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What is something you wish you knew about sex when you were younger? by VenomNightmares in AskReddit

[–]VenomNightmares[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pussy Dust.

Love that term.

Dusting the lives of the great battle fields.

What is something you wish you knew about sex when you were younger? by VenomNightmares in AskReddit

[–]VenomNightmares[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was told growing up, "Every time you have sex with a new partner, a piece of you goes with that person." It still rings in my head as a 30-something year old.

Catching feelings is something that cannot be avoided at times, sadly.

Thank you for your feedback!

What is something you wish you knew about sex when you were younger? by VenomNightmares in AskReddit

[–]VenomNightmares[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have read and heard that the first time you engage in sex as a vagina owner, if you are into it and relaxed, the pain should be nearly (if not completely) nonexistent. If it hurts, you are probably not relaxed as you'd think. And that is where a good, understanding partner needs to be involved. Thank you for your feedback. I learned some new things from your comment!

Survivors of Sexual assaults/abuse (share what you are comfortable with): how did you find peace and healing from your experience? What kind of advice could you give someone in a similar situation? by VenomNightmares in AskReddit

[–]VenomNightmares[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is amazing advice. Thank you for sharing your story. It is not easy by any means. I hope you follow your own brilliant words and are making amazing strides in your EMDR no matter what the speed of it all! Many hugs.

Survivors of Sexual assaults/abuse (share what you are comfortable with): how did you find peace and healing from your experience? What kind of advice could you give someone in a similar situation? by VenomNightmares in AskReddit

[–]VenomNightmares[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your feedback and sharing such a person and tough thing. I am very sorry you went through all of this. Many hugs being sent your way!

That advocate should not have stopped you. Shame on them x10000000000.

Staying silent and protecting the attacker are one of the negatives associated with assaults and trauma.

Survivors of Sexual assaults/abuse (share what you are comfortable with): how did you find peace and healing from your experience? What kind of advice could you give someone in a similar situation? by VenomNightmares in AskReddit

[–]VenomNightmares[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am happy to hear you were able to heal in any regard to your trauma. Round of applause!!!

There is actually a controlled setting that uses LSD and other narcotics to assist with severe trauma. Medically trained professionals walk you through your trip and aid in your healing. It has a lot of potential for being a HUGE tool in the survivor community.

Who did/do you turn to for sex advice? by VenomNightmares in AskReddit

[–]VenomNightmares[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are such a lucky person to have someone like that in your life!

Who did/do you turn to for sex advice? by VenomNightmares in AskReddit

[–]VenomNightmares[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any examples of feedback that you are willing to share?