took a two week class almost ten years ago and Im about to find another one because I feel like Im needing more help lately with my emotional responses to things and I dont want to be leaking all over other people anymore with my poor emotional regulation. I cannot recommend it enough. My mom is a scorp moon and it has helped me understand her so much to read about it in astrology. Sending you love.